What is the fundamental reason why most people choose flash marriages nowadays?

It is that when you reach the age of marriage stipulated by the world, at this time, there will be countless people around you to remind you that you have to do this, and in the long run, people's emotions will become anxious, and it is easier to be impulsive in doing things, so they will choose flash marriage.

The fundamental reason is that they don't want to spend time getting to know a person at all, and it often takes a long time to get to know each other in depth, so they choose a flash marriage.

We know that trends are the easiest to get out of style, so flash marriages are also the easiest to divorce. Because of his age, his family is urging him to get married, and there is no suitable partner. You can only go on a blind date, and if it's suitable, you can get married. ‍‍

Many people choose flash marriage, which shows that flash marriage is a social problem. Nowadays, the pace of society is so fast, young people will face employment after graduation, and their families will chase and urge them to get married and have children when they are just employed, and many unpredictable problems continue to appear during this period. So many people don't want to waste a lot of time in love with each other, so they choose flash marriage. ‍‍

Nowadays, people's thinking and concepts have changed greatly. I don't get along for a long time, as long as I feel that I am in love, I want to get married, and when I can't get along in the future, I will divorce, I feel that this is not a problem, just do whatever you want. ‍‍

I think some of the current fashion magazines and TV series are the culprits, they have deviated from the trend, making many young people mistakenly think that flash marriage is fashion and flash marriage is true love. We know that trends are the easiest to get out of style, so flash marriages are also the easiest to divorce. ‍‍

I think it's in response to the urging of parents to marry; Many parents see that their children have reached the age when they should get married, and they don't have a boyfriend or girlfriend, and they are anxious, and their children are going to work every day, and they have no time to take care of it. ‍‍

Of course, it's a consensual relationship; After being introduced by someone, or meeting by yourself, just getting along, I think it's good, I'm afraid of missing it, I get along simply, and I get married hastily. ‍‍

Nowadays, people are more impetuous, it is difficult to calm down and get along with a person, and slowly get older, and when they reach the age of marriage, they can only get married in a hurry.

I think this situation should be work stress; It's not easy to have a good job, and there is no time to fall in love at all. ‍‍

is older, or the family is tight, or because of busy work, there is no time to fall in love.

Get married first and then fall in love. Maybe it's also a new way. It is also possible to find very good friends.

It's more emotional to be a person first, and the purpose of choosing a flash marriage is to be afraid that you won't be able to eat the food in hand.

Marriage is becoming more and more market-oriented.

I think most people who get married in a flash should regret it, because they didn't know some information about each other before the flash marriage.

I don't think so. Because some people are doing well after they get married, and they don't regret it.

Yes. Because flash marriages lack a stable emotional foundation, and most of them are impulsive, most of them will regret it.

In today's life, many people will choose such a way as flash marriage. There are some different reasons for flash marriage, but most of the reasons are because they like each other very much and have reached an age of marriage. Or maybe they are already unmarried and pregnant, so they will choose to get married.

Normally, I don't think I'll get married in a flash, but if I have to get married, it's probably because I went on a blind date. I don't recommend flash marriage, because flash marriage is not good for him to get married without knowing each other.

One. Most people have the reason for flash marriage.

The number of flash marriages is actually relatively small in the overall proportion, but there are some. The first reason for flash marriage is a young couple, they may have reached a marriage age, and they happen to be in love with each other, so they take advantage of the situation to end the marriage. This is equivalent to a direct marriage to make a vow.

There is also a second way, there are a lot of young people, they may be unmarried and pregnant, then the woman needs the man to be responsible after pregnancy, so they will get married quickly.

Two. My Reason for Flash Marriage.

I want to guess that the reason for my flash marriage should be that I will get married because of a blind date. Because if I wasn't in a hurry to get married, I wouldn't have gotten married. Because I've always been more opposed to flash marriages.

And it turns out that flash marriage is often relatively unreliable, and there will be a lot of contradictions after marriage.

Three. Flash marriages are not recommended.

I don't recommend that you choose such a way as a flash marriage. Especially the way to get married in a flash when you are in love, I think it is more wrong. Of course, this is viewed from Li Xin's perspective, not from an emotional perspective.

Because flash marriage means that you don't get along with each other for a long time, then you definitely don't know what the real person is like. It is very likely that after a few years of marriage, he shows his true colors, which will make your relationship very bad, or even divorced.

1. Not knowing each other well enough

Because it is a flash marriage, the time spent together must be very short. It takes at least a year or two for most people to fall in love and get married. The longer the time, the stronger the emotional foundation and the more understanding the other person will be.

When you get to know each other well enough and then walk into the marriage hall together, then your married life will always have a tacit understanding. However, if you choose a flash marriage directly, it means that your relationship will not be very deep, and you don't know each other well enough. At this time, your married life often leads to a lot of conflicts because you don't know each other well enough.

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Second, the novelty quickly faded

In the process of falling in love, there are periods of hot love and cold love. When you are in love, you want to see each other every day and insist on communicating with each other every day, but what about in the cold period? Countless times I thought about breaking up with each other, especially for young people, so that the novelty will quickly disappear, and the last thing to maintain a marriage is mutual understanding and tolerance.

However, if you choose a flash marriage, the novelty in the marital life notice will disappear quickly, which will make your life very boring, and you may regret choosing a flash marriage.

3. It may not be recognized by family friends

Of course, your family wants you to be happy. If you choose a flash marriage, your partner may not be approved by the family for a while. Because they want you to spend more time together so that you can get to know each other well enough to see if you are fit to get married and can spend the rest of your life together.

However, if you choose to get married in the first place, your partner may not be approved by your family.

These people fundamentally believe that this is the ultimate means of controlling each other, and once this means has no way to control each other, then the marriage is extremely dangerous. In fact, it is not easy for two people to get married, and they have to go through a relatively long stage.

First of all, from the acquaintance of two people to the gradual familiarity, and then to the gradual exploration, to the living habits of the other party and the financial situation of the other party's relatives and families, etc.

These are all things that need to be understood before getting married, so that two people can get married, and there will definitely be a huge risk in that kind of flash marriage, but after two people get married, that is to say, many things are realized.

When he gets married in real life, you will find that firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea surround you, making you feel that there is not only feelings in life, but a piece of chicken feathers in the life you face.

You need to face what you eat every day, what you drink every day, wash the floor every day, wash your clothes every day, who dries your clothes every day, etc., so many things need to be faced by you, and it turns out that there are people who do them at home.

Now when you need both of you to bear it, it's a very bad feeling, so two people, there is a feeling of controlling each other. But in fact, after two people get married, they should quickly enter the state of life, and after a while, two people will have children, we all want to live a better life, in fact, if you are divorced and want to get married again, it is not necessarily good to get married again, so it is better to live a good life.

The main reason for many people's flash marriages is despair of love and compromise on life.

There is a saying that "when you want to forget a relationship, either find a new person to replace you, or let time slowly forget". And most people can't bear the pain of falling out of love, so they choose to find a new person to replace them, this kind of person is the easiest to get married.

They don't really have such a big desire for marriage, it's just that the departure of his ex made him think that he would not meet love again, since they are all marriages without love, so why not find someone to marry earlier,Not only have you completed the major events in your life, but you don't have to bear the pain of falling out of loveWhy not.

There is another category of people who arewas scared by the family's urging to get married, so he compromised。I listened to my family's words and went on a blind date, and I married each other before I understood it clearly. In fact, they are not in a hurry to get married, but to gag their families.

I thought to myself, "As long as I'm married, you can stop nagging."

Although flash marriage is a personal choice, I have to advise everyone to be cautious about flash marriage.

Marriage is a major event in life, and some people say that marriage is the second reincarnation. A woman marrying the right husband is equivalent to a good baby, and a man marrying the right wife can not only have a harmonious family, but also benefit future generations. So when it comes to getting married, don't really think that it's just going to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a certificate.

Marriage is different from love, love is that you can choose to break up when you are satisfied, and no matter how much trouble you make, it is a matter for two couples. But marriage is a matter of two families, once you enter the marriage, there will be more factors to consider, many people feel wrong after marriage, but they will still choose to be patient, because he will consider the feelings of both parents, considering the growth of the child, and would rather wronged himself to go on with this marriage.

Although marriage is a gamble, you should also get to know each other better and improve your chances before gambling.

There are many reasons that will lead to more and more people getting married, such as one party has good economic conditions, good personality, or is older.

There are many reasons for flash marriage, first of all, two people meet for the first time and fall in love at first sight, or the strength of the two families is equal, and at the same time, two young people may be busy with work and other reasons, and have no time to fall in love, so they choose flash marriage, so that they can slowly understand each other after marriage, but it is often irresponsible for each other's marriage, and it is also the best way to get married.

Because the pressure on marriage is getting bigger and bigger, because the pressure on life is getting bigger and bigger, because young people don't pay special attention to marriage, and because people don't pay special attention to feelings.

Feelings are always the sweetest at the beginning. So in the face of feelings, many people choose to get married at the best time. Don't leave yourself with worries.

That's because many people are impulsive, and they are also closer to love at first sight and don't understand each other, so they will get married.