Why don t most people talk about love now, tell me why?

It's not that they don't fall in love, it's that most people haven't met the right person, feelings can't be forced, and many people are unwilling to settle for love, so it leads to the emergence of the phenomenon of reluctance to fall in love.

Because nowadays love is generally fast-food love. It's hard to spend so much time waiting for someone to go through the years and the polishing of life with him, and support each other for the rest of your life? Everyone thinks that since it's so difficult, why don't you live your life well?

What kind of love are you talking about?

Because they can't get anything in return, many girls are now money worshippers, just thinking about living a good life with a house and a car, and don't want to be so troublesome in love.

Nowadays, many people are not in love anymore, it may be that they have lost their confidence in love, thinking that falling in love will only hurt themselves, and they dare not try again.

Gradually there are fewer people who believe in love. Life is busy, and it is not allowed to use love to enrich life.

The current era is developing too fast, everyone is very busy, it is too troublesome to fall in love, and it is more convenient to talk about money directly.

I don't find that there are many people who don't fall in love anymore, but there are some of them who are really not positive, because they have experienced too much love, and they are really a little tired.

It's really troublesome to fall in love, two people with different personalities will often quarrel, and they will have a lot of constraints and troubles for themselves.

What many people don't fall in love now, because falling in love is a matter of time, cost, and energy.

Third, it is more important to feel appropriate. Of course, I think this group is the majority, because my personal experience tells me that as we get older, our view of love will really change accordingly. In the past, when I was young, I might have really opened my mouth and closed my mouth to love, but even if I didn't even understand what love was at that time, everyone would still say this.

And when I get older, I understand what it means to really like and really love, but I don't say much. Because at this time, everyone will feel that love sometimes can't go far, but it is suitable to make two people go further.

Many people are reluctant to talk about love because their love life is not happy, so they are reluctant to talk about it in public.

Because the cost of falling in love is too high, I don't want to take the initiative to choose a relationship, and when love takes the initiative and retreats, this is not the status quo of contemporary people. No one doesn't want to be in love, it's just that there are too many material factors to worry about in the adult world.

Because one gets used to it, it may be better, and suddenly having one more person in your life will only disrupt your life. This will leave you unprepared. You don't need to care about other people's opinions, and you don't need to look at other people's faces to do things, as long as you are happy, it is the best.

Although it is said that love without the purpose of marriage is a hooligan, not every serious love can finally enter into marriage! At the beginning of love, they all hope for a happy ending, and sometimes in the end, the negotiation of the two families at the time of marriage is a big obstacle!

Because some people feel that love no longer exists, they don't discuss love. Maybe I don't believe in love! It may also feel that love is too far away from you, or it may feel that love does not exist at all.

Hello, there are too many reasons for this, such as having lost confidence in love, for example, his friends are not in a good relationship, or that the environment in which he lives has seen too many emotional stories, so he slowly loses his feelings. Perhaps, it was he himself who had experienced a failed relationship, so he was disappointed.

Nowadays, many young people are not in love, that is because they are under a lot of pressure at work, so they do not have time to fall in love, and relatively speaking, such topics will become rare.

Nowadays, the pace of life is relatively fast, everyone will become more impetuous, and more willing to pursue their own individuality. Therefore, they are not willing to let time slow down and have a good relationship.

Love also needs to be felt, I want to find someone I like to live a lifetime, but I just can't meet the person I want. Usually work is very busy, there is no time to go out to meet people outside, the circle is too small is also the reason not to fall in love, because I didn't meet the person I fell in love with at first sight, so I can't settle, and it's still very painful to fall in love.

Now many people don't talk about love anymore, because love is a luxury, not all people have good luck to meet real love, it doesn't matter if you don't talk about it, but love is too rare.

Because falling in love is very tiring, especially in the current environment, people are pursuing material life, including falling in love, they are always entangled by some material desires, and there is too little simple love.

Nowadays, many people don't talk about love anymore, because they have been hurt in love, so they are afraid of losing love, and I think that as long as they are brave enough to pursue it, they will get happiness.

Because many people don't get a sweet feeling in love, or they don't get a particularly good relationship, or they are in a state of falling out of love, many people are reluctant to fall in love, just because they feel that they don't deserve love now.

Maybe many people have been disappointed in love, or they have not gotten the result they want for love, so they are reluctant to talk about love at this time, because they no longer have such a good hope for love.

Because many people will feel that talking about love will make them feel very hard, and love is a special luxury for many people. Because many people have been hurt too much because of love.

I don't want to fall in love, because I think it's good to be alone, and I won't share our life with my family, because I feel that I can digest things by myself, and the emotions of work can be relieved by myself, and the pressure is also through by myself.

Many people are busy with their careers now, and many people feel that talking about love is a waste of their time, so they choose to marry on a blind date after their careers are stable.

A lot of people don't talk about love anymore. Because there is a price to pay for love. It also needs a certain material basis. When a person does not have a good job, it is considered unworthy of love.

Because as we grow older and have some disappointment in love, we don't want to talk about love anymore, we haven't had her ourselves, so how can we talk about her? Love is always a game played by others, and we can never get the love we deserve.

The reason why many people don't talk about love now is that they haven't found a true love that belongs to them, and if one day they find someone they really like, it may be more about working hard for love.

I'm still cautiously optimistic about marriage and love:

1.Believe in true love. Sincere feelings and love still exist, but they are difficult to find and maintain in modern society. People now have more choices and a greater sense of self than ever before, but true love is still one of life's most precious experiences to discover and cherish.

This makes the marriage more stable and also leaves room for extramarital affairs, and the two need to be balanced in reality.

3.Greater sense of freedom. Modern people are more self-conscious, no longer automatically accept the restrictions of traditional marriage concepts, and pay more attention to personal freedom and development.

4.Life is becoming more stressful. The pressure of life in modern society is increasing, and the pressure of busy work and survival is easy to disintegrate feelings and affect the quality of marriage. But the more the relationship and marriage are maintained in the face of adversity, the more prominent its value will be, which requires the joint efforts of both parties.

5.The mindset needs to be calm. In the modern environment, marriage and relationships need to be faced with a calm mind.

Neither too dx, nor too desperate, maintain positive confidence and open-mindedness. Life has its ups and downs, and relationships also need to go through hardships and then mature, which needs to be experienced and dealt with with with calmly.

So, in general, despite the complexity of the modern social environment, sincere feelings and a stable marriage are still worth pursuing. It requires a more pragmatic attitude, a stronger sense of tolerance, and a more relaxed attitude to explore and face. Under the right conditions, marriage and love remain important ways to achieve happiness and meaning in life, and this will not change.

The key is to have a correct understanding and reasonable expectations of relationships and marriages.

When someone says they don't love, there are other people's reasons, but you don't need to delve into his (her) reasons, what you should think about is whether you have any reasons. Many times when encountering problems, we always drill the tip of the horns, and slowly put a very small problem very big, which is not good, it will affect a person's character, think more about what is wrong with you, what is wrong with you. Maybe it's you hot and cold?

Maybe you're sticking too tightly? Maybe you're grumpy? Maybe you don't accompany her (him)?

When he (she) thinks that you are not as good as him (her) himself, he (she) will leave you, but if you are a perfect prince charming (Snow White), what reason do you think he (she) has not loved? Find out why.

Because little by little she broke her heart.

There are more possibilities, you may never have loved it, or you may slowly wear it away.

Maybe he has his own hardships, and how many couples have lost to reality.