How can I avoid risky behaviour in my bear child?

Usually teach your child more about paying attention to safety, so that he knows what is dangerous!

Children are more curious, and they like to do what they see their parents do. Therefore, when parents are around their children, do not do those dangerous actions, such as jumping down the stairs, etc., in front of the children.

Children are mentally immature and unable to judge the risks of their actions. Parents of children have the responsibility of guardianship, now many young parents are careless when taking care of their children, often only care about doing their own things, ignoring the guardianship of their children, children get mosquito coils, and finally drink into their mouths, there is a process here, if parents find out in time, there will not be such serious consequences.

Whether it's a boiling water bottle or laundry detergent, parents have to put away everything that may bring danger to their children. There is no need for children to be reasonable, because children can't remember at all, and they are very curious, the more parents talk, the more they want to move, and the more parents stop it, the more curious they become.

All the medicines are sorted into the medicine box and placed in a high place. And in life, we will establish an awareness for children that medicine cannot be taken casually, it is to be taken when they are sick. And not the food we can all eat on a regular basis.

Items that may endanger the physical and mental health of children should be placed in high places. In fact, not only mosquito coils, but also many things at home will cause potential threats to children's physical and mental health, such as knives, nail clippers, toothpicks and other daily necessities.

It is a headache to have a bear child at home, he will inadvertently destroy at home, and dangerous items at home must be hidden. Including medicines, especially food preservatives, must not be seen by him.

The best way to avoid dangerous behaviors is to follow him at all times.

In fact, children are very reasonable, you can buy some pictures for him to look at these dangerous things, tell him that the consequences make him psychologically afraid, he will not touch these dangerous things.

Establish a correct concept, for children, the explanation of the truth is not effective. Some parents like to be reasonable, and feel that as long as they tell their children that they can't move this or that, their children will listen. But in reality, a child's curiosity governs his behavior more than reason.

Therefore, it is not that the child is disobedient, but that the child at this stage is so curious and active.

Parents are responsible for their children's accidents because they are guardians.

The solution to avoid the bear child getting into trouble:

Method 1: Let your child know the rules.

When the child is very young, if parents can reach out their hand to constantly intervene in the child, it may be a better behavior for the child. Let the children recognize the rules of the banquet, so that the children can have their own ideas when facing some things. Otherwise, if the child has never understood the rules accordingly, then over time, the child's sense of rules will not only be understood from the beginning, but will also let the child do his own things unscrupulously, and in serious cases, it is likely to make the child a aimless person.

The second method is to make rules.

When parents can set corresponding rules for their children, children will consciously have a certain understanding of the rules, because the sense of rules can provide life safety for children.

Whenever summer comes, children are likely to want to play, in the water or in the mountains, because the child is curious about the outside world, so he will always go outside with his partner to play, if the parents have never made the corresponding rules for the child, then the child will not only play unscrupulously, at the same time, the danger in front of the child may never be understood accordingly, thus increasing the chance of injury. Therefore, the sense of making rules is to be able to provide corresponding life support for children.

Method 3: Cultivating rules.

After the child knows and sets the sense of rules, the child will have a certain understanding of the sense of rules. If parents can cultivate their children's sense of rules from an early age, then over time, children will have certain constraints on many bad things in their lives, so that they will be orderly when doing certain things.

As the saying goes, "the son is not the fault of the father," many times, behind a bear child there is a more bear parent. As a parent, when you see your child's inappropriate behavior, you should stop it immediately, rather than indulging your child's mistakes. ”

For each child of different ages, we also need to have corresponding measures.

0 2 years old: Children in this period often make mistakes, and we have long been used to it, because they do not recognize the difference between right and wrong, and they are indeed in a situation where right and wrong are not distinguished. At this time, we need to guide the child's development correctly, and we cannot punish the child at will.

Long-term blaming of children is easy to affect the normal psychological development of children, and when children make mistakes at this stage, we just need to tell children what is right and what is wrong, which is enough.

2 5 years old: Children at this age have also begun to establish a correct concept of right and wrong, in the face of children doing wrong things, we only need to point out the child's mistakes, correct the mistakes is enough, still do not blame the child. If we blame the child, the child at this age is in the first period of rebellion, and we blame the child will only increase the child's rebellious mentality, and will make the child work against us.

For example, if we ask your child not to play indoors, your child may deliberately play indoors when you are not at home.

5 12 years old: By the time children reach the age of 5, they are able to recognize their mistakes and understand what they can and cannot do. Belong, if they make mistakes at this age, it means that they are knowingly making mistakes, so when children make mistakes, it is best not to blame children, but let children learn to take responsibility for their own mistakes after they make mistakes, which is what children need to do after the age of 5, and it is necessary for children to bear mistakes alone.

I sincerely hope to help you, and I wish you a happy life! If you think it will be helpful to you, please give it a good review! Thank you!

In the face of bear children, society also needs to react. Minors are the flowers of the motherland, and they naturally need to be watered and cared for by the public. When faced with distress caused by the child's misconduct, the person concerned should give the child an appropriate verbal warning and actively communicate with the child's guardian so that the child is aware of his or her wrongdoing and sincerely apologize to the offended person.

If parents let their children's behavior go unchecked, they need to contact relevant staff to criticize and educate parents, so that "bear parents" are aware of their own educational problems.

Rather than correcting the behavior of the "bear child" after the problem has arisen, it is better to prevent it at the root. Schools should undertake the responsibility of teaching and educating people, and while imparting knowledge, they should not forget to carry out moral quality education, so as to establish a correct view of right and wrong and foolishness, so that they can have a sense of morality and shame. The community should also actively carry out publicity and education, create a good moral atmosphere, so that parents and children can imperceptibly bid farewell to the "bear" characteristic.

"Bear children" should not be let go, and "bear parents" should not know that they should use age as a fig leaf for their own failed education. Only when the whole society improves its self-moral awareness and realizes the harm and problems behind the behavior of "bear children" on the back of the stool, can the "bear parents" have no excuse for exculpation, and the children can have good behavior "references" and get healthy education and guidance.

During the Chinese New Year, a parent sent me a WeChat, he met a bear child at a friend's house, the child was about seven years old, he poured a drink into the parent's shoes, and when he stopped him, he also spilled the rest of the drink on the parent, the child's mother chatted with others not far away, and he didn't care about teaching him when he saw it, and the parent only symbolically said a few words about the child at a friend's house, and then asked me if I wanted to teach him a lesson in this situation.

Engaged in the education industry for so many years, I have met a lot of this type of children, in fact, a child is not born a bear child, the reason why he became like this, and his family environment is a lot of relationship, parents, relatives do not teach, connivance, shielding is the most direct cause of these children's willfulness, in fact, bear children are not terrible, the right way of education can still allow them to correct it, the most terrible bear parents, the reason why children are disobedient are caused by adults, in this society, The bear children brought out by the bear parents will indeed face this sad situation.

So if this parent encounters such a problem again. I think it's better to teach him a lesson, to make him understand that you caused the problem. You should bear the consequences of the incident, let him remember that his parents can't help you deal with the aftermath forever, and they can't protect you for the rest of their lives, and I believe that he will never dare to do this again through this lesson.

But then you may also meet a bear parent, this is the most difficult to deal with, the bear child can be educated, there can be room and opportunity for correction, but the bear parent is the most difficult to change, there is a bear parent will educate the bear child, because even he himself feels that his child is not at fault, and even justified, this situation requires all of us to resist his behavior, so that things can be alleviated.

Here I also propose two methods, I hope to help you.

1. In the face of bear children, we need to be calm and patient. When some children are bad, many people will deal with it in a violent way. It is to insult or hit them, although sometimes this method has an immediate effect, but in the long run it will not solve the problem fundamentally, and even more so the more angry you are, the more children will fight against you, so we must first calm down and persuade them patiently.

2. As parents, they should lead by example. There is a saying that "three years old is eighty", children have a strong ability to learn and imitate, parents' behavior to a large extent affects their children, the upper beam is not right and the lower beam is crooked, so parents must lead by example, words are not as good as example, in the daily bits and pieces to make a good example of good behavior for children. If you have encountered a similar problem, there is a better solution, you can leave a message and communicate with us.

There are many aspects, but the main thing is to guide them correctly, you can try to follow their path, so that he has no way out, so that he realizes that he is wrong and guides him.