The boyfriend is upset because his ex girlfriend is getting married

Updated on psychology 2024-05-03
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Anyway, I used to have a boyfriend, and I loved him very much, and it took me more than 2 years to forget about him and be with my current boyfriend. My current boyfriend loves me very much, and he always tells me to get married, because he is also 27 years old, but I always dodge, I can't tell whether I love him or not, I just feel at ease with him, and he doesn't hurt my feelings. But my boyfriend knew what I thought, and he said he would wait until the day I fell in love with him and willingly waited for me to marry him.

    My boyfriend and I can get along and communicate very well, and it feels like a family member, which is warm and reassuring. In my experience, although I am a woman, but I think your boyfriend still can't let go of the ex-girlfriend he loved at the beginning, his attitude towards you makes me feel that it is just a makeshift meaning, since two people can't be honest together, and can't communicate well, just trust your intuition, women's sixth sense is very strong, emotional things can't be hesitant, it's always you who is hurt in the end, because he has no heart for you, you can't hurt him, or you can talk to him clearly, Ask him how he feels about you, why are you together, if he just wants to borrow you to forget about his ex-girlfriend, and it's still in progress, you can leave him, I'd rather lack than abuse, as long as it belongs to you, I say this, I don't know if you understand?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Loving someone deeply is not something that can be forgotten, and the person you once loved is going to marry someone else, the mood will inevitably be more complicated, and some abnormal behaviors are considered normal, so don't force him to die, then he will leave you because he can't stand it. Now what you can do is to show your good side, make him feel that what he missed may not be the best, then he will cherish you more, come on.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I have the same experience as you, the difference is that my boyfriend not only didn't feel sad, but also copied the car with his past girlfriend, I wondered if love is hatred in the depths, and psychology is not a taste

    Hey, it was the ex-girlfriend who called, and to make matters worse, the girlfriend said she was going to miss him on the last night of their marriage

    If you love your boyfriend, just put up with it

    In fact, all relationships are flawed, and we don't realize it from the age of three, so what can be done? Let's open it

    I hope you are happy

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't take it too seriously.

    Men will remember their first love.

    What you have to do now.

    It is to fully show your gentleness and thoughtfulness.

    Got it? Don't mess with him.

    This will only make him more annoyed, and everything will be fine in a few days.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It can be said that your ex-girlfriend hasn't forgotten your boyfriend, and your boyfriend hasn't completely forgotten either.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Two possibilities. One, your boyfriend is still deeply in love with his ex-girlfriend.

    Second, your boyfriend is a lover, and it's sad to look back on the past.

    Let's experience it for myself.

    Emotional matters are not experienced by oneself, and it is difficult to have an accurate answer.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think you have to be careful, because my brother has had this kind of thing, and he probably still likes his former girlfriend, so you have to be prepared!

    You think clearly that you are marrying him, maybe my words are not very good, but I think you can see it yourself from the usual

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because of the selfishness of men, a man wishes that the women he has loved will be alone for him all his life, and it is impossible for him to have no reaction at all in his heart.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I've been there, but I'm not uncomfortable, because the breakup is the past, my shackles are the past, the past is not the future, so the past is goodbye

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Explain that your boyfriend is a very emotional person.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Kind of inclined to eat in the bowl and look at the pot.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Let's open it

    I hope you are happy

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In real life, this question needs to be judged on a case-by-case basis:

    1.If there is no other affection or intention between the person who gave the gift and the opposite sex who gave the gift to the opposite sex, then receiving the gift itself should not be too much of a problem and there is no need to mind. However, the subject should inform you of this beforehand to avoid misunderstandings if you learn from elsewhere.

    2.If the person of the opposite sex who gives the gift has a crush on the subject or other purposes, then the subject should immediately explain the situation to you after receiving the gift and refuse the other person's kindness. If the subject fails to do so and conceals it, then you will have legitimate suspicion and uneasiness.

    3.If there is a relationship or ambiguity between the subject and the opposite sex, receiving a gift is more likely to be disturbing, awakening past memories, and you will obviously feel mind and jealousy. Subjects are to avoid this from happening.

    4.If the person receives a gift of high value or other meaning, it may give the impression that the other person's kindness goes beyond the boundaries of friendship, and you will feel quite concerned. This requires the subject to reject the gift and explain it to you clearly to eliminate the mistake.

    In summary, the key to the subject's receipt of a gift from the opposite sex is whether there are other feelings or intentions between the subject and the giver that go beyond ordinary friendship. If it doesn't exist, and the subject explains the situation to you beforehand, receiving a small gift may not be too much of a problem. However, if there is a relationship or the subject has concealed the matter, and received an expensive or other gift, you will feel quite mindful and the person should avoid it.

    A good relationship needs to be built on trust. It is equally important that the subject be honest with you about any circumstances that may cause misunderstandings, and that you need to be open-minded and give the subject the opportunity to explain and avoid misunderstandings over small matters. Only with the cooperation of both parties can it be possible to achieve senseless minds and vinegar.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    What does it matter to you when someone else gets married?

    If your current boyfriend's ex-girlfriend is married to another man, it shouldn't affect your relationship with your current boyfriend and your current boyfriend's marriage.

    Because she has an old and empty husband, Cha Huiyu will not rob her husband with you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    2. Unless you are already disgusted with each other, unless you have not loved each other before, unless you have no feelings for him at all, unless he has never entered your heart.

    3. It's normal to understand and spy on your ex's current life, and you have that curiosity, but if you want to completely get out of the previous relationship, you should try to minimize the peeping into your ex's life and let time dilute the memories of him, because if you keep spying on it, it will have a very big impact on your psychology and make it more difficult for you to get out of the shadow of the previous relationship.

    4. Generally, people who are more deeply invested are more difficult to come out, and obviously, you are more deeply invested than him.

    5. If you want to completely go out of Tuanliang, you can start a new relationship, and you must stop spying on his life, find Kaiqiao to get busy with some things, let yourself slowly forget him, give yourself a little time, and you will definitely have a day of forgetting.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello friend, if the defeat is my ex-girlfriend, I will be a little.

    You have to solve this problem by yourself, and your mentality is very important. No matter who you are, you will be unhappy and sad when you encounter such a problem. No matter what your feelings are for your ex-girlfriend now, whether you love it or not, whether you let go of your feelings or not, because after all, you have loved each other, and when you see them together, your heart will definitely make waves again.

    In other words, anyone in the ex-girlfriend world can do it, but with his friends, he will be jealous, scratch his heart, and be angry.

    In fact, it is not necessary, everyone has the right to find their own happiness, and everyone can be with whom, that is a natural thing. If you still miss your ex-girlfriend's goodness, then silently bless her, bless your ex-girlfriend will always be very happy, this is enough, be generous, after all, they are not secretly good when you are in love, it is after the ex-girlfriend announces that she is single, people belong to a normal relationship, so you don't have to be so entangled, calm down, and really hope they are happy.

    It's all ex-girlfriends, and she has the right to choose who she is with. But it's awkward to be with your best friend. Two people who break up are like two parallel lines that don't want to cross paths anymore.

    But with my good friends, I have to get along day and night every day. Looking at the people who used to be close to you, now snuggled in someone else's arms.

    To self-imply that she has lost her past tense, that she belongs to someone else, that she no longer belongs to herself. You have to be brave enough to admit this and face it calmly. No matter why you broke up in the first place, whether you are still unwilling and wronged in your heart, you have to admit that you have broken up.

    Don't dwell on the past, after all, life still has to look forward, everyone has their own way to go, and no one can really accompany anyone for a lifetime. Learn to bless them. Now that you've broken up, it doesn't matter who she chooses to be with herself, so the best way is to generously bless them with Doudou Tangerine.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you fall in love, even if you break up, you may hope that the other party is doing well. So introducing your ex-girlfriend to your friends is to have a good home for your ex-girlfriend.

    Many introverted girls are not easy to find their own suitable boys, there are many people who love to worry about them, no matter what the reason, whether it is a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, but a breakup is a breakup, as a friend so I hope that the other party can find a good home is definitely a good person's psychology.

    It may be the following ways to feel like your boyfriend's mentality:

    1.I can't protect my ex-girlfriend anymore, so find a reliable person for her.

    Her friends can also find a kind person, and as the current person, she should take the initiative to fulfill them, after all, she has a boyfriend to prevent the resurgence of old love, which is also a good thing and should be supported.

    2.His friend's psychology can only be said to have helped his buddy finish his heart, and he will solve the problem of singleness in the future.

    There may be a little awkwardness in this, but for the sake of friendship, your boyfriend will not do anything to harm the interests of his friends. If you do it because of the psychology that may cause misunderstanding, you will definitely not be able to make friends if something happens in the future. So the motivation must be relatively simple.

    3.Every miller draws water to his own mill? Good women leave it to their brothers.

    may be loyal to their friends, think that this girl is a good girl, introduce them to their friends, hope that their friends can be happy, and take this girl's good fortune to soar. Achieve your own ideals, or two people have some matching points, or the two used to be rivals, your boyfriend is trying to match the two to get back together, and he quits the relationship and feels sorry for the two of them.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If the relationship is good, then the normal exchange of courtesies and wishes them happiness!

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