How did you get through the busy and unpaid days at the beginning of your 20s?

It is up to us to create with our own hands and to work hard with our wisdom.

At that time, I was working hard, because I didn't have any money, so I had to work hard to accumulate my own money.

If you don't go to work, you can stay at home, minimize your expenses, and study at home.

It's very hard, but I've been working hard, believing that the sunshine is always after the wind and rain, and finally I got through that difficult period as I wished.

Every day is hard work, and wealth is slowly accumulated.

I'm in my early 20s and I'm very poor, how can I spend it, I care about buying everything, I can save it, I don't have a job, my family is in a hurry, and I don't dare to ask my family for money, really, a girl can't buy what she likes, it's very embarrassing, but I have a good mentality, I think everything is to have a good attitude, what kind of state should be in what environment, the only thing I can't forget is that I can, I can work hard or be able to support myself! Don't be discouraged about life. ‍‍

Of course, it is to act on your own and do what you can do. You must know that whether it is a part-time job or a study of art, as long as you work hard, do things in a down-to-earth manner, and are not afraid of hardship or tiredness, you will get better one day! Do the boss's business as your own business, don't worry about it, it will be fine.

Mindset is everything! There is no choice but to struggle! ‍‍

The rich directly overbearing president, the moneyless go to work to accumulate funds, and then plan to do some small business. For example, barbecue restaurants are quite profitable. Don't think about who to talk to, because that's really not what a 20-year-old man should do, it will only be a drag.

I'm 24, my friend got married early, and now I regret it. Don't think too far ahead, it's important to be feasible.

Conscientiously complete his studies, do a good job in every job assigned by the leader after graduation, learn business skills from the old comrades of the unit, explore by himself, accumulate bit by bit, and live a relatively simple life. ‍‍

The sunny years of twenty years old have just begun, the so-called poverty, I think, this age is poor in everything, there is no independent income in the economy, the school has not been successful, even if you abandon school at this time and enter the society, the social economy is nothing, so young people of this age should study hard, arm themselves with knowledge, not afraid of hardship, not afraid of tiredness, to have ideals, ambitions, and beliefs, so that you will have motivation, work hard and forge ahead, and spend this poor and important age group with heart. ‍‍

20 years old is the best age, I remember that at that time, I first found a job, and then told myself not to be afraid of hard work, or it is not related to my own major, to work first, to support myself first. Don't think about what interests, what majors, what prospects you have. Because in the face of survival, everything is a paper tiger. ‍‍

I think that when people don't have money, their willpower should be stronger than ever, and they should dig deep into their strengths, so that they can have both the main income and the by-products. Maintain an optimistic and positive belief in life, and naturally go through the hard days that you can't imagine.

At that time, I just interned and had not graduated from college, eight people in the dormitory except for one living with my boyfriend, a home is local, the remaining six people rented a house together and lived together, remembering the time at that time, it was really the happiest time in my life, although it was bitter, but there was really not too much trouble, although the work was annoying, but out of the unit, I really left the troubles behind, as soon as I went home, a room of people were there, although it was unstable, it was really warm, and at the end of the month, when the days were tight, Everyone put the money together, divided it evenly, and worked together to get through the sad days. When I'm not happy, we drink together, and when I'm hungry in the middle of the night, I go downstairs and eat skewers, and I really do whatever I want. At that time, there were people who went crazy together, got drunk together, cried together, laughed together, and those days were really good.

Now the days are better, but there is no such fun, go home alone, sometimes sad and have no share, pick up the mobile phone and want to complain to friends, but who is easy to live, are a stomach of grievances, can only endure by themselves, in the early 20s, poor, but the heart is rich. ‍‍

1. Work hard every day, just hoping to earn more money.

2. While working hard, you will also learn one or two skills.

3. I don't think about anything, I go to work every day, and I look forward to paying my salary early.

When you are in a bad mood, go out for a walk, chat with others, face real life in a different mood, don't immerse yourself in troubles, concentrate on work and study, and work hard, so that you will forget all the unhappiness when you devote yourself to work and study, and feel that the things that annoy you are too ridiculous to be worth mentioning!

Divert attention.

One, find things and things you like and transfer your negative emotions.

Second, work non-stop work, use things to paralyze yourself, so that you will forget this fact for a short time.

When negative emotions come, let them come and let it be. But do what you have to do, and don't stop your life for pain.

If I'm in a bad mood, I think eating can really be useful to distract myself, or keep myself busy and don't have time to think about the unhappy things.

Listening to songs, thinking about her, playing games, sleeping, I think these are the best, going out for a walk is getting more and more annoying It's useless.

Divert your attention, distract yourself through sports or TV dramas, chat with friends and drink, and go home and go to bed when you are so excited.

When you're in a bad mood, go out for a walk, chat with friends, and go shopping. Buy a piece of clothing that you like. Do something I like, I sometimes chase dramas, chase and chase and feel much better, telling myself that it's okay, everything will be fine in the past.

Run or do something you love, don't let yourself be idle, you will be cranky when you are idle.

Allow your body to relax, such as taking a bath. Take a look at more related books, ** yourself.

Everyone has a different personality, and I am certainly unique in this world! I also have my own personality I'm a violent, outgoing, cheerful, laughing tomboy

The unhappy thing is....Look at its good things, it's more happy, for example, if a cup is accidentally broken, I think, if it breaks, it will be broken, exercise your housekeeping skills, that's all.

"Cranberry" is super good-looking!

Lock Qingqiu" ancient saying, super good-looking, I want to see the title when I see it!

Rebirth, my gentle tyrant. It's good-looking.,The female protagonist has paid a lot for the male protagonist.。

Moon Whispering A classic of the classics!

"Night Gaze" is very good-looking, and the heroine is very powerful.

I spent the hardest days with work. I had just separated from my boyfriend when I was 11 years old. Because my family didn't approve of our breakup, no one understood me, and I couldn't stay at home.

I had to go out to look for a job, and I was alone in a foreign land, and I had no one to talk to. The first job I found was assembly line work, but in order to have accommodation and food, I had to work day and night. Later, it lasted for several years.

The past few years have also been very important for my growth, and I will solve problems by myself when I encounter them later, and I will no longer rely on anyone. So, in the most difficult times, you must keep working. Working can ease your anxiety while also giving you financial security.

People are most afraid of thinking too much with their eyes closed and doing too little with their eyes open.

Those difficult days will generally pass plainly, optimistic people face it positively, and pessimistic people think about it more and more badly.

There is no obstacle in the world that cannot be overcome.

Looking back, no matter how difficult the days were, they were just an episode in life.

Therefore, facing it bravely and moving forward bravely is the right way.

1. Have a side hustle that you can support yourself.

In the context of the rapid development of science and technology, except for a few jobs in the system that are relatively stable, other positions are likely to be replaced by artificial intelligence one day.

In order to avoid another unemployment crisis, I plan to start preparing for my side hustle after work. When you have a side hustle, you become a freelancer.

2. Plan your life in advance. Including career planning, investment and financial planning, marriage and childbirth and other life planning. Your efforts today determine your life in 5 years.

3. Be mindful and be kind to others. When you become an adult, don't vent your negative emotions to relatives and friends. That will only keep people away from you. Only if you have a good character, someone will help you when you are in trouble. Only by planting good causes can we bear good results.

4. There must be a big pattern of life, and there is no need to fight for success or failure. Some people owe tens of thousands of yuan in debt, so they commit suicide by jumping off the building. Some people are in debt for billions, and they still talk and laugh with others. The pattern gets bigger and you'll see a whole new world.

On the road of life, it is inevitable to encounter setbacks, in the face of difficulties, sadness does not play any role, only squatting down to accumulate strength, endure the momentary anger, so that the heart becomes stronger, quieter, stronger, wider, in order to have the opportunity to soar steadily to the sky. I hope that when you encounter a low period, you will not give up easily, and you can get out of the trough smoothly and return to the peak of life.

People come all the way, it is not as good as imagined, everyone will have sadness behind them, there will be unspeakable difficulties, everyone will have their own tears to wipe, will have their own way to go.

Reader Konishi is a 28-year-old girl who just graduated from college a few years ago when her parents found her a job in the county seat. But she resolutely refused, she had to stay in the city she liked and live the way she wanted.

In order to force her to go home, her parents decisively stopped her living expenses. They thought that their daughter was penniless and would naturally change her mind after a few months of training in society.

But Xiaoxi is so stubborn, she found a job by herself, and her monthly salary during the probation period was only 1,500 yuan. At that time, her financial situation was so difficult that in order to save a dollar, she took a bus without air conditioning. In order to save living expenses, she struggled every night with whether to eat somen in consomme or a little more extravagant instant noodles.

Even, the cubicle she rented was small in space, the environment was poor, and occasionally rats escaped.

Every time her parents called** and asked her if she needed money, she said that she was doing well. But after hanging up**, she always has the urge to regret it. But every time she told herself, no matter how difficult it was, she had to get through.

Later, because she was particularly motivated and studious, with strong work ability and good personality, she quickly showed her standing in the company, and was promoted from a small staff member to a department manager.

She said that now I drive my own car, live in my own house, and eat the crayfish I made, and suddenly I want to say to my former self, thank you for not giving up, so that I have the good luck I have now.

Perhaps many people have had such a time of struggle, feeling isolated, anxious, and even alone against the difficulties of the world. But in the end, you worked hard and finally got through it and saw the light. You know very well that when you hit the bottom, as long as you don't give up, no matter how you go, it will be uphill. 2

When you encounter difficult days, it is usually necessary to persist and persevere. Behind the pain are gifts, but the packaging is particularly ugly.

Facing pain in life is a great opportunity to grow, and he is reminding you that you need to change, either die in pain or grow in pain.

Pain is a key to success, when you face pain positively, when you encounter painful things in life, actively face it, it is a very good opportunity to grow, will make your life better.

Suffering, he is a wall that prevents you from succeeding.

Suffering will make your life full of complaints, accusations, feeling that everything is someone else's fault, always putting yourself in a victim mode, which will only make you more miserable, and facing the pain negatively will only make your pain prolong and deepen.

Pain is not wealth, reflection on pain is.

You ask how you can forgive people and things that have hurt you?

Since you think that others have hurt you, it means that you have always put yourself in the position of the victim, so that others can hurt you. Then you have become the role of a complainer, even if the other party really hurts you, this is also a good opportunity for you to grow, only let your heart really strong, when your heart is strong enough, others can not hurt you,

In the adult world, there is not so much time for us to vent. Heavy work tasks only force us to heal ourselves quickly. One second it was close to collapse, and the next second it was put into battle. We are all like this, sad and self-healing.

In the next life, I want to be a dandelion, no worries, no desires, no desires, and the wind is quiet. Don't be confused, don't be trapped in love, don't be afraid of the future, don't think about the past, so, well.

Later I learned to talk to death.

Deliberately not understanding any hints.

Saw through all the routines.

I'm not interested in anyone.

Once a person has feelings, he can't do it, you say you want to pay tribute to the past with a glass of wine, no matter how much you love, in fact, even if you are drunk until dusk and are alone, if that person stretches out his hand, you will still go with him.

In the adult world, no one is easier than the other.

People really have to accumulate strength in loneliness.

Survive a difficult time that no one knows.

And then it's like a train coming out of a tunnel.

Gentleness and light came to my face at once.

You discover the original world.

It can be so pleasant.

Those hard days will pass"