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It is said that falling in love without the purpose of marriage is to play hooligan, but falling in love is to find out whether the two parties are suitable or not in the process of getting along, and other aspects, only in the process of getting along will we know whether the two of us are suitable for marriage or not, so I think that falling in love is not necessarily for the purpose of marriage, but should be for the purpose of finding out whether the two parties are suitable.
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To be honest, the one who is responsible for himself for the purpose of getting married, but he also scores the situation, when he was young, he felt that he was happy, and he also felt that he would get married, but in fact, if he quarreled and got angry or something, he broke up and broke up, only to find that each other was not mature enough and it was not suitable.
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The answer to this question is different in everyone's heart, some people feel that they are responsible for themselves, some people feel that love that is not for the purpose of marriage is responsible for themselves, the moment of falling in love must want to stay at that moment, there is no purpose in falling in love, only the result, one is not suitable to break up, and the other is to spend a lifetime together.
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It's normal, many older single colleagues around me take the initiative to find a partner to fall in love because they want to get married.
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All love that is not for the purpose of marriage is a hooligan, and love for the purpose of marriage is a righteous gentleman.
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Personally, I think that if you are not responsible for yourself when you fall in love, you will never find the person you like, and every relationship will end without a problem.
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I think it's normal, individuals are just for the purpose of getting married, so when they quarrel, they don't think about breaking up, but solve problems together.
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Everyone has their own criteria for judging, marriage is a continuation of love, and whether you get married or not cannot judge whether it is true love. Everyone's understanding of love and the way of giving it is different.
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For older young people, it is too normal for love to be married for the purpose of marriage, and love for the purpose of marriage is a hooligan.
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Love is the prelude to marriage, if the other party meets the requirements of the other half in their hearts, age, material can! Then you can get married.
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I think this is responsible for myself and for him, and those who fall in love and get married are the happiest.
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If the purpose is not to get married, then why fall in love, don't two people who love each other want to get married soon, and then love each other for a lifetime.
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I think this kind of relationship is also very good, because the purpose is very clear.
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It's a very responsible idea, and we don't want to waste each other's time.
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I think that falling in love should be for the purpose of getting married, as the saying goes, it doesn't mean that falling in love without the purpose of marriage is a hooligan.
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There is a view that falling in love without the purpose of marriage is a hooligan, but now there is also such a view. In the matter of marriage and love, everyone has a different point of view, and everyone's foothold is all for their own good, and they are all looking forward to happiness and affection. How to look at falling in love for the purpose of marriage.
Generally, when a blind date man and woman are preparing to confirm their relationship in advance, when they go to meet their parents, they will ask, "What do you do at home?" This is a must-ask question. Because a good family can indeed cultivate better talents, but there are also some family backgrounds that are likely to be not good, but to be able to shape their children diligently, sometimes you can also look at the quality of the other party and the tutor.
Everyone is a high-performance stock, it all depends on whether you can give full play to his real development potential, blind date looking for the object is the same, we must see whether the other party is self-motivated to play their own development potential, enterprising is an indispensable thing for a person to succeed in his career. When you get to know each other, you can know what kind of person the other person is, whether the other party is motivated, whether they work hard, and whether they have development potential. There is no self-motivation.
In the relationship, the law of love and marriage means that you must want to find someone who can be trusted for life, with excellent quality, and also have indescribable personal charm, whether the two are attracted to each other, in fact, it is to see whether the two are attracted to each other by electromagnetic fields, people with good character are usually more attracted to the care and attention of others, and those with poor natural character will not be good for the people around them, so if you want to talk about the object, it is very important to look at the character.
When two people do get married for love, it is very important for couples who want to develop their careers and families well, and it is very important to live in harmony with good in-laws, when you understand each other, you can know what kind of person each other is, whether the other party is motivated, whether it is hard-working, and whether it has development potential. There is no self-motivation. With friendly and sensible in-laws, a happy married life is close at hand.
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I think it's very good to get married for the purpose of love, at least not to waste time, money, energy, very purposeful, and very good.
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This is to be responsible for yourself and others, the purpose of falling in love is to get married, if the purpose of falling in love is not to get married, then he has no feelings for you.
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Speechless. There are many men who are with the woman, even if they don't love her very much, because they all lack wives. This kind of man usually treats his wife very badly after marriage.
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Whether love should be for the purpose of marriage, Fengpi manuscript is actually a very common topic. Then there are different opinions about this answer.
First of all, if you talk about a relationship with the purpose of getting married, then you may lose a lot of pure emotional experience in the process of falling in love, because everyone is already doing such a thing with a purpose, and if the purpose is stronger, you will lose a lot of emotional things, which will affect the emotional experience. If you don't hold Yinxiao to fall in love for the purpose of getting married, many people may say that this is some of the shoddy acts of hooligans. This is irresponsible.
In fact, how to see whether the purpose is to get married? I think it's more about distinguishing between ages. If it is at such an age of youth, and it has not yet reached the point of talking about marriage, I think it is okay to enjoy a relaxed and happy relationship.
Don't have a lot of purpose, after all, youth is very precious, and love in youth is also a rare experience. If you say that it has reached the age of talking about marriage, getting married and having children. Then you must have the goal of getting married, because in this case, you will also be in the process of falling in love.
There is more responsibility, laughter, resignation and rationality in it.
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Marriage is one of the ultimate goals in modern society, and it represents a stable relationship, a way of life that is in the same boat, and a partnership that supports each other. However, real marriages are often full of unknowns, so many people find their lifelong partners through blind dates. In blind dates for the purpose of marriage, do people still need the factor of heart?
This article will provide a detailed analysis of this issue.
First of all, we need to understand the nature of heartbeat. Heartbeat is an emotional experience, which is the emotional response that a person produces when he meets a suitable object. Heartbeat may arise due to reasons such as appearance, temperament, and hobbies, and it is an emotion similar to love, affection, and affection.
In blind dates for the purpose of marriage, heartbeat can help people understand their feelings about the object more quickly, thus effectively shortening the time to get to know each other.
However, it is not wise to rely solely on heartbeat to decide whether or not to get married. Because heartbeat can lead to blind, impulsive, and irrational decisions. In the process of blind date, if the marriage is decided only by heart, people may ignore other important factors of the object, such as occupation, family background, character, personality and many other factors.
Focusing only on one point and ignoring other factors can lead to a blissful and short-lived marriage.
In addition, blind dates and heartwarming do not have to be mutually exclusive. In blind dates with the purpose of getting married, heartbeat can be combined with other factors to ultimately determine whether to get married or not. Taking family background as an example, if two people have similar family backgrounds or have complementary characteristics, this factor may increase the interest and affection of both parties.
If in addition to this, the personalities, hobbies and other factors of the two are in line, then the relationship may be more profound and solid.
Therefore, Chi Yuan, in a blind date for the purpose of marriage, there is a big personal difference in whether the heart is necessary. Some people may be more focused on factors such as personality, career, stability, etc., while others may be more focused on heartbeat. Either way, you need to analyze and judge from multiple dimensions on the basis of mutual understanding, and finally find a suitable marriage partner and relationship.
In this process, we can understand each other as much as possible through more mutual communication, recognition and experience, so as to finally get sensitive results and evaluations. If you can combine the two, that is, based on the heartbeat, but also pay attention to the influence of other factors, it may be a wiser choice to decide whether to get married.
Finally, blind date for the purpose of marriage is a mature and stable way of marriage and love, and when choosing this way, we need to explore and understand as much as possible to find the right person accurately. Whether you're tempted or not, you need to think carefully about one of the most important decisions in your life. Of course, this also requires a free and informed decision based on your own criteria and needs.
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Love with the ultimate goal of marriage should choose what you like rather than what you like, because the person you like will become more suitable in the process of getting along, and the right person may not become the person you like in the later stage. Many people think that if they want to get married, they should choose a more short and suitable partner, but this idea is actually wrong, because after choosing the right partner, the life of two people will become very dull, which is a very big test for the married life in the next few decades.
If the future life situation has always been a pool of stagnant water, both parties will feel that this kind of married life has no meaning, and Tongkai may do some bad behavior. At this point, it's too late to regret it, so it's better to choose someone you like at the beginning. When you like each other, you will feel that everything about the other party is good, and two people who like each other will make two-way efforts, and at this time, both parties may work hard to become the person who is suitable for each other to marry.
Although love cannot replace bread, the development between the two parties may become better after having love, so I hope you should still make a rational choice when facing love. Some people are afraid that after choosing the person they like, two people will not be able to live a good life, but at this time, you should think about it, how can you be unwilling to change for each other if you like each other very much, and at the same time, if the other party really likes you, you will also try to make some changes. Therefore, as long as two people are thinking about each other, there is no inappropriate problem between the two parties.
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