I completely forgot about her! How am I going to forget her?!! I m really miserable. Ask for advice!

Updated on psychology 2024-05-06
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Time, time is the best way to heal, as time goes by, you will definitely forget about him, or you have to work hard, find a way to divert your attention, this is okay, but you can't go to find a girlfriend, because you are looking for someone who is likely to be hurt even more, I wish you happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You won't succeed, look at what you said, it must be contradictory, let's chase her, look at you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't forget, and the truth is that no one can forget who is in their hearts. Whether it is bitter or happy, it will become an irreplaceable scenery in my heart. Naturally, I used to be so anxious that I couldn't take it anymore, but I just got over like that. You will too.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Brother, I have also had this experience, when she becomes a part of your life, it becomes your habit, and suddenly let go, there will be a feeling that you can't accept living alone, but you have to be alone, it's really sad! I want to forget her....But it's like the brother above said! Can't forget!

    In the end, my hard work and perseverance got the result I wanted, and we were together again! I worked hard and I persevered because I felt worth it for her!! If you still have concerns in your heart, don't give up!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Forget it, forget it and it's clean. And be happy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hehe. I asked a question yesterday

    The pain of a man's lovelorn is still the woman's lovelorn pain

    Whoever uses more feelings, who hurts.

    However, in the usual relationship, girls will be more likely to be emotionally invested than boys, and after being injured, girls' methods will be more extreme, so it will make people feel that girls are more painful, in fact, in some cases, boys will be more painful, but the man hides it in his heart and silently blesses her.

    Obviously the woman doesn't like you, you give up on her, don't be sad for him

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Just a woman. You're a fan of the authorities now, so you can't let it go and forget it.

    When you meet better people, you will find that your current troubles are all floating clouds.

    I've had a similar experience to you, and I'll teach you a solution.

    You ask her out, and the two of you face to face make it clear, and say all the big things you said to her in person.

    See what her reaction is. If she still loves you, then you continue, and if she says to divide, then you divide.

    But I look at your situation, I guess she will say it. After dividing it, delete all the things related to her.

    Over time, you'll forget about it. Give it a try. I wish you a speedy escape from the sea of suffering!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Seeing her attitude towards you, it seems that there is no hope for you anymore, to be a woman. When you don't care about what she does, then it proves that she doesn't care about you, or that is.

    Didn't take you seriously at all. I think so, when a girl, her boyfriend doesn't care about what she does, it's really no fun, and in the end I still advise you to give up, after all, it's you who are sorry for her first.

    Can't blame her. But, then again, a girl who can't forgive her boyfriend for a small mistake once or twice is not a good boy either. It's useless to ask for it, I'm afraid I'll bring you a green hat in the future,.

    I hope you adopt, thanks.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Dude, now my problem is the same as yours, although it has not reached the point of yours, but our relationship is about to come to an end, and I am about to face the same problem with you, if I can't forget how half, I have also thought about it for a long time, I think if I really can't forget someone, it's because I haven't met someone yet, I suggest that you try to remember less about her things, you find some dating parties in the same city online, or travel, or spend money to participate in some TV shows to find a partner. Make more friends of the opposite sex, make friends of the opposite sex, and when you meet a new love, you will forget the previous person, because only happiness can forget the pain.

    Hope it helps.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you can't get it, you think it's the best, just like buying something, and you are hesitant at first, whether to buy it or not to buy it? The next time I go there again, I still hesitate, it doesn't seem to be so good. When I went again, I found that it was sold out, and I regretted it, and I should have bought it a long time ago.

    In my opinion, you better let it go. This will not be happy, the more you chase after her, the more annoying she becomes. You'd better not give her any news all of a sudden, and if she has you in her heart, she'll look for you.

    If she doesn't look for you all the time, I don't think it's useful to chase you. Waste time, money, energy, you're still young, and you'll find it ridiculous in a few years. Just think about it, can you really be happy when you come together?

    But then again, I have to turn the corner and think about it, or it's useless for anyone to say, and some of the people who have entered the dead end are self-harming and some committing suicide. It's not worth it for others to look at it, but the parties are fascinated.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Maybe you feel guilty about her. Would love to make it up to her. Doesn't that make you feel better?

    You say you love her very much. But looking at your description above makes it feel like you're atoning for your sins. If she doesn't love you and ignores you, it means that she and you are no longer possible.

    And if you really love her, you shouldn't bother her. Because such love is too heavy. It's saying you've done enough for what you've done.

    You don't have to get along with yourself anymore. It should be forward. Don't live in the past anymore.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Brother, it's a hard-working person, I can tell you that you're now in 22, don't be in a hurry to concentrate on the pursuit, but you have to rely on your own strength to pursue, if you use your parents' money to chase her, he feels in his heart that someone will say that she worships money, so you have to be independent first, I think you give him the feeling that he should be "insecure", so you must do things steadily, mistakes can not be made in the future, you give her something she accepted, it is estimated that she is angry with you, if she feels that there is no play, she should decisively cut off contact with you, From this point, it can be seen that there should still be feelings for you, brother, continue to work hard, not only chasing girlfriends and studying hard. I'm optimistic about you, come on!!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Understand that in fact, it's time for you to let go, yours she is very tired of you, no matter what you do, she will only feel annoyed and annoying, even if you do more and better, it's the same. So, you can choose to make your time fuller, I won't just say good things, if you are addicted to a game, it will be of great help to you, although this may not be a good way, the best way is to start a new relationship This, is the best way, and then soon, you will find that you are not as inseparable from her as you think Thank you for typing so many words Cai Na.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's hard not to be attached to a girl you love deeply, and it's hard to forget. Now that she has made this gesture, she is not afraid that you will hate it. You just keep going like this, and you'll let go when you've hurt enough.

    Of course, it is not excluded that she wants to try you, and I personally think that it is not bad to stick to it anyway, time, money, and just bet on this love.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    She's a self-centered person. It's okay if there is no contradiction, there is something, she will not hesitate to cut you away. She doesn't really care about you, she hasn't cared since the beginning.

    If she really cares about you, she doesn't mind if you step on, of course she will say it stinks. You really her off.,You're cheeky and coaxing her to be satisfied.。。 It's all like that now, who's really true with whom!

    Elementary school students also need to be true. There are really ones who will be left alone.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Continue, there will be results after all, if it is done, everyone is happy, and if it is not, you will not regret working hard for love.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    That one.

    I said, "It's better to break up, it's not worth it, hey!" If she really loves you, you can just look at her indifference.

    I'm sure you must know it, okay - I'll you - you use your efforts to prove it to her, okay - -

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hey, first of all, work two jobs, if you still have time to write down your affairs, you must be clear from the beginning of understanding, and the details must be clear, like **. Then, learn to manage your finances and earn 1 million as soon as possible, buy a house where you work and pay a down payment, improve your parents' lives, and invite your parents to travel to Europe, North America, and Australia. Buy an off-road vehicle for a self-driving trip to be a travel friend, then quit your job and start your own business, hiring 3-4 employees to start your own business.

    Completed before the age of 30, and is considering getting married and having children. The road I walked before I was 30 years old, I just didn't write **.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In my opinion, women are cheap ps: Let's talk quietly.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deeply in your own heart, in a place where the smoke of the city can't reach. That's a beautiful place in your heart......What do you think it will be to give up, is it so easy to give up someone, and is it still called true love? Love will make you happy, and thinking of her "him" will be very happy and powerful.

    But you know how you'll feel when you don't get her? Do you feel that the sky is falling, people are tired, and your heart is tired? I'm sure you've encountered it, because I've also encountered it now in trouble, in pain.

    I can understand your feelings. I want to love so much, I give love, but she wants you to give up on her, I said I will, but is it really okay? When I was lonely, when I was lonely, I quietly thought of her, her voice, and every word she said, was so hard to forget, so heart-wrenching.

    I really want to love, but I get a lot of pain, and my body and mind are haggard. Is this called abandonment? Therefore, it is impossible to give up a person you really love, you can only cry and remind yourself that you want to forget, to escape, although you don't want to, you are very unwilling, but what else can you do besides escaping?

    I'm like that now, and I can understand your mood somewhat. If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus. Turn your attention to something else.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Chase it, don't forget if you catch up; If you can't catch up, you don't have to forget it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Watch a romance movie, and you will naturally have the answer after watching it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    What to do. You're just a primitive sexual urge, knowing that she's of poor quality and has a boyfriend. It's just because your male hormones are working.

    A person who can face himself squarely, what is there to be afraid of. You can't break down, so take this as a sign that you're about to become a man. Don't take this seriously, 8 out of 10 boys will think this way.

    Otherwise, it's better to be a monk. If you want to vent, do something to show the male charm of men, such as playing basketball n times a day, football n times, crazy running, jumping. Naturally it will deplete your male hormones.

    Someone who came over.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when Shiye Li slowly passes, when you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, Let him pass in the past, short-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

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