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-0...I don't understand. Why should a woman live so without self-esteem?
LZ, you really give us female friends"Shame"...Don't you know. Men hate that kind of stalker woman the most.
Even if you go. If he doesn't love you anymore. He will not have the slightest mercy for you.
And you do it that way. It's hard to say, it's a bit of a thing"Cheap"Finish. So, be a smart and rational woman.
You have your self-esteem. Give up on him. ^
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Everyone has said that they can't see what to do! ShameDon't go!
Be a dignified woman! @世间的男人大把的有! It's not that he's missing!
If he loves you, go see him, why can't he see you! Don't go pull.
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He said that he couldn't see you anymore, why did you still go, and he was not the only man in the world. If you don't see it, you don't see it, what's the big deal?
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Wishful thinking will not be happy, let it go when it's time to let go, or there will be another better and clearer sky.
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I hope you still don't forget it. Because he may have his own troubles. If you still love him, you should listen to him.
If you don't want to lose him, do what he wants. If he really doesn't love you anymore, I don't think he will lie to you. Who would joke about the happiness of someone else's life?
Yes, I wish you all the best!
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The first time I went to find my boyfriend, he drove to pick me up, and the second time he told me to take the shuttle, should I be angry? This question seems simple, but it is not so easy. Because it involves feelings and relationships, it is difficult to respond with simple answers.
1. Sentiment analysis.
From an emotional point of view, there may be some implicit emotional needs in this question. By analyzing the language and tone of the user's question, it can be seen that Zheng Li is dissatisfied and disappointed with her boyfriend's behavior. Therefore, we can infer that users want their boyfriends to pay more attention and care to themselves, and want to be more loved and pampered.
At the same time, she also has some feelings of suspicion and distrust, worrying that there is a bad motive behind her boyfriend's behavior.
Second, the solution.
1.Communication is key.
Let's be clear: everyone's lifestyle and habits are different, and you can't impose your own values on others. Therefore, before dealing with this issue, we need to communicate with our boyfriend first to understand the reasons behind his thoughts and behaviors.
Maybe your boyfriend has other arrangements, or there are other reasons why he can't pick you up, and these need to be communicated to understand.
2.Rational analysis.
We need to do a rational analysis. Since your boyfriend is driving to pick you up for the first time, it means that he cares about you. If you take the shuttle a second time, maybe it's because he has other things to deal with, or because he thinks you'll be able to solve the problem on your own.
These are not bad things, but rather an opportunity to exercise and grow. Therefore, we need to look at this issue from a rational point of view, and not be too emotionally and subjective.
3.Communicate rationally.
We need to communicate rationally. If you think your boyfriend's behavior makes you feel uncomfortable, communicate with him and let him know what you think and feel. However, when communicating, you need to avoid overly emotional and aggressive words, and instead express your thoughts objectively, clearly, and unambiguously.
At the same time, it is also necessary to respect your boyfriend's thoughts and feelings and find a solution that is acceptable to both parties.
3. Scope of application.
The scope of application of this question is not only limited to the relationship between two people, but can also be applied to other interpersonal problems. For example, your friends aren't acting according to your expectations, or your coworkers aren't doing their jobs well, which can leave you feeling dissatisfied and disappointed. In these cases, rational analysis and rational communication are also needed to find a mutually acceptable solution.
IV. Conclusion. The first time I went to find my boyfriend, he drove to pick me up, and the second time he told me to take the shuttle, should I be angry? This may seem like a simple question, but it involves a lot of emotional and interpersonal issues.
Through the discussion of analysis, solutions, and scope of application, we can come to a conclusion: rational analysis and rational communication are the key to solving problems. At the same time, we can also learn some methods and skills to deal with interpersonal relationships, so that we can become more mature and rational.
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Summary. First, I'll be direct: "It's okay, I can pick it up myself."
Then, I will give some solutions to make the guys more receptive to my ideas:1I can take a taxi to pick you up so you don't have to bother.
2.I can pick you up with a friend so you don't have to worry about me picking you up alone. 3.
I can go with you to pick you up so you can make sure I'm safe. 4.I can find some reliable friends to pick you up so you can rest assured.
Finally, I would suggest that the guy can consult with me in advance so that we can better solve the problem instead of making decisions alone. In this way, we can communicate better and better understand each other's ideas so that we can reach an agreement.
First, I'll be direct: "It's okay, I can pick it up myself." "Then, I will give some solutions in order to make the boys more receptive to my ideas:
1.I can take a taxi to pick you up so you don't have to bother. 2.
I can pick you up with a friend so you don't have to worry about me picking you up alone. 3.I can go with you to pick you up so you can make sure I'm safe.
4.I can find some reliable sleepy friends to pick you up so you can rest assured. Finally, I would suggest that the guy can consult with me in advance so that we can better solve the problem instead of making decisions alone.
In this way, we can communicate better and better understand each other's ideas, so as to achieve a closed relationship.
Fellow, I really didn't understand, I can be more specific.
It's okay, I can pick it up myself. Although it is a bit inconvenient, I can also take the public chain to touch the means of transportation, such as subways, buses, etc., and pick it up by myself. In addition, I can also take a taxi, which will make it quicker and safer to get to my destination.
In addition, I can also go with friends to talk to, so that I can reduce some expenses and Luhu can enjoy the fun of travel better. In short, whether it is to pick up or take a taxi by myself, I can arrange it myself, don't worry.
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Do you want me to pick you up, what does the other party mean when he says no, just like that?
Dear, hello, I'm glad to answer this question for you, I've helped you check the relevant information of the Lu Liquid Clan, please record it, thank you! There are several possibilities for the meaning of this sentence, which need to be determined according to the context:
The other party may say that they will no longer ask if they need to answer, hoping to avoid embarrassment. The other person may express that they don't want to pick it up and suggest that you solve the traffic problem on your own. The other person may think that you have rejected his kindness and want to end the topic without further ado.
In conclusion, the meaning of this sentence is not clear and needs to be understood in context. If you have any doubts, you can ask the other party directly so that you can better communicate with them. Dear, the early cons are the answers I have compiled for you, please check them, I hope the above can help you solve the problem!
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Summary. Dear, what caused you to cause this situation?
He always picks up ** and doesn't speak, you ask him to pick it up, you say why don't you ignore me, he won't pay attention to you, you say I want to call you, he just let you shout and hang up, before I didn't pick up and hung up a mood that ruined the sky, or I took it and blacked it out, sometimes I didn't pick it up if I didn't black, what's wrong with him, just now I had a spine quarrel and hit several**, I didn't believe in the size of the slender, I opened up later, I told him, I was very concerned about it, and I was sure to take it, and he didn't talk when he took it, does he still love me.
Dear, what caused you to cause this situation?
If he is willing to answer you, it proves that she must still love you.
He said that he married me, I said okay, find me a teacher to marry, asked him if he had, he said he didn't have around, he was too careful, I said I was going to move, he said yes, tell me to clean up my things, call Lala to move, I said I don't want Lala to ask you to come back to move things, he scolded me angrily, I don't know how to refuse the silver thing, that's it, just let him say he doesn't want you to say, he is serious, I said we will become strangers? He said, yes, I said I still love me when I go to Zhejiang, he said, what do you say, I will blacklist him for a second, he will ignore me from now on, and he went to play one, and he retired, I have been waiting for him, beating him and digging a banquet**, sometimes good and sometimes bad, it is such a contradiction.
No, the joke was too much, he took it seriously, I asked him to find a teacher to marry me, ** knew he was angry.
That should be serious, men will definitely be angry.
Don't talk angry to men.
Now I apologize to him and don't listen to your explanation, and the teacher will help you analyze and analyze.
No more blacklisting.
Then you call him **, pretend to cry, he will definitely feel sorry for you.
Men will have a feeling of wanting to protect you.
Okay, give him a cry someday.
It's good to pretend to cry. Don't be too upset.
I can see that you care about her very much, but at the same time, you are in conflict now, and the teacher still has a way to get you back together.
You are not directly responsible, you are indirectly responsible.
Is it that you have been with him for a long time, he doesn't want to play anymore, he doesn't want to take responsibility, and he doesn't want to marry you. Using this as an excuse, I want to leave you. If you really can't be together, then separate, although the heart hurts, it's better than the two of you being awkward together. >>>More
I am very sympathetic to your current situation, and if you can talk about the troubles in your heart, it means that there is a cure. You are in a beautiful whirlpool, and it is naturally dangerous. Trying to get out is the best policy. >>>More
is indeed a silly girl, whoever cares more in the relationship is destined to pay more! >>>More
Forget it! Boys love to stalk! After changing the number, I will not be contacted again.