How did you find out that she didn t really care about you that much?

In fact, it was not discovered suddenly, but little by little, after the accumulation of disappointments again and again, and the compromises again and again, I have to admit that he actually did not love me as much as he imagined. Of course, I was very disappointed in him, very disheartened, but in fact, I was even more disappointed in myself, because countless times I knew that there was a dead end in front of me, and I didn't repent again and again, and went to the dark one by one. Yes, I used to be too compromised, too rational, too considerate of the other party, and always felt that girls should be reserved, knowledgeable, and courteous, not for a little thing, and give each other a little more understanding and space.

It turns out that it is completely wrong, and it depends on who the other party is, whether they treat you as an equal and respect you.

I just called him **, and he said that he had a cold and a headache and was sleeping. Ok, I won't bother him, but when he wakes up, I'll ask him why he didn't tell me anything beforehand and changed the couple's avatar privately. Maybe it was a small thing to him, but it wasn't at all in my eyes.

I think I can't forget the feeling of that moment in a short time, open WeChat, think that he is in a bad mood today, and care about him. As a result, I didn't see a familiar avatar at a glance. At first, I was a little puzzled, what's going on, did I work too much on WeChat, and others squeezed him down, and when I took a closer look, I saw the nickname I set for him, next to the avatar, the avatar had changed, and then I opened the chat page ignorantly, a row of chat records were staggered, only my own love was dazzling there, innocent, embarrassing, pitiful, and ridiculous.

It's like a basin of cold water pouring down from the top of your head, and it's cold to your toes all at once. I looked at my phone blankly, feeling so wronged, I didn't do anything wrong, but I was treated like this. But fortunately, the brain, which had been chaotic for months, finally came to its senses thanks to him.

When I feel extremely sad, I feel that I suddenly breathe a sigh of relief, so relaxed. Sure enough, it's better not to talk about such a relationship, I don't know how many times I've cried for him in private, it's too consuming for myself and it's not worth it.

The whole face, the body language can't fool you, can it? People who don't love enough, have a gloomy complexion, dull eyes, stiff demeanor, and dull and stylized movements.

Love or not love, it's actually easy to detect. In the past, when I mentioned dissatisfaction, he always agreed immediately and would practice to change it in action, but now he will say that I love it, is it wrong? I used to want to spend time with me on weekends, but now there's always a reason to go home.

In the past, there would be a response after sending a message, but now I am so busy that I forget about it. I used to laugh when I was upset, but now his friends think I'm doing it too. That's probably it.,Slowly don't love it.。

For a while, he didn't contact me much, and I didn't contact him much, but then I couldn't help but contact him, and every time I couldn't say a few words, he said that he was tired, sleepy, and had to work overtime, just didn't accompany me to talk about it, and after many times, I slowly knew that he didn't love me so much, otherwise when he first started chasing me, he was very diligent every day, and he didn't know how many times he came to my house.

There is a saying: daughters-in-law are all pretty from other people's families, and children are always good at their own families. Sometimes don't always look at others, but also look at the advantages and advantages of your own people, rather than blindly comparing them.

Of course, it is not easy to recognize whether your lover is a scumbag or not.

In the past, when I sent her a message, she would always reply to my message as soon as possible, but now she doesn't reply to my message for a long time, and says that she is very busy, but looking at the status of her friend's circle of friends, they are playing outside, and would rather play with others than reply to my message.

When I voiced him and asked him what he was doing, he told me he was watching TV! I haven't been able to reply to his messages before this! From that moment on, I decided never to bother with him again! Because, he doesn't care about you as much as you think.

The trip has been booked, I can only go, I said that I want to do it, I promised my friends to do it, and I took this as a responsibility, so I will send a message, and the other messages will not be returned, I feel very tired, and I don't want to explain to explain.

I don't know when it started, he didn't reply to my messages anymore, and the two of us were only able to meet when we got home from work in the evening, and we couldn't talk a few words a day. Sometimes when I say that I am uncomfortable, he always ignores me, and I feel that I am living a widowed life now.

On WeChat, you will always meet those courteous greetings, "Good morning!" Have you eaten? "What are you doing?" "Did you sleep?" Or a smiling face, or all his whereabouts, the ...... he met in a day or what he was about to do

For personality reasons, out of politeness, I have to reply, afraid that because of my indifference, others will misunderstand my arrogance, and I don't want to hurt the self-esteem ...... the opposite sexUntil they can't help but express their affection, this may be the end of frequent replies to contact. Even if some of the hints seem to be understood, they are between friendships, so please don't cross the line!

In the adult world, responsibility is the most important, and all of us are more or less acting out different social roles and family roles! Once you are out of boundary, please advise yourself to stop yourself from turning back in time!

I'd love to say that I reject inefficient and meaningless information entry. I'm not interested in what you're doing all day, what you eat, or going to play, even if you're good, it's someone else's husband. So....You'd love to share it with me, but, sorry, I'm not interested!

The person you care about doesn't really care about you! There is no reciprocal affection, so please cherish what you have, please cherish the people who truly love you! - Your family!

Dear landlord.

Glad for your question.

I know I can't, but I want to like you, many people are like this! However, many times it often hurts itself. After a long time, you will find that you feel that you are very ridiculous, a little silly, and even feel very naïve!

So sometimes we have to learn to give up, when we know that we can't, we should choose to give up, the long pain is better than the short pain, give up and give yourself a glass of cold water, douse the fire in the heart, run wild in the rain, sing and chant wildly.

It's all right! In order to be able to get happiness in the future, the so-called strong twisted melon is not sweet, don't ignore the whole garden because of the withering of a flower, open your hands, you will get more beauty!

Meteors are beautiful, but do you know that any star has its beautiful side, but you haven't found it, as long as you use your heart to find it, a lot of beauty is no worse than your current one! Well, that's it, people sometimes need to calm down and think with their hearts, only people who know how to give up will be happy people, I hope you get your own happiness! ~

Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!

1. The heart will be very sad, the feeling of heartache, and there is a kind of unspeakable pain.

2. Call him often and send him text messages. At this time, he will not pick up your ** or hang ** or say that he is busy and unavailable. Texting, he also teases Ye and won't reply, it's all the same excuses and reasons that break your heart.

3. I will be cranky in my heart, wondering if he has other women who don't love you anymore, then you have to think from the perspective of his finger spine, maybe he is busy or he is unhappy or has something unpleasant

4. I will think about the years you have been together, the bits and pieces together, and there will be a feeling of lack of happiness in my heart.

When he doesn't care about you, you must be strong and brave to face it, and when he doesn't care about you, you try not to annoy him, give him some time, and be more considerate of him.

When you are in love, you always feel that you are paying a little more than the other person, and whenever you do something and don't get a response from him, you will always be sad, disappointed, and even complain.

When I think about it, it's not that he doesn't care about me, it's that I take him too seriously.

In this kind of narrow space love, he is already a fragile and sensitive little trapped beast, and if he is slightly uncomfortable, he will erect a thorn in his whole body to guard against it, regardless of whether he is the person he loves or not.