Whoever you choose, you have to get hurt, you can t have both, it s so sad

Updated on society 2024-05-12
50 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Second, when you don't like a person, all you think about is how to dump him, and you can't tolerate it, everyone is tired.

    It's right to follow the direction of your heart, I have had the same experience as you, I chose the second one, I am very happy now, you miss the first one not because of love, but because he is good to you, so it's just a selfish idea.

    The first one will have his own real princess in the future, and he will slowly forget about you and have his own true happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Choose the previous one, you know? If two people know each other too well, it's like a mirror, and you're not interested at all, of course, you may feel very happy at the beginning, but as the days go by, that kind of blandness is even more unbearable. And two different people, on the contrary, although there will be quarrels, but the relationship will become more and more stable, and you will slowly get to know each other.

    And one last thing ... You're too spent, aren't you? Sweat.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    What you choose is love, and what he waits for is love.

    It's not your sympathy, it's not your pity.

    He's a man and he's a man, and they can understand you.

    They all know what they're going to do and when.

    It's just that this endless wait is something they can't afford.

    Give them a result.

    But you have to remember that once you make a decision, you don't regret it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's not okay to quarrel a lot, and when love turns into affection, it may be divided, so I still recommend choosing the latter.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Choice is a cruel game, no matter how difficult it is, it is still inseparable from everything you have to face.

    Because there are many questions that are unanswered, and many things are fruitless ......

    So, people. You can choose to keep the wait, silently watch the ......

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's not easy to find someone who truly loves you, make a decision quickly, it will hurt more after a long time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Ask yourself what you really like.

    Also, make a decision as soon as possible and don't hurt the other person, who is very innocent.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If your heart is firm enough.

    No one can come and hurt you.

    If you are hurt, you must first make yourself stronger.

    Otherwise, you will always be hurt by others.

    Be strong.

    Even if you are alone, you can go on.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You must have also been hit with a fatal blow emotionally, and I, like you, were hurt. I don't know if there is true love in this world, why my efforts are exchanged for ruthless betrayal in the end, so sad.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you don't want to be hurt, you have to be silent.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    What happened to you? It's worrying!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Do you want to be comforted?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The problems you encountered, I also encountered, the same experience is not the same mentality, I am now a lot calmer, there is a saying that love him is to make him happy, if he chooses not you, it means that you are not the happiness he wants, he is gone, said that he will come back, indicating that he needs time to think, then you can give him time to think clearly, give him a deadline, instead of waiting for him endlessly, missing is a torment, I understand very well!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Is this man worth your waiting, the relationship will expire.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Sober up Can you believe a man's promise A person can't even be loyal Do you still think he's a good man Slowly let go Go and contact a new man I wish you happiness.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Leave him! Despise him! Don't want him when you come back!!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Go to Foxconn, it's convenient to jump off the building.

    If you feel that it is not right, then live well! Brother, no one can live without him, and there is still a long way to go! If she hadn't been like this, she might have been better off.

    Work hard for your career! You're going to live on the streets now, how can a woman like a poor boy like you? Be realistic.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Boy, you can afford to put it down, maybe you have paid too much, of course you will be sad, if this city gives you too much regret and sadness, then leave! Choose a city you like and start over. Beipiao - Beijing! Beijing!!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I suggest you listen to Dick Cowboy sailors, look for the next port, live like a person, live better, show her, let her know, give up on you is her mistake. I hope you find what you really want in your life as soon as possible!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In this way, this girl may not be suitable for you, so quickly put down the burden and find a new starting point in life!

    Man, if you want to live, you must first live! Isn't there a saying that "there is no grass at the end of the world"?

    There is another sentence, can't a living person suffocate urine to death, why hang himself on a tree?!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you want to be stable, you should be in the original company, and those who have just gotten married should consider this first. Human affection is also troublesome. But I think you should go over, because most businesses have been profitable in recent years, except for the financial turmoil when the black is in the dark.

    The world is impermanent, how can everything go well, do you want to keep your current salary and stay in the original company, or go to a new company to break through it depends on your choice, anyway, the salary on both sides is the same. Being a man always has to be a little hopeful, and sending carbon in the snow is always 10,000 times better than icing on the cake.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Look at your own choice, everything is done only after you have determined it, only in this way can you do better, it is recommended that you consider it holistically and make the final choice for yourself.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think I can just tell that brother.

    If you're really a friend, you should be considerate of your difficulties.

    For your sake.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In fact, the most important thing is what you think, right? Feelings are not sympathy!!

    First of all, your first girl (the one you like), since you try hard, she won't come back to you, just scolded her for you, won't they be together? Do you know of any other reasons? It would be better to calmly figure out what the two people were thinking.

    There is a second one (like you), how could you just agree to date the girl you love when you broke up, you are not responsible for the three of you! I understand that you must have agreed out of helplessness and emptiness!

    I wish you happiness

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Explain everything to the girl she is now.

    Obviously, you still like the previous one, and the former she still has room for you, otherwise she won't break up but still give it often.

    You call, text.

    Try harder and try to get back together with her!

    Touch her with your sincerity!

    It's not easy to find someone you really like in the world!

    good luck !

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I don't approve of you doing this, why don't you like it, and you have to be good with others If you can't get together in the end, then you hurt the girl who loves you even more, and now that you've done it, imagine for yourself that if you still can't let go of which girl you like, then hurry up and make a result with which girl you don't like.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Choose the one you love, me.

    I'm afraid of hurting another one I don't love (her heart.

    Hurt by her ex-boyfriend), and beloved her.

    Won't come back to me and choose what you don't love.

    She, I'm sad again, I lost my beloved.

    People, because she loves me, I am afraid of hurting my beloved.

    Person. Life is not a choice at that time.

    What else do you choose to eat at a meal? And what about marriage?

    If you break up, then don't be nostalgic anymore, no matter how much the past is, it will be a good memory in the end, and it will not become her by her side again. If you want to break up and live your own life, then just live your own life and treat her as an ordinary friend, isn't it great? Why embarrass yourself and bitter the hearts of two women.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Follow! However, I personally recommend not pulling and pulling, which is the easiest to hurt everyone, including yourself!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Since you know that the girl you love is a bit messy, you shouldn't be good with him anymore, even if he wants to be good with you, don't be good with him, although you love him, otherwise the painful days are ahead, and he will be even more unscrupulous when he gets married, and then you will regret it, as for this, if you don't love him, don't force it, otherwise you will be very miserable in the future, and you will think twice. It's best to calm down for a while, sort out your thoughts, and then make a decision, and I wish you the best of luck finding your partner.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you don't love that girl.

    What do you associate with her In an agitated mood, yesterday, I replied.

    If you have a sister and you don't see things being fair to her at all, it's better to make it clear that if you don't tell me about it tomorrow you're going to die.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Hehe, follow the feeling, I don't think you can go wrong.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's another big carrot.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Then what are you scolding her for? If she doesn't get along with you, do you have to get someone to be good? If you don't get along with people, you'll die, huh?

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    When two women fall in love with a man at the same time, the one who loves deeply will be the first to withdraw.

    When two men fall in love with a woman at the same time, the one who loves lightly will be the first to withdraw.

    Think for yourself

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Let's go together, don't miss the opportunity.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Then you can die. It's good to be dead.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Then you're the one who chooses both! It's normal to have more men and women.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Here's how to do this:

    1.Don't have one or the other, pick the best 2Neither.

    3.Go on a trip sober and sober.

    4.Test which one loves you more.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Keep it as it is, girls, maybe they won't mind men's plays, but it's really bad for everyone.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Hehe! Peach blossom luck is good, but you have to make a decision in time, you must, otherwise you won't get any of them in the end! It will break their hearts, so it's too late to cry when the time comes.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Hehe, it's the same situation as the person I like now.

    Sure, it's hard.

    I am very considerate of him, and that is also the one he used to love them for three years, but now I really can't let go of him, but I want him to be happy.

    So, in the end, I chose to give up, and my giving up doesn't mean that I don't love him anymore, it's just that I don't want him to be miserable and sad.

    I don't think he'll have any regrets, before he leaves us, because he's going out and developing. I don't want to miss him. I don't want him to be embarrassed by his career and relationships.

    Will he be moved when I leave? Will you miss me?

    The woman was very selfish, she only knew her own thoughts, and she told me that she would win. So I don't want her to be disappointed either.

    I may have made the right departure.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Brother: Since she has made it so clear that she doesn't love you, no matter how many more than 4,000 candles and 999 roses you put up, it shouldn't help

    I know your feelings very well, since you have made so many efforts, I know that you must care about her very much and cherish this relationship, I am very touched when I see it.

    But she's really ruthless If you want to redeem it, call her ** and ask if there is any emotional conflict between the two of you, or if she is angry with you. If she really doesn't love you anymore (after all, it's not strange that she knows other boys outside), I advise you to let go as soon as possible, because love is for two people, if it's just a one-sided effort, and the other party turns a blind eye to it and doesn't feel anything, is this still called love? If one party is completely free and has no nostalgia, why should the other party be entangled and sad alone?

    Alas, do you know that there will be more than 20,000 suitable partners in a person's life Don't be sad for her, put your unforgettable relationship with her in your heart and in your memories, such a good boy, you will get happiness I hope you will find the one you love and love you as soon as possible, hehe Come on...

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Hit sometimes you have to have it, and hit when you don't have to force it. What is yours is yours, and what is not yours you will never get it. Let it go, she really doesn't love you, are you like this for someone who doesn't love you? Let tears and time help you solve this problem.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Is this love? Is this love?

    If you want to cry, just cry, if you hurt him, what would he do? Unknown.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    You're really good, but it's a pity she doesn't understand. Find someone who understands you.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    If it's still possible, then go back to what you gave up before, if it's not possible, then you go back to recreate memories and avoid things that make you recall, such as not listening to these songs, etc., time is the best medicine. Come on! Finally, I wish you happiness!

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Yes, it takes a lot of courage to give up. Don't force it, just let it be.

    I'm in a similar situation to you. If you can't let it go, and you can't be together again, it will be very painful.

    The highest state of loving a person is that the other person can be happy, whether they are with themselves or not, bless him. Give him time, give him freedom. If you can be together, you won't be separated.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Then don't listen to it.

    Let's have some fun listening and take your time.

    There is no wound that can not be timed.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    If it can't be recovered. If you can't go back, just enough pain at once, don't worry about it anymore.

    Perhaps time is the best antidote

    Reminiscing about the good past is certainly sad compared to the current situation.

    It might be better to find something to do that allows you to shift your mind.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Change your habits, leave the place where two people share memories for a while, go out for a walk, go sightseeing, and you will find that life is still wonderful without him or her.

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