How do I keep meeting men like this?

It's a pity that this kind of man is lost, wow, congratulations.

If two people are together, if they don't have anything to say to each other, then there is really no point in being together. You're a good speaker, so why don't you try not to bring your work eloquence to love? There may be an unexpected gain.

Me too.,It's hard to get along with an object for a long time.,I've been scattered with several objects.,I don't know if it's really my own problem.,It's okay in all aspects.,It's just a little stupid.,It's okay for a girl to be stupid.,That's why?,I don't understand Maybe it's fate that hasn't arrived.,I can only comfort myself like this.

It's not your reason, it's that I haven't met someone who really loves you, it's a matter of fate, don't think too much, as for not saying much, I think it's good, I hate twittering women, just do it in general. True love needs to understand and tolerate each other, if you want to be able to adapt to an ordinary life for a long time, most of the vigorous love in the movie ** is not true, you look at our parents, are they ordinary? Are they romantic?

Did they ever have a dramatic love story? But true love is hidden among them. Don't worry too much, one day the person who is suitable for you, can be your husband, and will accompany you for the rest of your life will appear.

I'm talking too much... Told me everything I shouldn't have said.

This kind of man has nothing to be nostalgic for, I believe that the next one will be better!

When encountering emotional setbacks or marital unhappiness, there are generally two reasons, one is subjective, on the surface it is a discordant personality, and on the inside, it is a shallow marriage; The other is objective, that is, the adverse impact of the environment and home feng shui on the marital relationship. Because the residence of the marital relationship is a home house, the aura of the home house directly affects the mood and psychology, and thus affects the relationship between Pi Sheng and the marital relationship. The common feng shui factors that affect marital feelings are as follows:

From the outside:

One is a hallway or staircase that divides the house in half. If the corridor divides the house into two halves or stairs pass through the house, it is equivalent to dividing the house into two, which can easily lead to quarrels in the family, discord between husband and wife, and even separation. This kind of feng shui is mostly seen in some point-style residential buildings, apartment buildings, and some villa buildings also have this structure.

The second is that the doors and windows see "bifurcated water". If there is a water flow that diverges left and right indoors or at the front of the door (the road is also considered a water flow), this will also make the husband and wife often quarrel, resulting in emotional parting. It refers to the water that can be seen in front of the door and comes and retreats quickly without gathering, which will lead to less and more separation between husband and wife, wandering, emotional inattentiveness, and unstable marriage.

Fifth, housing is facing the "sharp edge". A blade-shaped building is a blade-shaped building that is flushing doors and windows. If an acute angle or side of these buildings is rushing towards the doors and windows of the house, especially the bedroom, it will form a "sharp blade", which will disturb the feng shui aura of the house and cause chaos, which will lead to emotional discord and marriage failure.

Sixth, he committed "sound and light evil". Sound and light are actually two concepts, one refers to a strong noise and the other refers to a strong beam of light, sometimes the house will encounter one of them, sometimes it will be encountered at the same time. Especially in the housing located near the busy street, if it is polluted or exposed to it for a long time, it will disturb people's emotions and psychology, resulting in irritability and strange temper, which will affect the stability of the marital relationship.

Judging from the inside of the room:

First, the stove is against each other. The stove represents the housewife, the five elements belong to the fire, and the most taboo is to flush with water, such as sandwiching the stove between the dishwashing basin and the washing machine and other water-related appliances, or the stove is flushing the water-related appliances. Such incompatibility will lead to family instability, discord between husband and wife, and it will be difficult for unmarried people to have a smooth marriage and love.

The second is the beam press or pressure stove. The bed is the instrument of love between husband and wife, and it is also the cradle of unmarried feelings, it should be relaxed and comfortable, and it is most taboo to have beams above the oppression, or heavy hanging objects such as chandeliers and ceiling fans, which will increase the pressure of husband and wife or marriage and love, resulting in depression and drowsiness, leading to emotional disharmony. The stove represents the housewife, if she is pressed by the beam, the main hostess is emotionally depressed, depressed, and unhappy in marriage.

The third is that the door of the bedroom rushes straight to the head of the bed. The bed in the bedroom should be placed against the wall at the head of the bed, and the head of the bed should not be facing the door, and the head of the bed will be met when entering the door, which is a "door rush", which will also lead to the instability of the relationship between the husband and wife, and it is easy to cause marriage change. In addition, the bed frame is not suitable for husband and wife, which will also cause disharmony between husband and wife.

Why do I keep meeting men who are not as good as me? The biggest reason is my social strength.

The natural sense of innocence of social skills makes me particularly afraid of others saying that I am snobbish and vain, and I dislike the poor and love the rich, so I will habitually find men with very average conditions, so as to avoid others from saying this about me.

Secondly, I am very ordinary, ordinary looks, introverted personality, unassuming, inconspicuous, so it is not easy to be noticed by excellent men, and I will not be actively pursued by excellent men, inferiority, introversion, and innocence lead to myself not taking the initiative to pursue excellent men, so I meet men who are worse than me.

What a painful realization, so how to break this situation?

First of all, enhance self-confidence and believe that you deserve better, only in this way can you dare to pursue excellent men. I deserve it, I deserve it, that's fundamental.

Secondly, introverted relationship advantagers pay great attention to relationships, are very afraid of the relationship being destroyed, meet a man worse than themselves, want to separate, but can't make up their minds, and can only make mistakes and wronged themselves in the end.

The most critical step to avoid this is to set thresholds. Look at the material conditions first, the external material conditions do not meet the requirements, don't go to the relationship, the longer the time, the more passive.

Use external material conditions to screen out men who are not as good as themselves, so that you can have the time and energy to meet excellent men.

An excellent man will make himself feel better and materially better, and a man who is not as good as himself will only lower his grade. Why do you work so hard? In order to live a better life and meet better people, why should you entangle with a man who is not as good as you?

When it is broken, it is broken!