I m embarrassed to say what to do if I ask my ex boyfriend to pay me back

The money that belongs to you, can you get it back or get it back, do you have an IOU with him, generally speaking, you didn't sign it at the time, right? That's hard, but you should still try, you may be embarrassed to say it in person, just change it to ** say, don't hesitate to say it in tone, depending on your ex-boyfriend's attitude. If he belongs to that kind of old man, anyway, if he is a friend, you don't have to worry about it, the key is that you can make money in the future.

Since you used to be boyfriend and girlfriend, can you share the money clearly between you and him before you break up? ? I think if you have more money, then you should ask your friends or classmates to ask him, if it is less, I don't think you should ask for it, there is no need to be embarrassed to meet everyone in the future for such a trivial matter.

tactfully asked him how his life has been going recently, and then said to him, you need a lot of money recently, I hope he will return the 5,000 yuan last time to you if it is convenient.

When ordinary men hear your words, they should know that they have to pay back your money immediately.

If he pushes three or four, then the odds of you getting the money back will be about the same as 0!

You yourself say you're embarrassed, then you don't have to pay it back, and besides, after all, you like it, hehe

What if you just be more direct? He may have forgotten it, and you're ashamed to say it. That's not good, so you have to say it quickly, the longer it goes on, the less you dare to say it. Go ahead.

Hehe, if you really want him to pay it back, then you can only be brave enough to say it to him.

This can only be said that your ex-boyfriend is an irresponsible man who will not consider your feelings at all, and a boyfriend like this ——— break up!!

Come back, it's your own.

If you love face, you don't want it, and 5000 will be earned back soon.

This matter is not something to be embarrassed about, and the matter of principle should be dealt with directly.

If you love him, don't ask for it, and if you don't, come back quickly.

Want!!! I'm going to come back and dress myself up beautifully.

Legal analysis: If there are chat records, voice calls, or documents mentioning the relevant repayment date at the time, the success rate of the case can be greatly improved. The relevant information provided must first comply with the provisions of the law, and secondly, its content must be the true intention of both parties.

If the audio recording provided contains details such as the relationship between the debtor, the specific amount owed, the agreed repayment time, etc., then the chances of success in the recovery lawsuit are also greater. He voluntarily transferred money to you, which is considered a gift to you, and the law gives the donor the right to revoke the gift at any time before the gift is delivered. But there is certainly no gift contract between you.

So, it's better to negotiate and get the money back to him.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 657:A gift contract is a contract in which the donor gives his property to the donee free of charge, and the donee expresses his acceptance of the gift.

Article 658:The donor may revoke the gift before the transfer of the right to the donated property. The provisions of the preceding paragraph do not apply to notarized gift contracts or gift contracts that have the nature of public interest or moral obligations such as disaster relief, poverty alleviation, or assistance to the disabled, which must not be revoked in accordance with law.

Legal analysis: In the case of no IOU, you can usually still go to the court to sue, but it needs to be understood that if the court cannot prove that the creditor-debtor relationship does exist in the process of hearing the case in accordance with the law, the court will not support his claim, and he will face the risk of losing the lawsuit. However, if it can be proved with other evidence that there is a creditor-debtor relationship, repayment can be requested.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 673: If the borrower fails to use the loan in accordance with the agreed purpose of the loan, the lender may stop disbursing the loan, withdraw the loan in advance, or terminate the contract.

Article 674:The borrower shall pay interest within the agreed time limit. Where there is no agreement on the time limit for the payment of interest or the agreement is not clear, and it is still uncertain in accordance with the provisions of Article 510 of this Law, and the loan period is less than one year, it shall be paid together with the return of the loan; If the loan period is more than one year, it shall be paid at the end of each year, and if the remaining period is less than one year, it shall be paid together with the return of the loan.

Article 676: Where a borrower fails to repay the loan within the agreed time limit, it shall pay overdue interest in accordance with the agreement or the relevant provisions of the State.

If it is the money he lends you, it is advisable to mediate and repay the loan in installments.

If you are temporarily unable to repay, you can directly negotiate with the plaintiff and strive to negotiate with the creditor to repay the loan in installments, postpone repayment or reduce the debt, if the two parties reach an agreement, you can request the plaintiff to withdraw the lawsuit, and actively perform the agreement after the withdrawal of the lawsuit, otherwise the other party will sue again.

If the negotiation fails, after being sued, you should actively respond to the lawsuit and strive to achieve the goal of repaying the loan in installments in court, and after the judgment takes effect, you should actively perform it. If the borrower fails to repay the loan, the debtor should actively respond to the lawsuit, collect evidence in its favor, and at the same time negotiate with the creditor to extend the repayment period or repay the loan in installments, and request the creditor to withdraw the lawsuit.

According to the Civil Procedure Law of the People's Republic of China

It is stipulated that if the creditor requests the debtor to pay money, it is valuable, and if the following conditions are met, it may call the Chunsui Civil Court to the grassroots person with jurisdiction.

Apply for a payment order.

The creditor has no other debt disputes with the debtor. The payment order can be served on the debtor. If the debtor fails to repay the debt within 15 days after receiving the payment order issued by the people's court, or fails to raise a written objection to the people's court, the creditor may apply to the People's Law and the People's Court for compulsory enforcement.

Netizens submitted for help:

Before, when I was in a relationship, I borrowed 60,000 yuan from my boyfriend.

Now, we've broken up.

What I didn't expect was that my ex-boyfriend actually went to the court to sue me and asked him to pay him back 60,000 yuan.

Moreover, the court has already issued me a summons.

What should I do in this case?

Aaron answered questions:

Let me start with my opinion.

Now that he's suing you in court, and the court has already issued you a summons, what else can you do?

The only way you can go is to pay back the money.

Let's analyze it rationally.

Judging from the tone of your post, you didn't plan to pay back the 60,000 yuan from the time you asked him to borrow it.

Although on the surface, he asked him to borrow it, but in fact, he asked him for it, and wanted to treat him as a wronged person.

But you have to understand that paying off debts is a matter of course in itself.

No matter what the reason, since you have broken up, you should get together and disperse, so that you can clear up your money and money, so that it is convenient to see each other in the future.

However, you have been dragging on and not paying back, this is a problem of character.

I think your ex-boyfriend must have asked you how many times you lived, but you kept putting it off.

He was also forced to have no choice but to take legal means to get his money back.

Now, he's suing you, and the court has issued you a summons, and if you don't pay it, the consequences are a bit serious.

Do you want to be an old man at a young age?

You know, in today's society, once there is a problem with your credit system, it will get into a lot of trouble.

Limit high consumption, freeze bank cards, no unit dares to hire you, making it difficult for you to move an inch.

What's more, since he dares to sue you in court, he must have enough evidence in his hands to win this lawsuit.

So, what do you do when the time comes?

So, the best thing to do now is for you to obediently return the money to him and let him withdraw the lawsuit.

Really, don't have any illusions, and don't think that you can do whatever you want as a girl, there is no such good thing in the world.

As adults, we all need to learn to take responsibility for our actions.

The 60,000 yuan is not too much, but it is not too much.

If you can't get it out at once, you can negotiate with him and return it to him in installments.

You are a young girl, don't think about getting something for nothing all day long, taking advantage of others.

Behind the gentleness are traps, and no one is obliged to take money for you to spend for nothing.

No one's money is blown by the wind, and it is not easy to come by.

Be kind.

After all, in today's society, no one will get used to you except your parents.

After breaking up with your boyfriend, the money has been paid off, but you have to keep the bills, your boyfriend insists on suing and will not win, and the court will pay you justice. If both parties have no evidence, it makes no sense to sue in court, after all, it is a dispute between lovers, although they break up, they all give a step, the sea and the sky, things can be calm, try to change it.

If you had written a note at the time, it would have been a bit of a hassle. If you have a repayment record, whatever he sues you, as long as you can prove that you don't owe him, it's fine, unless you use the money for the date, which he is willing to use at that time, and this is not afraid.

Because the boyfriend and girlfriend broke up, they had to sue him to pay back the money, which is also a particularly unworthy thing, so it is said that the brothers should settle the account, you are people who have no fate, and you must settle the account.

If your ex-boyfriend says that you borrowed money and won't sue you in court, then you ask him to come up with ten qualitative evidence, when, where, and how much money you borrowed, and let him show the IOU. If not, it would be useless for him to sue even if he went to sue.

The other party must have evidence to sue you, you have repaid the money, this also has evidence, as long as there is evidence, we are afraid that he will keep all the evidence of repayment.

Keep a record of relevant transfers or chats. That way, once he does sue you, you also have enough evidence to refute him.

I broke up with my ex-boyfriend, and now I am being sued by my ex-boyfriend to repay the money, and when I borrowed the money, I said that I didn't have to pay it back, and now I have a court summons to pay him back?

Liaoning-Shenyang 2017-08-31 22:09 Creditor's rights and debts.

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The ex-boyfriend can still sue for borrowing money, but the party needs to provide relevant evidence to prove the fact of the loan, and the court will accept the application for prosecution of the party.

In accordance with the Civil Procedure Law of the People's Republic of China

Article 3: The provisions of this Law apply to people's courts' acceptance of civil lawsuits raised between citizens, legal persons, and other organizations, as well as between them on the basis of property and personal relationships.

Article 119:The following requirements must be met for prosecution:

1) The plaintiff is a citizen, legal person, or other organization that has a direct interest in the case.

2) There is a clear defendant.

3) There are specific litigation claims, facts, and reasons.

4) It is within the scope of civil litigation accepted by the people's court and the jurisdiction of the people's court receiving the lawsuit.