What is the experience of chasing a girl for four years and breaking up after a month together?

I was very disappointed, I felt like I had been poured cold water on my head, I felt that all my illusions had been broken, and I realized how big the gap between reality and imagination was. Sure enough, life is still only as good as it first appeared.

It shows that two people are still not suitable, and if you can chase a girl for four years, the girl and you should be moved more than love.

Maybe two people are not suitable, when they chase it, they only see each other's advantages, but they don't see their shortcomings, and they find that it is not suitable after they are really together.

If a girl is four years old, the experience of breaking up after a month together is a very painful feeling, and this girl is not together for a long time, and even friends can't be a friend.

Chasing a girl for 4 years together and breaking up in a month shows that the two people are still not suitable and there is no need to continue to be together.

I don't feel any regrets, because after all, breaking up together means that the two people are not suitable, but they will be very happy together.

It can only be said that the girl is really not suitable for you, or she really won't fall in love with you Let go early and start a new life.

If you break up after a month together, then I think you may not be very suitable, and I think you can consider changing your girlfriend.

Maybe the two of them are really inappropriate, and being together is also painful for each other, so it's better to break up.

That must be not suitable at all, I chased a girl for four years before I promised you, so I don't love you.

If you break up after a month together, it may be that the two people are really a little unsuitable and can consider redeeming it.

At the beginning, I also spent several years chasing a girl, and broke up within a few months of being together, and at that time I felt that it was really not worth it, I paid too much, and I didn't get the due return, but now I think about the previous experience, and it feels inappropriate is inappropriate

Sometimes I don't even know what love is. It may not be easy to come by, or it may have experienced countless setbacks on the way here, but maybe it is what you fell in love with.

I think this shows that the two of you are not suitable at all, if it were me, I would end this relationship and think about it directly.

I still think it's better to be friends than to be a couple, and there will still be differences in three views and some other things.

After chasing for so long, it may just be that I am unwilling and can't get it forever in turmoil, and when I get it, I find that she is like this.

A turnip and a pit, talking about the emotional situation. In fact, it is not true for love, excellent people, regardless of men and women, will be a radish with several pits, so this world is staged every day with stories of joys and sorrows. It is very happy to be in love with smart people because they are humorous and can talk, but there is also a crisis from time to time, because such people can easily change their minds.

It will be very reassuring to fall in love with an honest person, but life is also very boring. Leave the problem to me, I have some ways to guide you, as long as you don't give up.

It's hard to say. It can also be said that she still likes you and rejects you just to test you, which is a better direction to develop, because you can't let go, she will feel that you are very boring, and wants to test you in contact and contact. But if you sense that she is getting colder and colder towards you, leave early, after all, it's not too late.

Don't lose your wife and soldiers in the end. Therefore, feelings require the joint efforts of both parties, rather than relying on one person alone.

To start with her as friends Lovers are from knowing each other and then falling in love When you are friends with her, you must slowly transform from the most basic ordinary friend to a very good friend Know everything about her, especially hobbies, mate selection criteria, etc. Of course, you have to know that you can't ask these things directly, otherwise she will be suspicious.

I don't know when I see it, I don't know if it's mine, I don't know if it's not fighting, recruiting people, I mean it's in the new capital of Komeito.

It all depends on fate and your own efforts.

What is there to do, chase if you like, chase if you love, and say your love out loud!

Obviously, she is used to your kindness to her, but she has not yet reached the feelings of a lover for you, to put it bluntly, just like you are a spare tire.

To put it bluntly, it is the kind that uses you as a spare tire, and it will come when you need it.

If it really is interested in you, I will not ignore your request so many times.

It's not an abnormal thing to not be procrastinated for a year.

2. It can only mean that you are unlucky.

3. Then treat it objectively, don't look for better conditions than yourself, then people still don't look down on you. It's okay to be similar to yourself. (Guys want to find girls who are slightly worse than themselves, so that the other party will look up to you).

4. Stabilize your career first, are you afraid of having no women if you have a good career?

5. Be able to endure loneliness, if you just don't want to be alone and find a girlfriend, it is irresponsible.

6. I don't know about you.

7. Then go out and walk more, don't stay at home all the time, no one can sit at home to succeed.

8. Your career is unstable and you can't catch up with women, do you have self-confidence?

9. Then you will make yourself cheeky.

10. God can't save you, save yourself.

Very,,Interesting,,, we know each other very well

But I'm only 19 years old, and my parents instructed me to prioritize my studies and career

I think you should go to high school or college to find it, and you are more single, and try to find someone younger than yourself, because it is easier to chase

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Our grade is too young to help. But I sympathize with you, don't be discouraged, what should come will come. But I don't know if it's coming...

I know, after reading my answer, you might feel the urge to beat me up! Because when others can't see my true face, I'm the thickest skinned!! Ha ha!!

You confessed as soon as you broke up, you are too anxious! As soon as she left someone else, she threw herself into your arms, so what did she become!

Breaking up, no matter how you say it, it's an unhappy thing. At this time, you should be by his side, move him with actions, and say what you confess, it's all false. She is alone now, you are often by his side, and you have feelings for a long time, so do you still need to take the trouble to confess?

If you work harder and harder, she is still indifferent to you, then there is no way, it is useless for you to confess!

There is also a saying that there is nothing difficult in the world, but I am afraid of those who have a heart. As long as the kung fu is deep, the iron pestle is sharpened into a needle! Even if I don't like you, I will be moved by your persistence and sincerity!

Before, before my husband and me, there was a girl chasing him, and I said what would you do if that girl had been chasing you, all the way to now, 3-5 years from now. My husband replied that if he hadn't gotten married, he would have agreed!

So, nothing is impossible, it depends on your determination!

If you still love her, you should continue to wait, but you have to find the right time to say what is in your heart to her, after all, everyone will be very sad and sad when they break up, then you should be friends with her first, and after the trauma of both parties' hearts is better, you are boldly confessing to her at this time, if she accepts, it means that she is still thinking about you after the breakup, and the words that she began to say to you are just escaping from her inner thoughts; If she doesn't accept it, it means that she doesn't want to be a lover with you anymore after breaking up with you, and just wants to be an ordinary friend with you, then you can only be friends with her forever, and you can't be a lover with her.

What can you do, the first thing you have to do after a girl falls out of love is not to comfort, but to confess to her directly, which girl will accept it??? Even if you want to take advantage of it, it's not the right way. You don't have to do anything, you just wait for her, or you leave her.

Keep waiting, be her best listener, and when he comes out of the shadows will be your girlfriend!

Love is very simple but not simple, sometimes it has been decided at a glance that it is necessary for him, but sometimes, you devote your life to it, and she can't see it; However, if you love her very much, hold on to your love! When you are single and she is single, use your sincere heart to touch her heart and make your heart closer and closer.

You say: It's okay, it's okay to close it below, I'll come in first and wait for your heart to open up.

If you like it, you should cherish it, and don't give up what you cherish.

When you send your girlfriend, what about sending it to **? Of course, I want to have it delivered to her doorstep. But she won't say yes to the first relationship, man, don't force it, it's barely going to end well.

It is recommended that you distinguish in the place where you can make an impression. Especially on a first date, the last three minutes, no, the last minute is key. Let's say you're dropping off your girlfriend at the station.

At this time, because it was not on the way, you said "see you tomorrow" to say goodbye to her. Do you think your girlfriend will be satisfied? Absolutely not!

If you are separated at the station, wait until she gets on the bus, watch the doors close, and then wait until the car disappears from your sight. If you say, "Even if you do, she won't be able to see," you're sadly telling you that you're not qualified to associate with women. Don't forget, women can often see things that aren't seen.

I have a friend who once gave her girlfriend, first called a taxi for her, and then watched the car drive away. Unexpectedly, on the next date, his girlfriend actually became very positive and enthusiastic, which made him feel a little confused.

Later, his girlfriend said, "After you took me to the car last time, you have been watching it for a long time." I heard that I kept waving my hand.

The taxi driver said, "You're a nice man, and you care about me." It turned out that the taxi driver saw it in the rearview mirror and told his girlfriend. It can also be said that the taxi driver contributed to the "warming" of their relationship.

Therefore, although I don't know who will see it or where, it is certainly correct and necessary to have sufficient etiquette when parting. Even if it is to send someone off at the station, such as sending her all the way to get off the train, or even if it is not, take a stop with her and then get off the train herself, that will impress her.

Don't do it, otherwise your friends won't be able to do it in the future.