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Many times we will have a beautiful vision of love, especially girls, when they start to fall in love, they will plan their own future, and look forward to a better and happy life, but there may be all kinds of boys we meet. If you meet a guy who doesn't aim to get married, does such a relationship have any effect? Is such a relationship worth continuing?
What is the purpose of a relationship?
In fact, the purpose of love is very simple, most people go to get married, of course, there are a small number of people who fall in love to enjoy love, and some very few people are to meet the needs of the body. No matter what the purpose of love, there is a purpose for both parties, so the purpose of love is not only one, there are many situations, when you are ready to fall in love or have already started to fall in love, you must be clear about what the purpose of your love is? More importantly, you have to know what the purpose of the other person's relationship is, so that you can get the kind of love result you want, of course, this is not certain, and there will be unnecessarily results.
What kind of love is beautiful?
Love is beautiful, but is love not for the purpose of marriage beautiful? I remember that there is a saying that love that does not aim at marriage is a hooligan. But isn't love for the purpose of marriage a hooligan?
Won't a relationship with the purpose of marriage break up? I don't think so. When you are trying to get married, and some problems arise, and this problem touches your bottom line, what will you do at this time?
Maybe it will persevere, but at this time there is another person, not necessarily. So no matter what state you are in love, the main thing is that it is beautiful to give sincerely.
How should I fall in love?
Falling in love is a very happy thing, if you don't want to be forever, just ask for the time you once had, then the love at this time is happy, because this kind of love is purposeless, both parties are sincere, and this way of love is the most correct way to fall in love. So as long as both parties cherish each other, such a love is worth it. The above is my personal opinion, just for reference.
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Love that is not for the purpose of marriage can only be used as a training experience to fall in love, and it has no effect, and this kind of love will only make you more uncomfortable, so it's better not to talk about it.
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Not for the purpose of marriage", in fact, it can be discussed, there is a person who can share his joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and there is someone who can accompany him and do a lot of things, so that he is not lonely.
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I think it's worth talking about. After all, we can find experiences and lessons in love to lay the foundation for our own marriage in the future.
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Romance that is not aimed at marriage is a hooligan"! That's just a time to kill boredom, and it's not worth talking about at all. Love, please love deeply. If you don't love it, please go away.
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There is a role in practice, which can lay the foundation for future marriage; It's also worth talking about, because in this way you can realize what kind of person you are looking for.
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It should make you very happy in the moment, and if you want to talk about it, it's worth talking about.
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It's okay to talk, eliminate loneliness and boredom with each other, pass the time, don't take it too seriously, it will cause harm.
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The biggest wish of most girls is to find someone who loves them or the person they love the most, and live a happy life. Your question is, why don't girls fall in love with the purpose of getting married? It only means that you are not the person she loves the most for the time being, or the person she thinks loves her the most.
As the saying goes, a woman's heart is a needle, and you don't have to guess the modern girl's mind boy, and you can't figure it out if you guess. But I think women should not be so complicated, what they want should be idealized love. Maybe what they want is to find a handsome and rich person who she likes the most, a person who likes her the most and loves her the most, and that's it.
Finding a handsome and rich man who she likes and loves the most should be every woman's dream. But it's hard to achieve. So take a step back, the girl most wants to find someone she likes the most or who understands how she spoils her.
Generally encountered, no matter what he did or did, maybe it would be good in the heart of the girl who loved her the most. The girl will change all her strengths and weaknesses for him, and she will even lose herself. In my heart and eyes, there is only the one I love the most.
No matter how high the IQ of a girl at this time is, there will basically be deviations.
The girl fantasizes about having someone who loves her the most. Perhaps the existence of this person, the girl can be unaware, or even pretend not to know, and can enjoy the happiness of being loved with peace of mind. It's just because he likes her, and the person he loves the most is her.
The girl doesn't even know how to cherish at all, and squanders the boy's kindness to her and her without restraint. In the end, it was a big mistake.
Whether it is an introvert or an extrovert, whether it is a man or a woman, as long as she truly loves each other, she must care about you and your home very much.
There is no right or wrong in love, especially for women. I think there will be a lot of girls like Zhang Ziyi in real life, while falling in love, but in her heart she will always feel that something is wrong, and when she mentions marriage, she will have all kinds of excuses, but when she doesn't meet the right person, she can't say that there is a problem there, in short, she is unwilling.
Women are crazy, especially when it comes to love. We have seen a lot of women in the face of love madness, when they really face love, they will have no IQ, in the face of the man she likes, this man says everything is right, everything is true, even if in the end only to know that he was deceived, he does not want to believe that all this is real happened. When they face love, they can do not recognize their six relatives, cut off the relationship with their parents and relatives, or choose to go with a man without hesitation.
I'm sure there will be a lot of such silly and lovely women around us.
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I don't think it's really advisable to fall in love without the purpose of getting married, because it's irresponsible to a person, so I don't think this kind of relationship will generally have any good results.
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Not very desirable. Just thinking about falling in love with each other, in fact, he is not very responsible for the other party, and he has not considered the future of the two people at all.
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It is not advisable, love that is not for the purpose of marriage is a hooligan. When I was young, I always wanted a better and sweeter love, and I wanted to try to talk to different people about love with different feelings. But the feeling of love can't last long, and it will tend to be flat.
And it is right to know how to be flat and be able to find mutual support after being dull.
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It's not very good, but I'm more inclined to get married and fall in love, because I am, and I found him I liked, he was moved at first, but now he likes me too, maybe half a beat slower than me, but now I'm happy.