Is a girl who falls in love without the purpose of marriage frivolous?

I don't think I can say that. Marriage is just one result of the maturity of love. So we can't fall in love with marriage as an end in itself.

In this way, it will not be conducive to the natural nature of love. Don't think about getting married before your relationship has started or just started. In this case, it will bring a lot of resistance to your relationship.

When two people are almost in love, and both parties feel that they can move on to the next step, it will be more realistic for us to discuss marriage. If you are thinking about getting married at the beginning of your relationship. In fact, it was just a fantasy, because you were not necessarily suitable at that time.

Only in the process of falling in love, gradually getting along, can get to know each other more deeply. to discuss marriage. At this time, the ideological concepts of both sides will be more mature, and the things they think about will be more comprehensive.

I think that's the right attitude toward getting married. Of course, for some girls who just want to enjoy the joy of love and don't think about getting married at all, I think it's a bit frivolous.

When you are in love, as long as you treat each other with a serious attitude, it is a kind of respect for yourself and each other. When the time comes, it will be more natural for us to discuss marriage. At this time, we are letting the parents of both parties know each other, so that the marriage will go smoothly.

If some actresses only like to fall in love. It is indeed frivolous not to consider marriage at all, but we can't generalize and say that love without the purpose of marriage is frivolous. After all, when we are just in love, we just want to enjoy the fun of falling in love.

No, who can say that two people who are in free love are for the purpose of marriage from the beginning.

Today's children have started falling in love in junior high school, are they aiming to get married? Of course not, I didn't understand anything at the time! What about college, college fell in love, and the two of you aimed to get married from the beginning.

Be. Grandpa Mao said: "Love that is not for the purpose of marriage is a hooligan."

But what era was that, it was an era when most people still relied on blind dates to form families; It was the era when free love was the first love for each other; It was a time when loyalty was still very important. And in the era we live in now, most people have a history of love, not to mention the future, the previous ones were not for the purpose of marriage! If such girls are frivolous and boys are hooligans, then there are many girls who are not frivolous?

I think it's the result of a blind date to fall in love for the purpose of marriage, although there are marriages that are very satisfying, but, I personally don't like it, and I won't choose a blind date unless it is absolutely necessary. That kind of love, because both parties are going in the same direction, it is inevitable that there will be times when you are blinded by hints in the process, and once you start a family, the two of you find each other's shortcomings, then there will be a breakdown of the family relationship.

Now the post-90s group to be married accounts for the majority. Girls born in the 90s will have fantasies about love, so falling in love is an inevitable process, two people are together, cherish and let go, and the result is in the unknowable field of the future, even if your love is for the purpose of marriage, but the result is not necessarily marriage, since you are not sure, don't think about it so much, just cherish the present.

Therefore, girls who fall in love without the purpose of marriage are not frivolous as long as they are not emotionally different.

I think it's a little, after all, marriage is with the person you like, and you don't make the other party think that you are just having fun with the purpose of getting married, then that kind of love is not love.

No, because marriage is a very important thing, and you can't decide it at random.

It's not entirely like that, maybe you didn't give her enough security, and then he doesn't really want to get married! Maybe it's because of his personality, maybe it's because his own family has been divorced or something before, so he doesn't want to get married so much, you should give her enough security, care about her often, maybe she will be moved by you, and she wants to get married, you still communicate often.

Yes, in my opinion, love that is not aimed at marriage is a hooligan, both men and women.

In the past, men and women got married, advocating the words of the matchmaker of their parents, and after worshipping heaven and earth and sending them into the cave room, they worked hard to give birth to children, and they also valued sons over daughters. Many sons and grandchildren are more blessed, and the family is to last for thousands of generations.

Now that it is a new era of reform and opening up, what is the difference? It's just that he was given a little opportunity for self-choice in front of his parents' orders. It is said that it is free love, but is it really love, it should be said that it is free marriage.

Parents' right to speak is much lighter than in the past, but most people are not taking care of themselves in their bones, playing the role of a parent, saying that they are the right people to be able to husband and wife and Shunju case to raise eyebrows, what do you want a man to be self-motivated, have a car and a house, a woman is considerate, Gu Jiabing, Qingyu is a good match made in heaven. It's not that they sell themselves in the marriage market, buy each other, and strive to catch the person with the greatest value when they are the most valuable, but also say that they want to create the best conditions for the next generation, and then support each other to live a stable life centered on children. If you reach the age and haven't completed the task, in the end, don't you have to send your parents to all kinds of blind dates and matchmakers, so that men can have a share and women have a home in order to achieve social stability and live a harmonious life.

In this case, if you don't fall in love for the purpose of getting married, you're playing hooligan! How can you waste other people's precious courtship time at will? When you meet someone who is still so traditional, it's better to stay away, oh no, if you can easily introduce a Gu Liang who also thinks so, it's also a good fate.

The hallmark of social progress is to gradually dilute the necessity of marriage and the necessity of having children, gradually realize equality between men and women, and respect the differences in everyone's thoughts. People must be more and more self-conscious, will pay more attention to their own joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and will no longer be so willing to silently dedicate themselves to the succession of their own lives. This is a general trend that cannot be reversed by the society, no matter how much it emphasizes traditional ideas and traditional virtues, and emphasizes that mother-in-law is the greatest mother's love, and children are the crystallization of love.

In the future, the institution of marriage will be dispensable, the fertility rate will drop sharply, and raising children will become mainly a matter for the state. At that time, maybe I can be pure because of my porridge, you are happy, and I will happily fall in love.

<> this statement is too absolute, there are still some girls who are rushing to get married from the beginning, but if in the process of dating, she finds something inappropriate about the other party, she will choose to leave. Of course, there are also some girls who fall in love for the sake of falling in love, and they enjoy the sweet feeling of being in love.

Because girls are young, have youth, and have capital, they can also fall in love without the purpose of getting married.

Because girls like romance by nature, falling in love is a very romantic thing, so if you want to fall in love all your life, you will be bound by firewood, rice, oil and salt when you get married, and it is not romantic at all, so young girls are very open now, and they want to be in love all the time, if they are in love for the purpose of marriage, they may not be so romantic.

The main reason is that they are not in a hurry and have a fun mentality, generally they are still young now, they want to play more, they have to have children and take care of the elderly when they get married, how can they accept this situation. When they are old and can't play anymore, they will think about finding an honest man to marry, and then get married and continue to play, and the honest man listens to her, so they are not afraid, anyway, they also know that marriage has nothing to do with love at all.

On the one hand, life is too stressful now, and many girls simply don't consider getting married, as long as they are in love and happy; On the other hand, I feel that I am still young and don't want to think about it so far.

Young women are reluctant to get married because of the high social pressure and the bad social atmosphere right now. There is also the fact that the heart is too heavy.

Well, the reason why young girls fall in love is not for the purpose of getting married, they all like this kind of thing, the feeling of being loved, and then they like this feeling of love.

I think it can only be said that the girls you meet are not in love for the purpose of marriage, in fact, girls fall in love for the purpose of marriage, and they want to find someone who truly loves them and will be with them for the rest of their lives.

Sometimes, after talking too much, I understand a truth: not all love can go to the end, and the probability of going to the end is particularly low, so I don't care, and even some people have blindly wanted to go to the end, but the result is unsatisfactory, and they will not rush to get married.

Not necessarily, people think differently, since falling in love is not for the purpose of getting married, that is, you have not met your beloved, and you will definitely meet for the purpose of getting married

He is young, he is more fun-loving, and he doesn't want to be bound by marriage too early.

In fact, it can't be said that many young girls are also rushing to get married, but they don't meet the right person, to be honest, it can really make women crazy after getting married, especially if they don't meet the right person.

Nowadays, young girls don't fall in love for the purpose of getting married, and I personally think this statement is not accurate. Most girls fall in love at a certain age for the purpose of getting married.

Why don't young girls fall in love with the intention of getting married? Today's young girls are very open-minded, not very serious about love, and can get along when they want to, and break up if they don't want to.

A lot of people's mentality is to talk and compare. See if there's a better one.

The reason why they are not in a relationship for the purpose of marriage is because they are still young.

It can't be said that young girls don't fall in love for the purpose of getting married, I believe that most young girls are in love with marriage, and they all want to find someone they like to live their lives.

Young girls don't fall in love for the purpose of getting married, I think anyone falls in love. As long as the love is not for the purpose of marriage, it is useless.

This is a false proposition, and a false proposition has no answer.

Greedy for pleasure, forget the mission!

For women, what are the manifestations of not wanting to get married if they are only in love?

1. Don't like constraints.

In today's society, women are becoming more and more capable and can live well without relying on anyone. Conversely, after marriage, the quality of life decreases rather than rises. So more and more people think it's good to live alone. Freedom to do what you want and don't be tied down to another person all the time.

2. Economic independence.

Women with improved knowledge, education and social status tend to be financially independent so that they can support themselves and rely on when faced with the choices of their other half. After all, the economic base determines the superstructure, so I am financially independent, and I have equal capital with you.

So, in such a situation, if you get married, it must be because of love. If there is no love, there will be no marriage.

3. Quite lacking, I believe you deserve better.

I am well educated; Although she is not a peerless beauty on the outside, she is also charming and cute; Although the family is not a wealthy class, it is also well-off and wealthy; Although he does not have a lot of ability, he can also support himself; While I can't say I care about the world, I also have an open mind.

Why should I find someone who doesn't like to wronged myself? In fact, more and more girls think so.

4. Wait for love and find a soul mate.

Many people like and yearn for the kind of love between Sanmao and Jose, which is the mutual agreement of the soul. It's not for firewood, rice, oil and salt, or for chess and calligraphy, the two of them can talk casually. There is always a faint happiness between two people, not warmth but warmth.

So, such a girl is waiting for a soulmate. If a woman shows these 4 points, it means that she does not want to get married, so don't force it.

In fact, should everyone get on the wedding car? Everyone has their own opinion.

But I believe one thing must be universal: the person you're looking for will make you better and will make you feel warm when you think about it later in life.

Then the above is the manifestation or reason why women do not want to get married.

They are often reluctant to talk too much about the details of marriage with you, and they don't show much interest in marriage, and such women are often very independent and unwilling to get married.

When encountering some things, he will always maintain his own point of view, and will not think about the other party's feelings at all, and when the other party proposes to marry, the woman will not react at all. If two people quarrel, the woman will generally bring up the word breakup. Because I have no intention of getting married in my heart.

is very sensitive to the issue of marriage, and he doesn't want to meet his parents with the other party, and he doesn't think about future problems, just looking at the present, he will also show that he enjoys the process of falling in love and doesn't want to get married.

The first is that if someone proposes to this girl, she will definitely not agree, and secondly, she only thinks about eating and drinking every day, and has no plans to get married at all, and has no plans for her future life.