Can t you be friends after a breakup Can t you be friends after a breakup

Updated on psychology 2024-05-03
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You can be friends after a breakup He doesn't give you a chance to be a friend, which means that he still cares about you, and in his heart he hasn't treated you as an ordinary friend.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It can be said that people's feelings are like a rope, you take one lead, he (she) leads the other, and the two swore never to separate. But one day one of them let go, and the one who hurt the most was the ...... who clung to his feelingsSo two people who have really loved each other should not be able to continue to be friends after breaking up! Because it is impossible for each other to reacquaint themselves with each other as strangers (especially the one who hurts the most); If you can be a good friend, unless you will not have a relationship in the future, you will not have a lover again, otherwise, it is difficult to find a balance, and there is no other ...... except to make yourself more miserableTherefore, there are only two situations in which you can still be friends after a breakup

    One is that the love is not deep enough! The other is that one of them must be suffering in silence ......Many people say that behind love is hate! In fact, behind the real love is actually silent!

    Because of this, the two people after the breakup may only be familiar strangers!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Maybe he's afraid that after leaving you, he will remember the past.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes! Maybe he can't do it, maybe he can't let it go.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe he's for your good. 。Not necessarily good for you. 。

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    OK; Because you were both lovers at one time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can say yes. You can't feel it yourself, and no one can do it. Normal point. It's nothing...

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you break up, you can't be friends again, otherwise it will only hurt the two people more.

    When two people go from knowing each other and falling in love to breaking up, the relationship between two people is no longer lovers, and it is no longer possible to become friends. You can no longer face each other with a peaceful mind, a person who has loved and hurt you deeply, can only become a passerby in your life.

    Friends need time to get along with each other, but lovers after a breakup should no longer intersect in life.

    I have some very good friends in my life, and we see each other every once in a while, and we occasionally have dinner together. But my former exes have long since disappeared from my life, whether it is the heartbreaking first love that I once cried about, or the breakup lover who later said that we could become friends, we never crossed paths again.

    I think this is the norm after lovers break up, if two people can become friends with a smile after breaking up, then it is doubtful how much sincerity this relationship gives.

    You can't be friends after a breakup, and you can't face each other with a peaceful attitude if you love and hurt each other.

    After I broke up with my lover before, it took me a long time to come out of the shadow of broken love, and I don't know what I would do if I met him during this time.

    I think I won't be able to control my emotions, and I think I'll have some conflicts with each other, which should be what happens normally after a breakup between couples who have been in love.

    The person you loved so much is standing in front of you, and I don't believe you can have a heart like water; The person who hurt you is standing next to you, and I don't believe you really have no waves in your heart.

    This is actually human nature, not that we can forget if we want to, nor can we let go if we want to. It takes time for people to forget, but the soil for two people to become friends has long since ceased to exist.

    Not bothering each other after a breakup is the last thing you do for each other after a breakup with your lover. Become a passer-by in each other's lives, leave a little memory in your heart and taste it alone, this may be your youth.

    Don't be friends after a breakup, a broken heart won't allow you to be friends with him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't be friends anymore when you break up.

    It's really useless.

    It will be distressing to meet.

    Unless you haven't loved.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No. As long as you really like it, it's impossible to be friends.

    I went from school to society with him, I have seen him wearing a school uniform and a serious appearance, I have seen him catch flying insects that fly into the classroom to scare people and laugh forward and backwards, I have seen him busy for graduation, for the anxiety of work, he has been coquettish with me, I have been emotional with him, we complained about the boss's difficulty together, talked about a lot of gossip together, played ** when insomnia, care and greetings on rainy days, occasionally angry people go to bed dark stories, checked in to the attractions together, and also made noise in the middle of the night to tell cross talk for him to praise, The first time we met after the confession, I drew a picture privately and wrote "He's mine", I showed it to my friends, and I quietly told everyone that this person was mine.

    It's been three or four years, because of the pressure of being in a different place, because of many things, we broke up peacefully, but after the breakup, we really can't be friends. As soon as I see him, I think that this person used to be mine, how can I be friends.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    1. After breaking up, we can't be friends, because we have hurt each other, we can't be enemies, because we have loved each other deeply, so we have become the most familiar stranger ......

    2. Memories draw life into a circle, and we have turned around in the same place countless times and cannot be freed. I always want to return to the place where I first met, and if I can choose again, I think I can love more purely.

    3. Be a faithful messenger of marriage, always ready to enter the palace of marriage, and be prepared to be a good husband, wife and mother.

    4. Practicing for the sake of praise is like fragrant flowers and beautiful plants that have been trampled on.

    5. When others say that we are not good, there is no need to be angry or sad. We don't have to be happy to say that we are good, there is good in this bad, and there is bad in good, it depends on whether you can use it?

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