How can a girl strike up a boy without turning him off? It s better for a boy to give some advice .

Updated on psychology 2024-05-10
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I like this plot very much, and it's better to be on the same road for a reason, so that he won't be disgusted in his heart. What started as a chance encounter turned into a date. I made an appointment with him that since we were on the same road, we would walk together every day.

    So you can chat while walking, and then ask for **ah. How easy it is to go with the flow.

    Moreover, even if you are obviously proactive, he may not be disgusted.

    If you want to be more natural, then follow the steps above slowly.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    ok!Guys are more shy, you need to be ladylike, if you don't have a relationship with a lady, I suggest you be more lively, is lively and not unrestrained, then he will not be able to stand it, for example, I mean, suppose you are walking on the road, he follows you, and when he is with you, and then greet him, this is the point, he is shy, that is, he has less words, you have to try to find a topic to make the atmosphere. Or ask him like the little sister, Do you have a crush on my sister!

    He's sure he's going to blush, it's funny!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I'm not trying to answer it for you, but I had the same problem as you, when I was a freshman in high school and that boy was in his sophomore year of high school. When I saw your question, I just sighed with emotion

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In fact, in my opinion, girls should also love themselves well, and don't easily fall into the trap of the other party in the face of boys' accosting, so that it is easy to get hurt. If you meet a boy who makes you feel excited, you should also keep a calm attitude and don't easily expose your thoughts, so that you can further observe the other person.

    In life, it is actually normal to meet the opposite sex for a year, even if you are single, don't be too anxious. When the other party accostes you, you must face it calmly, and don't feel that you are proud of being accosted by the opposite sex, so as to be overly attentive.

    When a boy accostes himself, don't be overly enthusiastic, which will make the other party feel that he is easy to take the bait, so he doesn't know how to cherish himself. If you are really interested in boys, then don't show too much eagerness, everything is done slowly, so that you can get to know each other better. In fact, pick-ups start from strangers, and you don't know what kind of person the other party is, so don't easily expose your thoughts or make yourself look cheap.

    Girls must know how to protect themselves, and they must know how to grasp the balance in the face of boys' pick-ups, and do not easily expose their information, so that it is easy to attract attention. Whether it is a person who is tempted by himself, he must be reserved in the face of his accosting, and he must have a girl's attitude, so as not to attract bad ideas. Picking up is indeed a common behavior in life, but girls should not indulge in each other's rhetoric, they must know how to analyze the stakes and understand that the other party is actually wasting time many times.

    Girls must know how to protect themselves at all times, face the accosting of the opposite sex, don't appear too enthusiastic, and leave a good impression on themselves. Pick-up is not actually a decision, many times it is a simple encounter, don't take pick-up too seriously, don't let it affect your life, just face it correctly.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In the face of a boy's accosting, if the girl also has a good impression of the boy, she can respond. Two people can get to know each other and develop feelings. If you don't like to say no, it's fine.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Girls should respond rationally to boys' accostings. You have to understand whether the other party is really good to you, and you must also understand some of the other party's little routines. A skeptical attitude should also be maintained. Don't take some of the other person's words for it. It should also be communicated in a tactful tone.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If the girl likes the boy, she can continue to chat with the boy, and if she doesn't like it, she should refuse directly. I don't think there's a good way to do it, just just refuse directly, if you refuse very tactfully, this guy will definitely pester you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Girls should respond rationally to boys' accostings. My approach is to be calm and calm, and I should not be surprised. You should also make it easier for you to face boys' pick-ups.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In real life, if you ask a guy to talk to a girl, many boys will not dare to try.

    But you may often see that there are always some men who can be very confident in accosting a strange girl and beautiful woman, how do they do it?

    Boys who don't dare to talk to each other think it's an improper behavior.

    Boys who often pick up each other think it's just a social activity and it's normal.

    That's essentially a difference.

    When a man sees a very upright and disturbing girl on the side of the street, she is his favorite type, and he wants to come forward to meet her, but, after some ideological struggle, he still gives up.

    Why is that?

    This exposes a very important problem for boys: their own value is not high.

    Why?

    If you meet a celebrity on the street that you have been worshipping for a long time, will you be very excited and nervous? Perhaps, you will be so nervous that you can't even speak.

    This is a question of value, the value of the star itself is much higher than yours, so, you will be nervous, there will be a little inferiority complex in your heart, and you will worry that she will ignore you.

    However, if you are also a person with a head and a face, you will confidently come up to greet her, because you are equal in value and you can get along with her naturally.

    If you don't dare to talk to girls, it proves that you are not good enough, and you are not confident enough in your judgment.

    If you also want to be a boy who is popular with girls, and you want to be a boy who can get along with girls freely, then you have to find a way to improve your own value.

    If you are very handsome, then, when you see a beautiful girl on the street, you will easily come up to meet her, because you are very confident in yourself, you are not afraid that she will reject you, and at this time, you are super attractive.

    Making yourself better is the basis for you to gain self-confidence and exude your own man's attractiveness.

    Of course, what if you're not that good yet, you're just starting to learn to pick up a conversation, and you're still nervous?

    You can tell the girl honestly, and it will be good to win the girl's favor.

    I'll give you an example.

    When you're talking to a girl, you're acting a little helpless and don't know what to say?

    At this time, you can tell the girl: Actually, I am the first time to talk to a girl, a little nervous and embarrassed, I saw you just now, I think you are very temperamental, so, I have an impulse to know you, so I came forward.

    When you say this, I believe that the girl will have some good feelings for you and will cooperate with your chat.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think if you don't like it or feel bored and just refuse, it's very simple, don't agree to add friends because you're shy, there's no need.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you don't like it, just refuse, or tell her that you're embarrassed to have a boyfriend.

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