Is loneliness innate? Innate loneliness

Many people are afraid of being alone, afraid of being alone to face everything, and when we are afraid of time, we always want to have someone to accompany us. This is true nature, and finding someone to accompany you is a comfort to the soul. However, in most cases, we still feel lonely, especially as we grow older.

Loneliness doesn't understand that I'm born with it. It is because loneliness is the normal state of life, and a monotonous and boring life is the normal state of life, and there are many roads in a person's life that they still have to rely on themselves. No matter what stage of life you are in, you will have your own teammates, your own colleagues, and the same group of people as you are.

Maybe meeting them will make me feel so lonely for a while, but after a while, you will find that the people around you will change over and over again, just like when we were in elementary school and junior high school, and when we went to high school and college. The confidants, good friends and brothers around us are all different, but the same feelings are pinned on different people.

Does this mean that loneliness is innate, you can't do it, you can only say that the road of life is walked by one person, this is the person who accompanies you at each stage. No one can always be with you for a lifetime. It's just you!

Learning to endure loneliness in the face of loneliness is a compulsory course for a person's growth, which allows us to learn to enjoy that time in loneliness and live up to the growth that loneliness brings us. That's a success.

In fact, there is nothing wrong with loneliness, and it is not innate. Without loneliness, how can you experience the joy of being with friends? Because of loneliness, you can set off the beauty of life, and because of loneliness, you will feel that life is more exciting. <>

Thinking of the movie Scissorhands Edward, there is a classic line:

If I had never tasted the feeling of warmth, maybe I wouldn't be so cold; If I had never felt the sweetness of love, I might not have been so miserable; If I had never left my room, I wouldn't have known that I was so lonely.

It can be seen that loneliness is not innate, but rather a feeling of loneliness that arises from the contrast between your previous life experiences and the understanding of other people's living conditions. We live in a very strong community in human society, and people cannot cut off their ties with others and survive alone. If he has not grown up in human society (such as "wolf child"), then he may not have experienced the loneliness of human emotions.

There will always be a moment when you are alone, and no matter who is scattered around you, your parents, beloved lovers, or siblings, you can't stop your loneliness. You will start to think about life, you will start to be confused, you will not know where you belong, you will feel unknown about everything. It was the most splendid age of life, but I began to have the idea of returning to my roots.

In fact, everyone is an independent and lonely individual. Perhaps truly understanding loneliness is the real growth, we are born to adapt to this society, according to its underlying mode of existence, and live according to the step-by-step pattern. When we were children, we felt that when we grew up, we could change the world and fantasize about ourselves as the protagonists of TV series, but when we grew up, we were still the original selves, the most inconspicuous self in the class, living silently, a dispensable person, losing the value of our own existence, and began to feel lost, desperately squeezing into a body that did not belong to us, just to win a place for myself, and finally was silently abandoned, still alone.

There are no two leaves in the world that are exactly the same, and you may not be able to find someone who is perfectly compatible with your soul, but there will always be people around you who really care about you, people who really love you, who may not fully know or even understand you, but will always give you strong shoulders. When you feel lonely and alone, you might as well drink some wine alone, get slightly drunk, close your eyes, and quietly feel your surroundings, just like every pore has been enlarged, and explore your own nuclear life in a hazy cognition.

Yes, the only one who can accompany you from beginning to end is yourself, so you must protect yourself, love yourself, and warm others when your heart is full of energy.

Yes, everyone has their own life and their own path to follow, even if there are people at a certain stage, but in the end they are alone.

Loneliness is innate happiness, this is a book by Rousseau, when I saw this title, I felt very strange, I don't understand Ziyan loneliness, how is it happiness?

When I opened the title page of the book, I saw a sentence: Man is born free, but he is always in chains.

I remember reading a book called Maugham's The Shackles of Human Nature, and I thought that this sentence was from this book.

When I opened the book, I saw that there was "The Theory of the Social Contract", as well as "On the Origin of Human Inequality" and the foundation, as if I had only heard of it before, but had not seen it, and saw the last paragraph of "Reverie of a Lonely Walker", only in these moments of solitude and contemplation, I was the real me, okay, and my nature was in line with me, I was both carefree and unrestrained. Kind of understand the true meaning of the title.

This is a philosophical book, if you can calm down, read it, and feel it, the loneliness is the inherent happiness.

People are born lonely, from croaking to falling to the ground to leaving without interest, it is a person's business, others deliver for you, rescue for you, can only help. When you encounter confusion and hesitation, the only person who really unravels your heart knot is yourself, and no matter how much effort and persuasion others have, they will only approach you instead of walking into you.

The same goes for friends. People from afar, who don't know your current situation, listen to stories and nagging at most; The people around you may or may not be able to talk to them. Why bother others! If you don't know you, you will misunderstand the original meaning.

The same is true for loved ones. Parents are old, it's good to be happy with them, but they can't take care of them when they are thousands of miles away; Lover, you are nothing, just a word, how can there be the following and comfort; Child, innocent, how can he bear to let worldly things cloud his heart.

People are born lonely, so why be afraid of hesitation. Keep going on your own. No matter how confused, helpless, or reluctant, it will always disappear, but it was just a feeling at that time.

I am grateful for all that I have been through, both sad and joyful, because they have taught me to mature and witnessed my growth every step of the way.

I'm not superstitious, but I believe in reincarnation, and I identify with cause and effect. If you don't owe each other, how can you meet? It's hard to let go of just a passing memory.

If you miss the gorgeous summer flowers, you will definitely walk into the quiet beauty of autumn leaves.

Come, dry this glass of wine, and wave to yourself. A cup for tomorrow, a cup for the past, a cup for freedom, and a glass for death.