When fate has arranged for me to meet such a man, how should I choose?

Updated on society 2024-05-14
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you really love him, you should tolerate everything about him, including height and appearance, and you also said that the feeling of getting along with him is comfortable and reassuring. Don't care too much about other people's opinions, life is like this, simple, plain this is happiness Maybe you really yearn for romantic love, but love and marriage are two different things, I feel that he is a person who can live with you for a lifetime, and marriage is a lifelong thing, after marriage, you have to think more about the economy, the future of you and your children, do not deny that many women marry to see the economic strength of men, but this is a very realistic thing, when there is love and no bread, will you still be thinking about his appearance Although he doesn't look good, you feel comfortable and at ease with each other, and the financial aspect is okay, so I think you should be with him

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you really like him, height is not an issue.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Why write about his income and inconsequential things, what matters is how you feel.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Let's look as we go, after all, I just graduated and I'm still young.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Ask Yourself... How do you feel? ·· What do you want to do?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In the world, only love words are difficult to understand.

    Loving each other does not mean that love will be eternal.

    Just because you let go easily doesn't mean you haven't loved.

    There are many things to care about in this world besides love.

    When all things are against love.

    Letting go is the right choice.

    Maybe you think he's cruel.

    But if he breaks ties with you.

    That's the real cruelty to you.

    Think you've been happy together, haven't you?

    Although he is not with you.

    But those happy memories will stay with you for a lifetime ...

    Cherish what you get!!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Take a closer look at yourself: what kind of love and marriage do you need, my youth is my decision!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Uh, except for height and looks, your boyfriend is similar to me, hehe.

    I believe it's easy for him to find a girl who is shorter than you but has better conditions than you, but it's not so easy for you to find a girl who is taller than him and has better conditions than him (like a tongue twister?). )。

    So, don't worry so much, people have shortcomings, think about what he would say about this if it were your boyfriend.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Marriage is a woman's second life, a career that a woman has to fight for all her life, and it is the most important long-term investment. Marriage is enough to change everything about a woman, including her life, psychology, character, mentality, career, and ways and means of behaving in the world.

    To marry someone is to marry a good man, and different men will bring you a different destiny and a different life. A good man gives confidence and strength, makes a weak woman strong, a hypocritical woman honest, an impetuous woman steady, a narrow-minded woman tolerant, and a negative woman positive. A good man brings a good marriage, and allows the confused and confused to see the future.

    An excellent man will take you to run your career and dreams together, a talented man will make you talented, a wise man will make you wise, and a man who loves life will teach you to forget your troubles; A man with a good mentality makes your life easy.

    Bad men bring bad marriages, which can make people become numb and ignorant, causing women to be discouraged in life and career, give up on themselves, and find no direction in life. The changes that a failed marriage makes to a woman, and the change to her life and destiny are often interlocking, putting them in an embarrassing situation of failure in one place and failure in every place.

    Nowadays, many women make "habitual" choices when choosing marriage and men, and most of the men who choose with such a casual mentality are worthless men. After a few dates, I began to plan for my marriage. In fact, if the women observe this man carefully, they will soon find that the other party is not worth investing at all, and he is not a person who can be relied on and entrusted for life.

    After most women marry a worthless man, they can only comfort themselves and force themselves to get used to it slowly, and life is just painful to endure.

    Of course, there are a small number of men who work hard to become valuable men after marriage, but these changes and efforts basically cannot change their essence, just like a burger is still a burger after pouring sesame oil on it.

    A lot of women think that there are too few good men in this world. A good man is like a nutritious food that tastes good, and such a man is hard to come by. Some women get married for the sake of getting married, and since they can't find enough nutritious and perfect enough food in a short time, they just find a "fast food" man to make do, and then wait until they come across nutritious food before changing the menu.

    If you have already chosen the "fast food man" and are not having a happy life, then withdraw as soon as possible!

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I think you should ask him about it. Love is honest, not hidden. No matter what kind of reason he has, he should make it clear to you what he can't say. Because love is two-sided.