About my parents who went to see my boyfriend for the first time

Generally, it is to ask about your family situation and your job, etc., and yours does not need to go into depth. Besides, it's just the first time they meet, so there is no need to say so much, I believe they also know that they should not ask too many questions when they meet for the first time, and they should show their good side.

But think about living with them if you get married later, so don't be inhibited.

One: Be confident in yourself, trust your boyfriend, and he will protect you.

Two: Don't be too pretentious, be yourself (be knowledgeable, let the other party's parents see that even if they are born in an ordinary family, they have received a family education since childhood, which is no worse than those rich people).

Three: The most important point! Be sure to laugh and be kind.

In fact, parents prefer generous and decent girls rather than twisted ones, especially parents of government agencies. So naturally, don't do anything deliberately, pay more attention to etiquette, since your parents want to see you, they naturally want to understand you as a person, not how the family is, because after all, no matter how the old people are, it is still for the good of the children! They just want to meet you, see your character or something!

As long as it's real, usually your parents ask you to go to his house just to see you, so politeness and etiquette are done. As for the work of the parents, it is a matter of the previous generation, just work your own.

Dessert in your mouth, just be diligent and hurry.

1. Be diligent and fast.

Being diligent after arriving at the man's house is a virtue, a quality, and a manifestation of family education. Although people are generally lazy nowadays, the first impression is very important when meeting the man's family for the first time. Maybe it's okay if you're not diligent, but if you're diligent, you can leave a better impression on the man's family.

2. Be sweet in your mouth.

It doesn't cost money to talk, and after arriving at the man's house, it's a good thing to have a sweeter mouth. You know, the man's parents are also seeing you for the first time, and they will also play drums in their hearts, and sometimes they don't know what to say. If you sweeten your mouth, you can relax them so that they will not be so restrained when chatting.

3. Smile more.

Or the sentence above, when you go to the man's house to meet your parents for the first time, the man's parents also see you for the first time, their mood is actually similar to you, if you don't smile, they naturally don't have the heart to laugh, instead of worrying about who creates a relaxed range first, it is better for you to take the initiative, be a person who loves to laugh, and make the environment more relaxed.

4. Women perform poorly.

If a woman goes to the man's house to meet her parents for the first time, instead of doing the positive things mentioned above, she does a lot of things that make her very down, and does a lot of things that make the man and his family very shameless, the outcome is often not good.

5. Parents do not approve.

This point makes people a little powerless, the man's parents don't approve of you and oppose you being with their son, no matter how good you behave, they are against it, and the ending is self-evident, often not too good.

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Hello dear, parents who meet their boyfriend for the first time, we should try to show our better side, and if you are going for the New Year, you should bring a little gift.

Of course, when we meet him, we can also observe one of his family situations.

Question: During the Chinese New Year, his mother came to my house to see me alone.

Am I going to buy anything.

If his mother is a little more simple, we can give her clothes.

But I think the most important thing is that we get what we want from our parents.

I have to pay attention to one of his mother's personality problems, because if she gets married, her mother is a mother-in-law with a strong personality, and it is not particularly easy to get along with.

The first time we met, it wasn't just him who was thinking about us, we were also looking at him.

It's called an informal meeting, and there's the next formal meeting, and you're done, and there's no next time, and you're done. ok

Uh, the first time I see my parents, I usually go to eat at home or outside, do his parents live where they work? If yes, you can choose to bring some fruit or something, and call your aunt or uncle when you meet. Generally, when a girl sees a man's parents, there are not so many rules, and it doesn't matter if she brings anything or not, the important thing is that she must call someone when she meets.

A little sweeter in the mouth is generally liked by parents.

How long have you been talking, does your boyfriend love you very much?

It's weird, how do you make an appointment at work, how do you chat at work?

The first time I went to my boyfriend's house to meet my parents, I spent 2 months' salary to buy a box of high-grade cordyceps, but it ended up being thrown in the trash, is this what I mean?

I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year, and my relationship is very stable, so I talked about meeting my parents, after all, the stinky daughter-in-law wants to see her in-laws sooner or later.

I knew before that the conditions of his family were very good, the family was a company, there were luxury cars to pick up and drop off at all times, and there were nannies at home to help cook.

Because it was the first time to visit the door, in order to show my attention, I specially inquired about his mother's hobbies, bought the cordyceps that her mother usually takes, and bought the tea that his father likes to drink, which cost me almost 2 months' salary.

When I arrived at his house the next day, I felt that there was a big difference between people, they lived in villas, and the house was very neat and clean, which made me a little girl from the countryside very uncomfortable.

The gifts given to her parents did not show any special happiness, but kept asking me about the situation at home, and my parents' work was like investigating the household registration.

I saw that his parents didn't particularly like me, so I wanted to go home, but my boyfriend kept persuading me, saying that his parents were used to being leaders, and that was like this, and their joy and anger were invisible.

I was nervous that the meal was finally finished, and after the meal, I offered to help clean up the dishes and chopsticks, but no one stopped me. But I found the cordyceps that I had just given to her mother in the trash can in the kitchen, and the packaging was carefully selected by me, so I would not be mistaken.

What does his mother mean by that? Don't you just look down on me? I was so angry that I turned around and left their house, and I didn't care about my boyfriend who came out to chase me.

In the evening, my boyfriend apologized to me, saying that her nanny accidentally dropped the cordyceps, but I didn't want to believe him anymore.

It was something that happened between me and my ex-boyfriend, and to this day, I still don't regret my decision to leave him. The circles are different, why bother to be strong, I don't want him to be angry between me and his mother in the future, and I don't want to wronged myself to cater to his mother.

Although our family is poor, I think there must be a minimum of respect for people, which cannot be exchanged for any amount of money, and it is not that rich people can look down on people casually.

Do you think I made the right decision?