Why do people get bored inexplicably after getting along for a long time?

The freshness of two people just together is very strong, but after a long time, when the freshness and enthusiasm gradually fade, it is normal to be bored, and after a long time with a person, you will also find many of his shortcomings while knowing his advantages, which will also affect her image in your heart, so your heart will definitely change, after all, it is not unreasonable for distance to produce beauty, but you should treat his advantages and disadvantages correctly, and you can't blindly magnify his shortcomings. If you don't adjust your mindset in time, you shouldn't be able to go far.

As the saying goes, it will be seen over time. After living with a person for a long time, all his shortcomings will be exposed. Slowly, there is no freshness, so I will be bored inexplicably.

So life still needs surprises. If every day is boring, then the days will become less fun.

Because after getting along for a long time, the freshness will be lost, or the shortcomings of the other party have been exposed, and the communication between the two people has not had any resonance, then there will be boredom, which is very normal, if you want to change this situation, then we should get to know that person again.

In layman's terms, it is called aesthetic fatigue, which is essentially that people like the new and hate the old.

Everyone is in this situation, and there is no need to be embarrassed to say it. After getting along for a long time, you have a good idea of each other's strengths and weaknesses, as long as the other party makes a mistake, you will always stand on the commanding heights to criticize the other party, and the same is true when you make mistakes.

We have to come into contact with a lot of people every day, and we always feel that everyone else is good, and the people around us are bad.

I have a few friends who have known each other for more than ten years, and sometimes I find them particularly annoying when we eat together, because I know what he wants to say without having to talk at all.

Because of the passing of freshness, everyone will have a sense of freshness when they come into contact with fresh people, but as the freshness passes, it will slowly change from novelty to boredom, and finally slowly become a habit, and there will be no feeling anymore, and the feeling of that person in his heart will be fixed from the beginning.

People get along for a long time, they will understand each other better, and after getting along for a long time, all kinds of advantages and disadvantages of each of us will be exposed in front of each other. Therefore, between people, we should give each other some distance and space, don't always stay together, and do something meaningful when we are together, so that the feelings between us will be stronger.

People are often like this, when they first get acquainted, they are attracted by each other's advantages, and then through slow contact, they will find many shortcomings of the other party, and they will also see a lot of things that the other party does not agree with their own three views, and slowly there will be disgust.

When two people take a long time, when they get more and more acquainted, they always find each other's disgusting places or habits, just like me and my friend, he is from other places, we can see each other once a year, it is good, it feels good to meet for two or three days, very cordial, after a long time, I feel that each other is very boring, expose each other's shortcomings, and I can't get used to this and that, then I know that we should be separated.

At the beginning, because the two people are not familiar with each other, they are happy to learn about each other's life and personality, after all, curiosity is the basis for two people to be together.

Later, the curiosity is gone, and the shortcomings of the other party are gradually exposed, so they will look down on each other.

If it's true love, you won't get tired of it for a long time. If it is the attraction of appearance, there is no freshness in appearance, and there is no attractiveness. If it is psychologically attracted, the more you understand, the more you like it, and the more you trust.

Didn't get tired and loved her very much. I used to want to get her, and I still am. But I suddenly felt that she was a girl, and I should work harder to make myself better in order to protect her. I want to go through the trouble of getting her.

If one day, after all my strength, I am still not with her, even though it is difficult to bless her, I will bless her. Hope she's well