Falling out of love, whether to completely forget or think lightly

en..Falling out of love is a very normal and not normal period, it is impossible to forget completely, and even if there is really a love water, will you drink it? Don't you like someone unconsciously, even the pain she brings you is beautiful, everything related to her is a beautiful existence, since you like it so much, since you have really owned each other, it is enough, some likes still have to be put in your heart, because once you say it, you are afraid of being blown away by the wind.

You say that you are not mature enough, then become mature, this is a lesson she taught you, after leaving her, you must be more yourself, I wish you to come out of the pain as soon as possible, the sunshine outside is very wonderful.

Memories are indelible, faint memories are also good for each other, don't forget if you can't forget, you can't forget if you want to forget and can't forget that it's too cruel for yourself, listen to others, the best way to end a relationship is to start a new relationship, I haven't experienced it, I can only give you so many explanations.

The vicious circle of completely forgetting and not letting go will only hurt oneself and cure lovelorn love with flowers.

It is impossible to completely forget a person, and it is not the bridge in **, a car accident will cause amnesia.

The best thing to do is to keep yourself busy, many things are forgotten by us before we know it; The reason why you can't let go is because this is your first love, and you are unwilling in your heart. There are too many variables in two years, maybe what if she gets married in two years? The best thing to do is for you to find a good time to talk, if there is no drama, forget it, after all, there is no point in dwelling on it any longer.

Feelings are a matter of two people, and a slap in the face can't make a sound.

Although my words are a little ugly, but think about it yourself, do you want to get back together with her, is it because of your unwillingness or because of something else?

Find a new one.,This will slowly fade away.。。。 Believe in time, the thing that destroys everything ...

Some people have lived all their lives, fought all their lives, and they live well as singles. It only takes 21 days to change a habit.

There are some things you want to forget but can't forget, there are some things you want to remember but you forget in silence, love is the same, you have loved deeply, it is impossible to forget, so you can take her as the best memory, cry out when you are sad, sleep when you are tired of crying, recall that you are happy and your face will still smile faintly, you have to be able to take it and put it down.

It's painful, but it's beautiful, and it's a feeling to remember.

Completely forget, forget about this unpleasant experience.

The more you want to forget after falling out of love, the more you remember it, what is the reason?

The best way to truly forget something is to let it go. If you have to forget something, it can backfire, and you can remember it better. This is known as the "White Bear Effect", also known as the ** effect.

Lovelorn people try to forget to hurt their lover, but find that the image of the other person is becoming clearer and clearer, and their hearts are painful; People with insomnia try not to think about things. As a result, they are more excited, have disordered brains and are not sleepy. This phenomenon can be explained by the "white bear effect".

The more you want to forget about the broken love, the more clearly you will remember it. At the same time, you will feel very sad and even have two conflicting ideas. One is that people are free after death, and the other is that it's wrong to want to die when they break up.

It might be a good thing to think about seclusion now. I've also tried self-regulation, but I still don't think it's working. Maybe one second my mind was full of hope, but it was clear that the next second I was even having trouble breathing, which led to a lot of negative emotions.

I see you, I see your inner child, dear subject, do you know why a broken love can be so painful and helpless? This is because the awakening of a broken love, our early trauma, inspires the "sense of abandonment" of the inner child. When we are young, our survival and love come from instinct, but not all nurturers are perfect nurturers.

They may not be able to raise us like Winnicott's parents on 60 points. As a result, trauma can easily leave an early impression.

People who are out of love inevitably suffer real pain. Since this is inevitable, the best thing to do is to face it bravely. You've already faced it directly.

After facing it head-on, the energy will change, and it will be easier to get out of the ocean of broken love. Hold a lovelorn ceremony. Burning or deleting each other's **, letters, etc., is like a ritual of mourning the loss of love.

Again, there is a lot of energy in this act that will eventually lead you to a place of peace. Love your heart, not your outward.

The best way to truly forget something is to let it go. Don't forget anything. Pay attention to your daily life and work.

It will disappear after a long time. We can only try to remember that forgetting can only follow nature, which is the law of thinking. Going with the flow is the best way to live.

This is actually a psychological effect, the more you want to forget another person, the deeper the impression of the other person in your mind, usually don't think about the other person, and don't deliberately let yourself forget a thing or a person.

It's because you're used to it, and if you want to forget someone, you can't deliberately remind yourself, and if you deliberately remind yourself to forget him, you'll think of him, but you'll remember him better.

This is because you have given a lot to this relationship, you have given time, money, energy, and effort, so it is difficult for you to forget.