I ve been in love for four years and my girlfriend wants to break up before proposing, what should I

Updated on psychology 2024-05-21
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    1) She has premarital anxiety, isn't she too nervous to do so! If so, you need to communicate and comfort her more!

    2) Unwanted results, she has a new love! If so, you have to talk about it for the sake of redemption. Tell her that four years is also a long time in her life, and how difficult it is for the two parties to be together!

    Her age also requires that she can't "play" anymore! Even if we really can't be together, we have to make it clear! Break up amicably!

    c) General, General your army! Marriage matters, is it not negotiated!

    I wish you all the best to get married on the National Day and be happy!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The female college is poor to the end, and the brothers are scattered

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Your girlfriend has a new love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Does she love you? For a lovelorn woman, the purpose of starting a new relationship is often to find someone to replace. She may live with you for the rest of her life, not because she loves you, but because you love her. She may be a different person in her heart for the rest of her life, and you never know.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It seems that she doesn't love you enough!

    If you love her, use your actions to become the qualified person she wants to marry, if you can let go, then find happiness again, but the boss has been talking for 4 years, which seems to be a pity. After all, people are emotional animals.

    I don't know if I can help you?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When faced with a girlfriend who broke up in love, you shouldn't propose. In a relationship, it takes two people to work together and pay, since your girlfriend has broken up with you ruthlessly, showing that he no longer loves you, even if you go to propose, you will not get promise.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't think I'm going to be bored myself, and you shouldn't propose, because you can't get a successful proposal at all, because since it's a girlfriend who broke up with love, then she can't agree to your proposal, maybe she won't give you this opportunity, and you may have to touch your own nose if you propose, so don't go.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Faced with a girlfriend who broke up in love, should I propose? I don't think it's necessary, as long as your girlfriend ruthlessly proposes to break up with you, then he has already made a plan for the next step, and even he has found a good home, he has changed his mind about you, so there is no need to propose to him again, because men are also dignified, you should pack up your mood and find a woman who really loves you to marry, there is no need to waste your feelings on a woman who doesn't love you, it's not worth it, you have to remember that there is no grass in the world, so you have to take a bold step forward, Be brave and seek your own happiness!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't think you should propose, the other party has already broken up with you very ruthlessly, so there is no need to propose, so that each other will be embarrassed.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In the face of a heartless, broken girlfriend, you shouldn't propose, after all, he has no feelings for you, and it's useless if you propose, he doesn't love you at all.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Your girlfriend is going to break up with you, and it is obvious that your proposal will not be successful at this time, what you have to do now is to figure out the reason why your girlfriend must break up, and save your girlfriend before you can consider anything else.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In the face of a girlfriend who has broken up, you shouldn't propose, because he has broken up ruthlessly, which means that he has no feelings for you at all, so you don't need to entangle with him anymore.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Faced with a girlfriend who broke up in love, should I propose? Don't go. It is often said that a twisted melon is not sweet. He doesn't love you at all. And you are ruthless. Even though. Tie the knot. In the end, I have to get a divorce, so why bother? Don't beg him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In the face of a girlfriend who broke up in despair, in fact, you shouldn't propose anymore, because there is no need to propose. When a girl rejects a boy very ruthlessly, no matter what the boy does, the girl will be indifferent. So there is no need to propose.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I don't think it's better to propose in this case, because after all, two people are having a very bad time, and the other party is also very ruthless, and there is no affection for you, so it's better to look for the next relationship, don't propose.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Of course not, people have broken up with you ruthlessly, people don't have you in their hearts for a long time, and your marriage proposal will not agree to you, so why should you embarrass yourself with this move.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't think you should propose. Because you have already said it yourself, he is a heartless person, and if you go to propose to him now, you are undoubtedly embarrassing yourself. So you should choose to turn around and leave.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    No. broke up ruthlessly, what kind of marriage are you proposing, will you agree to her if you ask her? Not at all, it will only make you more embarrassed and humiliated. Rejected one more time, hurt again.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you break up with you, don't propose to her again, because he has already decided to break up with you, just to cut off the relationship with you, if you go to the next step, this ending will definitely be bad.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In the face of a girlfriend who broke up in desperation, I don't think you should propose again, since she broke up with you, you will propose again, she will not agree, if you broke up because you didn't propose, then your proposal may be successful.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I don't think it should be, she doesn't love you at all, even if you go to propose, she won't agree, and even if you do, she will still leave in the end.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It shouldn't be, because she's broken up, she doesn't love you anymore, and even if you propose, she won't be with you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    No, she doesn't love you at all, even if you go to propose, she won't agree, and even if she does, she will leave in the end.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If your girlfriend breaks up with you, don't propose marriage If you go, it's a closed door, embarrassment won't have results Besides, the twisted melon is not sweet and it won't be happy You should let it go.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Facing a girlfriend who broke up in love. You shouldn't propose again, he has already broken up with you, and he is very decisive, which means that there has been a big disagreement between you, and if you propose again, you can only eat closed.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    In the face of a girlfriend who broke up, the first thing is not to propose, but to find a way to get back together, and then propose when the relationship is stable.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Don't go for a marriage proposal.

    The reason why women are desperate is because they are so sad, so you can't get it back. When you go to propose, if there are many people, she will be more faceless, then she will be more angry with you, which will make you very embarrassed.

    So in the face of a girlfriend who broke up in despair, you can't propose, just care silently.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If the two of you are very affectionate and neither of you wants to leave each other, I think you should propose. If your girlfriend is tricky and unreasonable. Such a girlfriend should give up and give up.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Facing a girlfriend who broke up in love. You shouldn't go for a marriage proposal. He doesn't have deep enough feelings for you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I don't think it's necessary to propose to the other party, since the other party has already chosen to break up, if you propose again, it is not particularly good for me and him, it is better to be the best version of yourself.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The girlfriend said that they broke up, it must be that there was a conflict between the two people before, and the contradiction should be resolved at this time, rather than covering it up with another thing. So I remember not to propose.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You should ask why the female brother and friend broke up and attacked, change some of their shortcomings, be very good to your girlfriend, and learn to obey and shout at your girlfriend, so that you can redeem the other party.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Be sure to apologize and reflect on your behavior, it may be that you usually don't pay attention to details, and you don't take good care of your girlfriend, so you want to divide the Lingfan game.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    1. Redeem your girlfriend's due attitude.

    When there is a crisis in your relationship, as a man, you should take the initiative to take responsibility and face your girlfriend's proposal to break up with a positive attitude, instead of complaining, being negative, or even angry.

    1.Admit mistakes.

    After the two have been together for a long time, it is inevitable that they will break up because of a momentary excitement or a sudden balance of rent. For example, the two of you will often quarrel over one thing, you don't know how to be considerate, etc. Your girlfriend has proposed to break up, and you want to save this love, then you must face your love contradictions and find problems from yourself, so as to reduce the contradictions between you and let your girlfriend slowly accept you.

    2.Believe in yourself.

    You're afraid that you won't be able to get the other person back, so you hold back on everything you do, resulting in a different outcome than you expected. Know that the recovery process is hard, and if you are easily afraid of failure, it is better to give up early. If you really want to win back your girlfriend, you must be sure that you can save success, so that you can go further on the road to recovery.

    3.Reduce the sense of need.

    A high sense of demand proves that your own value is low, and your girlfriend will not choose a low-value you as the existence of ** value. Exposing one's sense of need too much is a taboo, and it will always put oneself at a low emotional level, and it will not be able to get along with your girlfriend on an equal footing.

    2. To win back your girlfriend, you have to show your best value.

    When a woman chooses a man, she puts the value of his fools first. No woman can resist a man with high value, so if you want to win back, you have to improve and show your value.

    1.Definition of the value.

    The value is the foundation of high attraction, and the value is mainly displayed in the hardware conditions, that is, the survival value and the reproduction value. Maslow's needs theory tells us that the most basic and important needs of human beings are survival needs, and then the next sign is the need for security, social recognition, dignity, self-realization, etc., the need is to ask for it from the outside, and if we want to attract others, we must see what we can give to each other.

    For men, it is worth paying more attention to the value of survival, since primitive times, the powerful, resourceful, and capable men in the tribe can easily attract women, and their offspring can also be well raised. Therefore, the depth of our genes determines the attractiveness of survival value.

    2.How to increase the ** value.

    Show your own ** value, in terms of basic appearance, boys can be clean, concise and steady. If you have your own excellent expertise in a certain aspect, such as drawing, skateboarding, etc., you can use this as a basis to slowly attract the attention of the other party. Show your expertise in this area (but not show off) and express your confident and optimistic self.

    Even if you don't have a lot of money, but you can dance hip-hop, can bartend, can talk to love, can do magic, etc., can become your charm plus, of course, if you don't know these it doesn't matter, as long as you have your own career, there are favorable economic conditions, it is also an advantage.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It shows that she is not ready to marry you, or even just wants to continue this relationship with you, if you propose to her many times and do not agree, it is better to choose to let go.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It may be that she feels that your previous relationship is not stable enough to get married so quickly, you can have a good chat with your girlfriend and listen to what her inner thoughts are like.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Your girlfriend who has been in a relationship for 6 years always rejects your marriage proposal, there must be a reason, find the reason and it can be solved, and if you are tired, you can let go.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Maybe this girl is not ready to enter married life, you have to give her more security, help her eliminate her hesitation, and give her more confidence in marriage.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    My girlfriend who has been in love for six years always rejects my marriage proposals, so communicate with her well and ask if there is anything inappropriate.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If you haven't agreed to you for six years in love, then it's really a big problem, and the two of you are looking for a chance to have a good chat to see why you still have any concerns, and you haven't agreed to your proposal.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    After talking for so long, she keeps rejecting your marriage proposal, and that's because you don't give her enough security.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Then communicate with your girlfriend to see why she doesn't marry you, and solve the problem in time, if it really doesn't work, you can choose to break up.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Words will not bloom in the coming year because of your miss, but people will turn around because of your miss, please don't get lost, love her and pursue her, everyone has the right to pursue happiness, but what is happiness?

    Meeting is fate, and the person who can hold your hand, accompany you around and accompany you through your life is your happiness, and if you think clearly, let's act.

    In the way she likes, the way she wants.

    I wish you happiness.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Falling out of love makes people grow, and since you know that communication is neglected because of work, you can only pay attention to it the next time you are in love!

    No matter how emotional she is, she agrees in the face of her ex's marriage proposal, which can only show that her love for her ex is far greater than yours!

    Therefore, the meaning and probability of redemption are not big, or not, you should have the answer in your heart

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Everyone desires their own happiness, so how can they be happy? It is only when you understand what you want happiness that you have a special ability to feel. Some people think that as long as you have money, you can be happy.

    When I was really rich, I found myself still unhappy. No one can define happiness. Happiness is an inner warmth, a very subtle feeling.

    Happiness can be felt everywhere in life. The question is whether you have the eyes to find happiness and whether you have the heart to feel happiness. From a physiological point of view, happiness and joy come from a hormone called endorphins in the body.

    When a person is in a relaxed and happy state, it can promote the secretion of endorphins in the human brain. Therefore, one of the ways to achieve happiness is to maintain one's own happiness at all times.

    Many modern people lack the ability to feel happiness because everyone's attention is focused on those impetuous worldly things, blindly looking for them, thinking that as long as they can have all of them, happiness will not be out of reach. In the continuous development and growth of this society, people will feel pressure from all over the world from time to time, and the lack of happiness can cause people to lose a sense of peace and tranquility.

    In my opinion, happiness should be divided into big happiness and small happiness. Great happiness refers to our pursuit of a true material life. We can't satisfy ourselves all at once. But happiness is everywhere, and each of us should constantly raise awareness of this happiness.

    In fact, happiness is as simple as when you want to eat chocolate, someone buys chocolate for you, and the sweet feeling in your mouth is a warm little happiness.

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