After ten years of love, in the face of marriage, he said that it takes time to think about it

lz: I'm very similar to you, my boyfriend and I have known each other for five years, we are each other's first love, I was going to get married this year, and my boyfriend's home is decorated for our marriage. But just 3 months ago, because I had a verbal conflict with his mother, it was actually a misunderstanding. But his mother didn't believe it, and no matter how much I tried to explain it, she was very opposed to our marriage.

Now my boyfriend is also in a difficult situation, with his mother on one side and me on the other. He asked me to leave him, made me forget about him, said that his family was not for me, would cause me pain, and wanted me to find happiness again, to make me happy. I'm really distressed, the person I love the most leaves me all of a sudden, and the blow is really big, how can I be happy?

How to be happy? Surrounded by pain every day. Just because of a misunderstanding that will cost me the happiness of my life, I can't accept ......

He is indifferent to me now, but I can understand him, I know that he is also very difficult, I promise to wait for him, and I believe that our love still exists, and I can't help but love ......him

Now that we've been apart for 3 months, I've thought about it a lot.

From love to marriage, two people live together, and marriage is destined for me to live with my dear him for the rest of my life.

No matter how good the relationship between people is, there will always be friction, in fact, to give each other a little more understanding, tolerance, trust, give each other a little more space, whether love or marriage needs two people who love each other to maintain together.

I believe he still loves me, so I won't choose to leave him.

If you are sure that he still loves you, please don't leave him, give him time to slow down, if you both choose to give up this love, it may really be over.

Obviously, he has changed his mind, and it's time to think about himself!

A man's heart is incomprehensible, I hope you think more about yourself, love yourself a little more, really, you must cheer up!

After all, life events still need to be well thought out.

Can men who don't know how to love live together? There is always a sacrifice for fire and ice.

I don't think so. Falling in love is also about giving energy and time, loving each other with your heart, and making each other feel happy.

I think this thing is also normal, after all, falling in love is a very simple thing, and you don't need to think about a lot of content, but when you get married, you have a lot of factors to consider.

I also think so, when you fall in love, you don't have to think about anything, you don't have to think about each other's family, as long as the two of you are happy, only after getting married, you find that there are too many things in a family.

Each has its own merits, and there will be many things that will bother you and each other when you get married, but it is enough to love each other.

I also think so, after getting married, there will be a lot of trivial things in life, and at that time, you feel that you don't have to think about these things when you fall in love.

Yes, compared with marriage, falling in love is really the easiest thing, because you don't have to think about firewood, rice, oil and salt, and there is no chicken feathers.

I think so too. Because there aren't too many things to consider when it comes to falling in love. And it's also very happy.

Personally, I don't think so. In fact, it is quite difficult to fall in love, and it takes a lot of energy and time. The two of them will also often have conflicts and quarrels, and they will feel exhausted.

This shows that the relationship between the two parties is not particularly deep, and there must be one party who is particularly unfirm, so he has not been able to enter the marriage.

I think this kind of relationship is very time-consuming, and it hurts a lot for both of them, and it makes people feel very sorry.

I feel that such a relationship is a pity, because there are not several 10 years in life, and both of them have wasted a long time.

It shows that two people are not suitable, and it is also good to be able to find out that two people are not suitable before getting married.

I hate this kind of relationship, I feel that a relationship that is not intended to be married is a hooligan, and both of them should get married after 10 years together.

Since the two have been in love for many years and know each other well, strike while the iron is hot at this time and hurry up to get married. It's not good to be married if you've been in love for too short a time, you don't know each other, it's not good to be married, and it's not good to be married if you've been in love for many years. It is the right choice to consider getting married at the right time.

Lu Yao knows that Ma Ma has seen people's hearts for a long time, and by understanding that you are the most suitable person for me, it is natural that I will get married and live together for a while, just to test each other, let me understand you as a person, know your way of doing things, so I know that you are the person who can walk into the marriage hall hand in hand. Because I understand, I am compassionate, I want to take good care of you, and I want to be the companion by your side, so I have to consider getting married at this time. What awaits you when it happens?

There is a sister who has been with her boyfriend for 8 years, and the two have been living together, just like a normal husband and wife, but the two of them just don't talk about marriage, and then the two of them broke up while walking, which makes people feel very regretful. The reason they gave was also very strange, they said that they had been together for too long and didn't feel it anymore, so let's break up. I think if they get married and have children, maybe they have a bond of love, they won't break up easily.

After many years of love, they are familiar with each other, and if they are willing to get married, they can have a wedding. Whatever choice you make, as long as it exists, there is a reason for it. As long as the two of you are together and feel comfortable with each other, then the relationship is appropriate.

As for me personally, I have been in love for many years and I am familiar with each other, of course, I choose to live together, and I want to get married to give each other a commitment and security. Girls, in particular, want to have a home, a private space for two people.

When you enter the marriage hall, you must think about it clearly, this is a very cautious topic, so many years of love, from your understanding of him, do you think he is your suitable marriage partner? If you think it through, then marry him, then marry her. Life is short, so cherish the happy time in the present.

Of course, you can consider entering marriage, after all, two people have been together for many years, and the run-in is also very good, entering marriage may make the relationship between two people more stable.

It depends on whether both parties are willing to enter marriage, whether they are ready to enter marriage, and if they are ready, of course, they can consider entering marriage.

At this time, of course, you can consider entering marriage, the two people are already very familiar, and they can take this opportunity to enter the palace of marriage and start a new life.

If you've been in a relationship for many years and have been living together for a while, it's time to think about getting married.

I think it's okay, we are already very familiar with each other, and entering a marriage can have a certain amount of security, and the relationship will be more stable.

Of course, you can consider getting married, after all, the two people already have a relatively deep emotional foundation, and the run-in is also very good.

At this time, it is already possible to consider entering into marriage, because both people have already understood each other and can get married if it is suitable.

I think it's time to consider getting married. After all, two people have been in love for so many years, and they need to give each other a result.

Such two people can consider entering marriage, because two people know each other well enough and can better tolerate each other, so their married life will be more relaxed and harmonious.

If you love each other very much, and you can both feel each other's love, and the three views are also the same, I think you can consider entering marriage, after all, the world is so big, it is not easy to meet each other and never abandon each other.