Why is it so hard to be a strong man?

Don't put too much pressure on yourself, it's really tiring like that. No matter how strong a person is, he has a fragile heart, so why force himself....

There will always be times when people are lost, and don't distinguish between being a man and a woman. Instead, let yourself relax and get on with your life.

In real life, a man is too weak, and it is no exaggeration to say: "either self-destruction or self-harm", and the accompanying characteristics are: self-confidence, low self-esteem, indecision, indecisiveness, easy to be influenced by the surrounding environment, and constantly doubt their own value and whether the decision is correct.

Men with weak personalities are difficult to succeed, they will not be appreciated by their bosses, let alone the favor of women, no one wants to associate with them, they always find excuses for not working hard, they say that they are too hot and unmotivated in summer, and they are too tired and unenergetic in autumn; I want to go out on a sunny day, but I am not in a good mood on a rainy day; In this way, year after year, day after day, I cope with life with this lazy attitude. This kind of weak man, whether it is at work or emotionally, a man who is hesitant will only make people feel cowardly and not worth relying on. The indecision or avoidance of decadence shown by men for weakness at critical moments is the real poison of women.

Moreover, weakness is also harmful to men themselves, too weak men, regardless of gains and losses, to others, although left others with the impression of "good talking, good people", but the grievances in the heart of the heart I am afraid no one can share, all the pain is only known to you. The weakness of a man is a disaster for himself, for others, and for his family, because you can't protect them, you can't give them a carefree blue sky! As a man, you must be a strong man, a manly man.

If a man is not strong, then the whole family will definitely collapse, so a man must make himself strong.

What a sad thing it was, the man was almost breaking down, and he cried loudly with his newborn child in his arms. After returning home, the man took care of the child alone, washing his face with tears all day long, and the whole house became lifeless, not like a home at all. Sometimes men fall asleep crying and crying, and they don't take too good care of their children, and we, as neighbors, are very sad in our hearts, so we all advise men to be strong, otherwise this family is really going to collapse.

The man regained his strength and raised his children well alone.

Because men are the pillars of the family, they have to take on many things in the family in their daily life, and when they encounter difficulties, they need to rely on men to support, because men are the reliable and powerful arms of the family, if even the arms are weak, then the family may really fall, because the man must be strong, because he can't fall down when he encounters difficulties, on the contrary, they have to give strength to the family.

In addition to this reason, a man who is strong can be more brave to face the unknown and calm down, because being strong can inspire wisdom, when you want to give up, you don't just want to cry, but have the courage to face risks, the important thing is that kind of risk, can stimulate your potential, exude your wisdom, so that when you are desperate, you can meet an oasis in life and achieve hard-won success.

Men have to take on more responsibilities, and I have to say that men have more strength than women, not only physical strength, but also spiritual strength, because they have a heavy responsibility, and this responsibility tells them to be strong all the time.

In this world, men are the most tired creatures, but no matter how tired a man's heart or body is, you can't shed tears, because as a man, we must be strong, because we men are supposed to hold up a piece of the sky, as a man has a lot of responsibilities, must support the family for a piece of the sky, because there are wives and children around to take care of, so for this responsibility in order to want the family to become better, when men encounter some difficulties or setbacks, You have to be strong and get through it.

There is also a man is very strong compared to women, so when a woman encounters some difficulties, she can choose to cry or be coquettish next to a man, a man should protect women, and women should be given some sense of security, so that women think that you, a man, can rely on a lifetime, so you must make yourself strong to do this, in order to break out for yourself, to be able to shoulder this responsibility.

A man is the pillar of a family, and if a man is not strong, then the family will soon be crushed, so a man must be strong.

A man is a guarantee of security for his wife, the most reliable tree for his children, and a man can take on the responsibility of taking care of the family and protecting it at the same time. Although it is said that many families are now female protagonists and male protagonists, even for such families, men should also play the role of "pillars".

If there is any disaster in a family, the man is the first to show up to solve the matter, especially the economy of a family, mainly relying on the man of the family, if the man has no fixed economy because of something, or is bankrupt, he must be very sad and depressed, but as a man, he can't fall, but to find another way, therefore, the man must be strong.

Especially for children, the father is a superman and has superpowers, the boy takes the father as his role model, and the girl uses the father as her safety umbrella, so the man must be strong.

A man must be strong, so that he can have his own status in life, have his own happiness, and have his own real career and love to the fullest.

This is a standard man who always has his own strong heart in life, will do everything wholeheartedly, and will always have his own goals.

A man must have his own self-confidence, so that he can have his own real motivation, will not let himself back because of the difficulties in life, when he really encounters difficulties, bravely face and dare to challenge, this is a strong man.

A man with such a character will always have an excellent result in his career, and he will always achieve the best results in the end by constantly innovating in his career with his own strength.

This is a man who is very full in life, every day has his own pursuits, and such pursuits bring him great happiness, this is a strong man.

When a man encounters love, he needs a stable life, a woman needs her own sense of security, and when a man is not strong, it will always be a failed love.

This is a man with a sense of security, who uses his strong heart to protect his beloved woman, maintain his true love, and obtain the final happiness.

A strong man is a successful man, and only then can he be truly happy.

A man often has to bear more than a woman, and from birth, it seems that men have been destined to bear more than women. Women take care of the house, and men have to break outside. Therefore, women are idle helpers.

A woman is at home, just take care of the family and children, although women now work a lot, but women always play the role of virtuous helpers. So men must be strong to withstand all the pressure.

Men generally need to have their own careers and go to society to stabilize themselves and their families. Another reason is that women are more sensual creatures, while men are more witty creatures.

When it comes to something, men tend to be more resourceful than women. Men will also deal with things more, so women are always more delicate, while men need to bear more and must be strong.

Men and women are naturally very different, boys are usually strong, brave, bold, and more assertive; Girls are usually weak and weak, soft-spoken, and shy when they see people, these are the common impressions of people, and boys have a natural advantage in physical condition.

It seems to be taken for granted, and I think that boys must be stronger than girls, so that they can be called men. If a boy is not strong enough and is a boy who loves to cry, maybe his friends will laugh at him for being a girl.

It seems like a conventional thing for men to be strong. In fact, no one has ever stipulated this, but it is the consensus of most people, from a very young age, Dad told you to be strong because you are a man. Men are not allowed to shed tears easily, because this is a sign of cowardice......After hearing a lot of such words, everyone naturally takes it for granted.

But I would say that if you don't want to be strong, you can choose not to be strong, and if you're really sad, it's okay to be cowardly once in a while.

If a man is not strong, how can the family stand up, if the man is not strong, he will be called a coward. From ancient times to the present, I think this tradition has never changed, that is, a man should be able to support his own family, be able to support his wife and children, and be filial to his parents.

A man is the pillar of a family, so he must be strong to be able to make a family complete, to ensure the effective progress of a family, women are far stronger than men, but sometimes women must be attached to men, so people must be strong first and then women.

So sometimes women have to learn to understand men and learn to give each other a little space in their own families. Men just have to be good to themselves.

I think it is a common requirement of both physiology and society for men to be strong.

At the physiological level, men are significantly better than women in terms of height, weight, muscle content, and athletic ability. We've all heard the saying that with great power comes great responsibility. Because men are powerful, they are required to have more responsibilities.

But behind the responsibility, men must be strong. If you retreat in the face of difficulties, and if you give up when you see difficulties, then how can you shoulder the responsibility?

On a societal level, we position ourselves as both male and female. What comes to mind when you think of men? You think of making money to support your family, you think of being strong and brave, and you think of being strong.

You're not alone, it's the majority of people in society who think so. This is called a social need, a synthesis of the minds of most people in the environment in which we live.

In our ideology, men should be like this, and women should be gentle and kind. That's why we think men need to be strong. So when you feel that you can't stand it, think about the responsibility you shoulder, will you feel that being strong is a necessary thing?

Because we are men, your husband, the father of the child, the pillar of the family, the pillar of the family, the man is the pillar of the family, and we need to rely on us to maintain family unity and resolve external disputes, how can we do it if we are not strong, right, we cry all day long because of a little thing, how can this work, is it so to be strong.

Men are the fathers of children, set an example for children, right, look at how my father is every day, how great, let children become strong from an early age, this is also a good change in the child's heart, right?

We are husbands, why do my wives come back to chat with you every day, they may complain to you about unhappy things, such as who bullied, don't you still need a man to deal with it, right?

So it's not okay for a man not to be strong, if we are not strong, who will be brave for you, isn't it?

To support a family, the Chinese tradition is that men are the hope of the family and the hope of the country.

In fact, whether psychologically or physically, no matter how strong a man is, there will be times when he is vulnerable; When men once again play with the age-old adage of "men don't flick when they have tears" in the dead of night, maybe sometimes a hot real tear quietly slides down their cheeks. In fact, a tear that can be seen by a man himself can best make a man understand what it means to be strong. If a man wants to live a truly chic life, he must live his true self; If a woman wants to truly enter a man's heart, she must know how to understand and care.

Don't think that men don't be fragile and don't shed tears, that men are more lonely than women. Men need more understanding and comfort, and they don't show themselves, so they feel like they're strong. There is an untouchable "wound" and "pain" behind them, usually they don't let people see lightly, maybe only release themselves when they are particularly tired.

Hope it can solve the problem for you!