How do insecure people live, insecure people

In the later years of Jordan's career, he admitted that he was insecure when he was a child, because he had attractive ears and a receding hairline, and no one loved him, so he could only protect himself by laughing at objects with dance partners with his friends; After arriving in college and becoming a nationally recognized basketball player, he soared to the sky, and since then, he has worked hard to protect his perfect image. In 1991, when his shortcomings were exposed by the book "Jordan's Law", he was furious.

In 1993, he retired from the army tired of being constantly attacked by New York.

Actually, you can see a similar example from most competitive guys. The general journey is as follows:

Insecurity - longing for the comfort and approval of others - working hard - paranoid and competitive - creating a perfect image of yourself - giving back to the heart to give yourself a sense of security.

Of course, this is positive. The negative may also become:

Insecurity—the desire to gain a sense of strength and satisfaction from hurting others—leads to trying to radiate negative emotions towards the world around them.

In fact, Jordan also has this side, of course, compared to his front, a little less noticed).

What I want to say is:

Insecurity is not too bad. Any of your flaws and concerns can be your motivation. Find something you like, and then use the lack of security as a fuel, go for something, give feedback to your heart, and enhance your sense of security - you have the opportunity to do something great in the process.

Finally, the most well-known words:

Mencius said, trapped in the heart, weighed in the worry, and then done. Sign in color, make in sound, and then metaphor. Born in sorrow, and died in peace.

Just find someone to feel safe