What do you consider when you decide you want to live together?

I think we should pay attention to the habits of two people, the way they get along, and their attitudes and positions. I guess it's better to be a little bit away! And when you quarrel, what happens to you if she is wrong, what happens if you are wrong!

Getting along is also an art! Ordinary people can only see each other's shortcomings after a long time. Appreciating each other and tolerating each other is the principle of getting along.

But not many people can do it for long! Good luck and happiness!

Economy! Poor couples mourn!

A lot, including economic, personal, and even external.

But if there is love, in fact, everything can be overcome.

I wish you happiness.

If you really love each other, any problem in front of you is not a problem, because the future time is still long, you have to think about the house, as well as the future expenses, whether the parents of both parties agree to your marriage, you must think about it before getting married, marriage is a lifelong thing, I wish you happiness faithfully, I wish you happiness in the future, since you have decided to be with her, then you are together, those problems can not stop you.

Life is trivial friends, and married life does not have the romance of being in love. First of all, we must take into account the situation of the family. It is mainly necessary to think about the future development of the family, such as children, the elderly and other basic situations. Then these are inseparable from the financial ** of your husband and wife.

But don't worry, it's not healthy to have a life mentality. A harmonious family relationship is conducive to your wealth creation.

Friend, I hope you live a happy life. Bless you all.

Too much, including how he squeezes toothpaste.

Emotional factors, economic factors, and many more. Concepts, habits, relatives and friends on both sides, etc., etc.

1. When two people live together, the most important thing is to know how to be considerate of each other, understand each other's difficulties in work, understand that it is not simple for each other to take care of the family, and know how to think from the perspective of others.

For example, one day the husband came home late from socializing, and when he came home, he was already drunk, groggy and very decadent. The average wife will definitely blame her husband when she sees such a situation, but if you know your husband on the premise, you should be considerate of his current situation. The husband only wants to earn money for the whole family because he works, so he will continue to work hard and cope with customers.

Second, two people live together, the most important thing is to match the personality, two people working together will not be so tired, and two people can also have their own interests and hobbies.

For example, a boy is a lively person, while a girl is a gentle person, although the two people have different personalities, they can also live a very delicate life. Boys can take girls to make friends, talk about the world, and broaden girls' horizons. Girls can also take boys to read, calm down, immerse themselves in the world, and know how to continue to work hard.

In this way, both people will move forward for the sake of each other and make life better for both people.

Three, two people live together, the most important thingWorldviewand values are the same, two people have the same way of dealing with one thing and thinking about one thing, so that many disputes can be avoided.

For example, boys are particularly fond of playing games, so they always choose to play games in their leisure time, while girls like to read books in their leisure time, which is their own hobby. If their values are the same, then they will all choose to be okay and do their own thing. If their values are not aligned, boys will think that girls are very contrived, deliberately like this, very hypocritical, and girls will feel that boys are not enterprising and idle all day long, which will only lead to a lose-lose situation in the end.

I think the most important thing is that two people have to trust each other. My opinion is that if two people don't trust each other together, then there will be a very big emotional crisis between two people, which will lead to two people breaking up, and two people should respect each other and don't question each other.

When two people live together, the most important thing should be to trust each other, and then they need to care for each other, so that they can live better together. My view is that we have to trust each other.

The most important thing is to understand each other, and when the other party encounters difficulties, they can help each other, so that the relationship between the two people will get better and better. There is also the ability to tolerate each other and think about each other's feelings.

After two people are together, they also have to have their own lives. In a nutshell, it can be understood as:Two people who are in a relationship can both remain independent and rely on each other.

In layman's terms, it means that two people in love are both intimate and have their own space, so that they can go further.

1.Breathe freely

For everyonePeople want to be free and don't want to be constrained。So after two people are together, of course, they hope that they can have their own lives for each other. Because know that love is not the whole of life, but only a part of it.

Only two people who can breathe freely in a relationship and manage the relationship well, this is a good relationship. After all, everyone doesn't want it, just because they fell in love, they lost their original life, which caused a sense of disparity, after all, love is just a condiment, not the only one.

2.The original circle of life is still there

After two people are together, they also have to have their own lives. For me, I think this is how it should be understood. For everyone,Falling in love is the icing on the cake, it's not that after falling in love, the previous lifestyle and living habits have all been subverted, so it's not actually a good state of love.

And the reason why it is said that after falling in love, you should have your own life, in fact, what I want to express is that when you are in love, both parties can still maintain the state of life before falling in love, and have not lost their life circle.

3.Have time and space to yourself

As the saying goes: everyone is an individual. Even if two people are in love, they prefer to have some alone time and space with each other

Because after the two of them are together, there is no difference from the past, life is still the same as before, the only difference is that there is one more person around me who cares about him. In the process of getting along, both parties can reserve a certain amount of alone time and space for each other, and they will be very comfortable with each other.

In my opinion, after two people are together, they must also have their own lives, which means that two people who fall in love want to fall in love while keeping their original lives unchanged, not that after falling in love, life is only love, and nothing else.

I think that even after two people are together, everyone will have their own life circle, and at the same time, they also want to have their own private space, so it is necessary to leave some space for each other.

The meaning of this sentence is actually that after two people are together, they should give each other independent space, should not put pressure on each other, and should not interfere too much in each other's life and work.

I think that after two people are together, they should not stick to each other all the time, but they should have space for each other, so that they can have a sense of freshness.

<> both parties in love must have their own lives. We need to understand that falling in love or finding a partner is not about finding a parasitic host. Love is when two independent individuals come together, once you think that the other person revolves around you every day and is within your line of sight, you have given up your independent personality and become someone else's dependent.

In an adult's life list, there should not only be love, but also family, friendship, career, etc. Both parties in love should know how to manage their own life framework and enrich their lives, so that they will not lose sight of one or the other in love.

Love is just love. Everyone is an equal and independent subject, and they can be good to one person, but they should not lose their principles and bottom line. To find someone who has the same values and holds you in the palm of your hand, it may be just trying to control it.

Therefore, it is important to find the other half of the same values. You need to be able to discern and flee from those who want to control you, and you should be responsible for your own life. If you want to be free, you have to learn to be independent, and if you want to be dependent, you will inevitably lose your freedom to a certain extent.

The two are united because of love, so they have a common life as husband and wife, but each person in love is an independent individual, has an independent thought, and has the right to control his own life. If you want your marriage to last, it is advisable to balance your individual life with your life together.

What kind of balance is it? It is when the two people in love feel very comfortable and happy together, and the balance is reached. This varies from person to person, and some people feel that it is very satisfying and happy to give themselves and each other some free space.

However, some people can't accept that the other party has some personal space, he (she) feels that you are all he (she) has, and he (she) must be all yours to be, and there can be no private space at all.

In short, both parties can have their own lives, but the degree of possession must be communicated and run-in by both parties, so as to reach an agreement, so as to avoid unnecessary troubles and misunderstandings.

In this way, you will not lose yourself, even if the two people are not together, you will let yourself have a very good way of communicating in life. You can let yourself have a lot of friends when you are in trouble, and you can also help each other.

Because it helps the development of the relationship, it also helps the harmony of the relationship, and it can also make the relationship very affectionate, and it can also make yourself very free.

No matter how much you love someone, you can't lose yourself, so you have to have your own life after being together, so that you don't lose your values.