Was there a moment when you particularly hated your parents?

Mom and Dad don't get along, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law don't get along, Mom makes me hate Dad, let me hate Grandma. The family conditions are not bad, and I am free to spend money, so every time I say that I have the ability to get out and don't spend my money, I don't rely on my family to live in college. I always feel that I don't want to inherit the inheritance, and I really didn't expect to break a few houses for millions.

The saddest thing for me was when I realized that I started to hate my parents, hate my dearest people. Countless nights want to jump down, but I am not willing to let my life end here. I want to work hard to be a person who makes a lot of money, and then raise my eyebrows and return all the money to them, so that I don't owe each other anymore.

They loved me, and I loved them, so we cleared up.

When I had low self-esteem and didn't understand anything, I hated that they always confined me at home when I was a child and didn't let me go out to contact with society. I hate that when my mom is very tired after work, it is useless to beat me for an hour or two. I've changed a lot now.

I feel more and more sorry for my brother, a little boy who is being ravaged by his parents.

One evening, it rained heavily and thundered so loudly that they had to turn off the electricity. Later, I remembered that the window was not closed, and it was already dark in the room at this time, so I turned on the flashlight in my mobile phone and went to close the window. My mom came in and saw it, snatched my phone and smashed it to the ground, saying that she was still playing with her phone at this time.

I was very angry and shouted to her that it was too dark in the house, I turned on the flashlight and closed the window, and she didn't believe it, so she had to say that if it was dark, she would hold her phone if she didn't look for the light. I picked up my phone and went out in the rain, not wanting to say another word to her.

On my birthday, the family made an appointment to have dinner together, and on the same day, one of my dad's old classmates said that he would come to our neighborhood (about 1 and a half hours by car) and ask my parents to have a meal together, so they agreed, wtf...Of course I still ate dinner, ordered the fastest dish, they watched, I ate alone....After eating, they left in a hurry. Do you know why the old classmates came? Her daughter came back and got off the plane at our airport, and when she arrived in our city anyway, she called my parents to have a meal and meet her...That's why you're called your own father...

When I was a child, I didn't realize the shortcomings and mistakes in my parents. But as I got older, I began to realize that they were making bad decisions and behaviors in some way. Some of these bad examples include:

1.Prejudice and discrimination. My parents came from a traditional family, and they were prejudiced and discriminated against certain groups, such as different races and genders. I found that their views and attitudes towards these issues had an impact on me, and I also started to become a little biased and discriminatory.

2.vexatious and irritable. My mother loses her temper easily and shouts and makes trouble if she doesn't like something.

This behavior made me feel very uncomfortable, but there was nothing I could do to stop her. I also found myself getting impatient and vexatious in certain conversations.

3.Laziness and procrastination. My dad would often procrastinate doing things, and instead of solving the problem immediately, he would put it off over and over again.

This behavior annoys me a lot, and I don't feel any good about it. But I often find myself also missing out on a lot of opportunities due to procrastination.

Even though my parents made bad decisions and behaviors in some areas, I think they still played a positive role in my growth and development. They are great role models for me to grow up and I have benefited greatly from their good deeds and virtues. Their role models are as follows:

1.Positive role model. My parents worked very hard and they always did their best to ensure our quality of life. This kind of hard work and persistence has benefited me a lot, and I also strive to be a hardworking person.

2.Perseverance. My mother was always calm and optimistic in the face of difficulties and setbacks. She always told me to be resilient and not to give up easily, no matter what the situation is. This spirit inspires me to face any challenge in life.

3.The attitude towards Sakura's blind treatment of family affection. My parents put a lot of emphasis on family and affection, and they always wanted us together. Their love and support made me feel warm and comforted. I also want to be a kind and caring person for my family.

To sum up, while my parents made bad decisions and behaviors in some areas, their good and good behaviors in others still had a positive impact on me. Their example was far-reaching and made me a better person.

Don't go to extremes, put yourself in the right mind, look at your parents from another angle, I also grew up in such an environment, I didn't understand when I was a child, and now I'm a parent, maybe how strict I am, I write about my parents because of my low level of education, and I won't express my expectations and love for you, but there are no parents in the world who don't love their children, understand them more, anyone in this world can betray you, only your parents won't help you in your most difficult situation, and only your parents will give unconditionally, and they may be depressed, and they will vent their pain A little more atmospheric, the pattern will be enlarged, and the road will go farther and farther.

I think I have a lot of right to speak on this topic, and I've read a lot, all of which are saying that your parents are good, your parents won't hurt you, and I've never felt empathy, only I know what I suffered before, and the one I hate the most in my life is probably him, I can't even call a father now, not all parents are qualified to be, just because he is your parents, you can't say anything, since he was a child, I can understand your feelings, I don't even rely on it, my family is on his side, no matter right or wrong, I hate them, Because of them, I have those unbearable childhoods, I am still a high school student, and I have to rely on them, I am so distressed, I really envy those little girls who have been born with a good family environment, I can't find anyone to cry ......

I also hated my parents, especially my father, and that pain was implanted in the depths of my soul. Half of my life has been caused by their shadow and pain. Childhood is very similar to yours, desperate, wanting to die, and even turning into a ghost will not let go of their grief.

I've come to this world until now, and to be honest, most of it has been spent in hatred. This desolation goes deep into the bone marrow. Because of them, I am not like a human being, nor a ghost, nor a ghost.

I want to commit suicide but I am unwilling. A lot of times I wonder, why was I born in such a damn family? I also hated my brother for his cunning, and he indirectly took everything from me.

When I die one day, I must wear red clothes and die in the early hours of the morning.

After carefully and carefully reading what you wrote, in fact, all parents now have a strong desire to want their son to become a Chan, so forcing them to do a lot of things may make you suffer a lot and suffer a lot of sins, but what can never be denied is that they brought you to this world and raised you. When you succeed as a father and have children of your own, you can understand their feelings and struggles. I hope that you are getting better and better, and your parents are getting older and older, and they are gradually unable to take care of you.

I still hope that you will let go of the dissatisfaction in your heart and make your family more happy.

Our experience is like, my parents are like this, they never think about my feelings, they always scold me, it's always my fault, they are all right, they are all for my good, I can't do anything against their will, any ideas I have are stifled, and they will often quarrel and complain about each other, I am so tired, I also want to get away from here, but I am still a student, and I feel like I can't hold on anymore......

Parents love their children, and hope that you will avoid detours, maybe you are too harsh on you, too much of a word, all for your good. "It's all for your good", maybe you will contradict me, but yes, it's just that maybe they did it in the wrong way, in the way of the older generation. You can try to express yourself in a way that is appropriate, and at the same time try to understand them, if you can.

You can live separately from your parents, so that you will have your own reasons and there will be a lot less quarrels, but you must let your parents know that you are very safe and happy when you are alone

My memory when I was a child was quarrels, fights, my father always came back drunk and beat my mother or beat us, when he grew up, his mouth was still poisonous, he would say whatever was ugly, and we sisters had to accommodate him when he was old, I quarreled with my wife, he sent a message to my wife saying that she was like this and that, and said that I wished her happiness in the future, I was so angry that I didn't want to pay attention to him, he was still complaining there, I couldn't bear it, I said if you hadn't sent a message and said that we wouldn't have quarreled for so long, and he also said that I blamed him, and I didn't want to kill myself ...... if I didn't want to live

Don't you feel that it's a big rebellion to say this, no matter how bad your parents are without them, there will be you

Because they are ignorant and ignorant, they have created their current situation, and they put their hopes on you, hoping that you will succeed in their place, become their bragging, and add a ray of color to their original unbearable life.

It is recommended that if they are too preachy and affect your normal life, work by yourself during the winter and summer vacations to earn some money to rent a house to live in. Explain to them that you can give living expenses before the age of 18, earn your own money in college, and return 10 times the money after graduating from college. But you still have to be filial, and the current rebellion is for your own future, and you have to do it as a last resort.

Alas... Having said all this, I just expressed my resentment against my parents, and resented that their preaching ruined my love for learning. As a result, I failed to get into the ideal university.

Child, please beg your parents to live in the school... At 18 years old, it's really time to face something on your own.