What do I do to break up? I hope you are careful! Thank you!

Bold advice, please refer carefully. Can be divided. Because, in this case now, entangled and unreasonable, his explanation, even if it is reasonable, you will definitely have a little pimple in your own heart.

Therefore, instead of being in a dilemma, it is better to retreat as an advance. Just break up with him. Of course, this is just for him to take care of what needs to be dealt with, because this is the incident that he caused.

If he really likes you and won't give up so easily, then you will see whether his next move is sincere. If he gave up after the breakup, then you should be glad that you didn't choose the wrong person. When you say that you break up, you don't need to say anything about the reason, don't say hurtful words, you probably just say that you feel very messy now and can't accept it.

Yunyun, lest the words be said to death!

Sisters, of course, are not divided, but, I think you don't love very much, I don't like your boyfriend very much, you think, the only thing you blame him for is that there is a woman to find him, and then you run away, your boyfriend chases you, if your boyfriend is really looking for a mistress behind your back, then your boyfriend must also love you more than a mistress, think about it from another angle, if you like a man, and then, one day go to find this man, and find that there is a woman in this man's house, you ask, who is this, this man is said in front of you, This is my girlfriend, and then I left you and went to chase his girlfriend, do you still have the face to fight again, the disparity, the attitude is too obvious. Your boyfriend only has this one thing that doesn't matter, but he was caught by you and didn't let go of the whole thing, do you want to find a reason for him to be sorry for you, to break up, so that you don't have to be too difficult to do, maybe I say this, you don't want to admit it, but I can read between the lines of your heart. If you don't like him, or can't like him, just divide it and let him go, so that he won't waste time with you and miss his own beauty, but if you can still like him, then grasp that he is really good to you, and it is difficult to have someone who loves you.

Sometimes a man is fragile, it can be seen that this man loves you very much, and he pays attention to you very carefully, he has a heart, he is a good man, and it is normal for a woman to have thoughts about him, since he loves you, I think you, some places are a little unreasonable, and when you are moved, tell him that everything he has done for you, you should support him, your support is the driving force of his stamina, this kind of man should hold on tightly, he comes to apologize is to show that he attaches great importance to your ideas, give him a step, forgive him, and have confidence in him, If it's yours, hold on tightly, don't give others a chance to take advantage of it, take advantage of it.

I think. 1. If you feel that you still have love for him (this is the most important thing.)

You can forgive him directly, but it's best that you have a good talk with that woman alone (and don't hesitate to be a wicked person), but remember to him in the future that he is arrogant, not barbaric And you have to watch him, whether it is to forgive him, whether it is to hang himself or use it, force him to promise that you can check his life records, etc. After all, a love. Let's give it a chance.

2. If you have someone else to choose from, compare it, and it's hard to say that he is not another him (= =).

Look at his usual behavior, if it is really bad, then he must give up without looking back, and don't return the things he sent!

In fact, your boyfriend is really good, cherish it, don't take his contribution for granted, unless you don't like him, explain it clearly when there is a misunderstanding, otherwise the fake can become real if you are careful. After all, that girl also likes your boyfriend, which is a threat. If you believe him, then stop torturing yourself.

If you really love him, you have to trust him and listen to what he has to say. Actually, I think he has done a very good job, if it's just a misunderstanding, you have to apologize to him, after all, the matter started because of you in the first place. Don't miss out on impulse.

If you still love him, forgive him, maybe it's really nothing, man, if that woman is going to die or live, what can he do, misunderstanding will make you miss it, really.

Do you think this man deserves your forgiveness? Forgive me if you deserve it, believe me, if you find out that there is a misunderstanding between you in the future after separation, you will regret it, no matter who you are with again.

Keep observing, I think this should be a misunderstanding, you have to take into account his feelings, 52 balloons are not something that everyone can blow up, it takes a lot of gas. I wish you a happy day, and I hope you are reconciled.

It seems that he cares about you very much, and if you divide it, it will only cheapen the woman, and you will definitely be very sad, and if you are happy in the future, just say it, and let the other party be happy together.

You still love his words, talk to him, listen to his explanations. It should also be clear to the girl about it. Your boyfriend is so sincere to you, should you not be hurt by this misunderstanding?

Listen to him, observe him again, if you don't trust him, you can only break up.

If you want to divide it, be decisive, and give him a chance if you want to reconcile. You'll have a choice.

You don't understand my feelings at all, so you write it down.

Honey, he doesn't deserve your love, forget it.

In a word: "In the future, illiterate people are just friends" Although I am also a man, I hate the man who hates the heart of the man.

Reading the long passage you wrote, I found a girl who went from not understanding well to slowly becoming stronger. You are very honest and conflicted, with both guilt and love deep inside.

In fact, when you found out that you had fallen in love with another boy, when your feelings for him were getting deeper and deeper, you resolutely chose to leave him and continue your original relationship, have you ever thought about the deeper reasons for this choice? If it's just because of guilt, then this relationship will end sooner or later; In fact, you don't have to deny that you still have feelings for your boyfriend, but you now feel that this relationship seems too heavy.

People change, and so do feelings, and when your life is changing, you see that he is the same as ever. As you grow up, you slowly feel that he and you are getting farther and farther away, and such a gap cannot be made up by manpower.

All you feel now is that this affection is too tiring, because you have been tolerated again and again from him, and you have won it again and again, without giving it, which makes you blame yourself.

In fact, every relationship is a kind of fate, if you cherish it, you will find a way to communicate, to solve; If you don't have any hope for this love, then leave decisively and don't continue to hurt the other party!!

Divide it, feelings can't be sought. Sometimes it's time to give up. I've had a breakup too. If you don't divide it, you have to divide it!

Give the other party a chance to give you a day, and whoever wants to start will leave whomever you want.

This is very similar to what I used to do, whether the specific should be or not will not play much role no matter what we say, it still depends on you, and I will send you a word: when it is time to start, start without hesitation; When it's time to finish, end cleanly...!

I'm not an expert, but I got married after only two relationships.

When I was young, I liked other boys like you and your confidant, and there were many boys who liked me, and I was also infatuated with the gentle eyes of a boy looking at me, but no one said anything, and now that I think about it, I didn't say anything, so it was nothing, nothing, just imagination. It's just that I was a little dazed, even sad and painful. Now I feel that it was too naïve at that time.

Of course, the man who says love doesn't really love you, but a man who loves you will inevitably say his love, and if he doesn't say anything, you'd better treat it as if nothing happened.

Listening to your situation, I think you must be a college student who is still in school.

The best advice is to study hard.

But since you've already started a relationship, if you want to fall in love, you can do it without delaying your studies.

Whether your boyfriend didn't go to college or not, in fact, it doesn't matter, when you finish college, you will know that in fact, it is best for boys to go to college, and if they can't, it is enough to have the ability and experience. My husband also didn't go to college, and he didn't finish junior high school, but we are in a good relationship now, and he is also very obedient and motivated, and he quit smoking for nearly ten years. In fact, we haven't been together for two years now, and during this time, he has also cried in front of me.

But you have to remember that after the boy is sad and crying, you must not turn around and walk away, no matter what he says, you must give him a clear of doubts and open the knot in his heart, so that you can love more and more you hurt. If you don't ask, the misunderstanding and gap will get bigger and bigger, and gradually there will be no need to explain, which is the experience I summed up when I fell in love for the first time.

If you really decide that you don't want to be with him, then break up peacefully and don't hurt him. After all, the world is small, maybe we will see you again in the future, maybe you will all live your own happy life at that time--- that is the best ending. After the breakup, don't look back, I have always felt that a good horse does not eat back grass is very important in love, you know, not strangers, once in love.

And no one knows what happened during the years of separation. No one can wait for someone innocently.

But if you feel that you are reluctant, don't hurt each other anymore, love well, discipline him well, a woman, you must be willing to manage and manage her man, otherwise one day, he will be managed by others.

You have to be happy together, you make him happy, he makes you happy.

If you feel that he doesn't understand you, try to say to him, in words that don't hurt him, what you want to do, what you want, what he wants to do. But choose the right time, when he can listen, don't talk plainly, and don't let him think that you are too strong and too many.

Finally, I wish you happiness

Study hard and don't delay your studies.