Girls who have really fallen out of love, please.

Updated on psychology 2024-05-13
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Yes Don't be discouraged when that person leaves you.

    He was gone, and I waited until 6 months ago and suddenly looked back and found that the person who had been waiting for me --- my little fool. I'm the same age as you, and I'm living happily ever after, and I've been with my little fool for 6 months. I was in a different place during the holidays and couldn't see each other, and last night he called me and cried that he missed me.

    Although we are both too young, we both believe that we can make it to the end. Even if I can't get to the end, I don't regret it, this love has brought me the most beautiful scenery in my life.

    There is no reason in love, and there is no reason for anything. At the beginning, I was very happy that the other party was considerate and beautiful, but many people didn't go to the end because they couldn't resonate at a deeper level. The depth of love depends more on the tempering of the years, when it is determined that it is the other party, whether you choose a good object, whether you have enthusiasm when you choose the wrong one, and whether you can find yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I don't know if that girl has ever heard such a sentence, called time can dilute everything, even if it hurts again and love at the time, it will fade down after a long time, only 20 years old like a flower, a good youth has just begun, how can you give up your future happiness because of a person who does not cherish yourself who has left, open your heart, face it bravely, you must be able to meet, you must be able to.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I'm out of love now, and he's dumped me. He didn't love a word anymore. We were separated.

    I cried and made trouble, it was not easy to make it, he ignored me, I don't know if the original relationship is still there, he is because his brother fell out of love, so he accompanied his brother to be single, maybe the friend is really a lifelong friend. I would have blessed him, but I chose to be friends with him, I just wanted to know if he was doing well. I'm willing to bear more, I'm willing to see him happy.

    I am willing to give him to a kind woman to give him happiness, and I do not regret my willfulness at the beginning, because. That's who I am. Maybe I'm really not what he wants.

    Not to mention happiness. It's hard to forget a person. I can't hate it, I just stayed at home silently this day

    I ignore my parents when I look backWhen I wasn't so sad, my parents were still with me. From now on.

    I will cherish what I have now. I grew up. If we are destined, we will meet and fall in love.

    You too. Feelings are uncontrollable. Let it be. Dear

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hehe, I've just fallen out of love, but this isn't my first time falling out of love. I broke up with my previous boyfriend and I met my last boyfriend again. But maybe the fate of the two of us can only come here, and I broke up with him again.

    But let me tell you, I really liked my last boyfriend. And more like it than the previous boyfriend. Oh, don't be afraid, there are all kinds of boys in this world, don't feel that your world is just him, and without him I may not be able to like another person for the rest of my life.

    If you meet someone you like, you may recall the past, but there will be no sadness, just some good memories of you and him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It should still be, but the person in love should not be as profound as this person.

    Moreover, I will silently think of the person I loved before.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's not whether you have a chance, it's whether you want to fall in love again. Generally, people who have really loved have different views on love in the end. But I can only say one word. You can not forget the past, but you have to let it go. Give him a chance to be happy at the same time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes! Because I don't think there will be only one person to love in life! The point is not that you can't find it, but that you don't want to let go!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't know if I'll really love the next one, depending on what everyone thinks, I think it should be, and I've experienced it before, and I barely fell in love with someone else, and finally she came back.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes, it just takes time.

    However, that girl is in love with a crush?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Not every girl who has fallen out of love will be dead set on no longer falling in love, as for whether she will really love someone again after a breakup, it depends on which girl thinks.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Yes, I'm just 20 years old, and I'm really going to meet a strong guy on the side, and I'm going to do it (very true).

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Find things to enrich yourself and leave yourself without time to think about the past. Embrace the next relationship positively.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    1. Find the right reason and learn to comfort yourself.

    The ABC theory of the famous American psychologist Ellis tells us that what makes people sad and painful is not the event itself, but the wrong interpretation and evaluation of the event. Therefore, in the face of the pain of falling out of love, we should learn to find our own reasons from different perspectives.

    The author believes that there are two ways to try:

    1) It's about looking for reasons that make you accept the reality of breaking up. For example:

    I love him (her) but I can't guarantee that she (he) will love me;

    There are still many married people who divorce and choose a new spouse, not to mention the person to talk to, I am only one of the objects chosen and referred to by the other party, and I have no reason to ask others to choose me;

    Love is a matter for both parties, and our breakup shows that we also have factors that are not suitable for each other, and the responsibility is not all on the other party;

    The breakup now is for holding hands in the future, and if we keep arguing, falling in love, or even getting married, the breakup factor is still there. That's even more painful. The temporary pain of the present is for the pain of the future, and it should be pain in the present, not in the future;

    Since he (she) proposed to break up, and I still have to pester him (her), it means that I have no backbone, a person can have no strength but cannot be without backbone;

    I left him or her because there were better people waiting for me.

    2) It is to seek the other person, and there is no reason for him to pursue it again. For example:

    He is a flowery person, such a person is unreliable, and it is my luck to leave him (her);

    He (she) has many flaws, how can I love someone with so many flaws for the rest of my life?

    He (she) is a person who doesn't care about other people's feelings at all, and is more selfish, he (she) is so ruthless and unrighteous to me now, do you still expect him (she) to be good to me in the future?

    His or her performance is not worthy of me, and my target should not be someone like him or her;

    His or her actions hurt my heart, I need happiness instead of pain, and I can only be happy if I let go and not ask for extravagance;

    2. Shift the object of attention and try to adjust your mentality.

    For lovers who have not been separated for a long time, memories are a pain. Whenever you want to think of each other, try to shift the goal and put it on appreciating another scene or another scene. For example, (1) immediately concentrate on some daily necessities, enjoy a little flower, look at a pattern, pay attention to decorations, etc., try to imagine some quiet and beautiful things, focus on the blue sky, the deep sea, the vast grassland, the golden beach, cattle and sheep, white clouds, etc., it is best to sing songs or light ** that praise the good life, do not choose too noisy or too sad**, because these** may aggravate their bad mood, at this time, we should invite our friends to do some favorite activities together, For example, swimming, shopping, and watching a movie, choose a position that you feel comfortable in, or stand or sit or lie down, relax yourself, listen to the birds singing, humming, and taking deep breaths.

    In addition, don't go to bed too early at night, wake up immediately in the morning, and try to leave yourself as little time and space as possible to remember those past events.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The girl said that she fell out of love, which is undoubtedly a good opportunity for the brothers, but also be careful not to fall into the trap set by the girl, we can use the formula to solve this problem perfectly!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Answer hello, when a girl tells him that he is out of love, it means that his emotions at this time are more collapsed, you have to say that you have to say goodbye in vain, the next better one is not very sad, because it is not the end of your life, he is just a station of a train in your life, he is not the end, you have to look forward not to be too sad, and don't be sad for unworthy people.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. Hello, if you are chasing this girl, and he also knows your intentions, then you can tell him that you are not out of love, because I am still there.

    When a girl sends a message + saying I'm out of love + what's the matter.

    Hello, if you are chasing this girl, and he also knows your intentions, then you can tell him that you are not out of love, because I am still there.

    Hurry up Sensei.

    If she is in a bad mood, it is best to rush to her as soon as possible to prevent him from doing something excessive.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Comfort + suggestion + catharsis + listening + diverting attention.

    For example: the end is sometimes for a better start (comfort), after all, the person who loves you is still continuing (hinting), if you want to cry, cry happily (cathartic emotions), release the grievances and pressure (listening), it really can't be slowed down, just go to kk songs together as a distraction ** to divert attention).

    While downplaying the sadness, it also creates memories between you.

    Is the school wasted? <>

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    1. I'm sorry, it's me who made a mistake, it's me who has been reluctant to forget, and we used to think it was a very happy time.

    2. The places that I have probably never been to are called far away, and those who have not gotten them are more memorable.

    3. There is no shortage of excuses for those who want to leave, and those who are willing to stay do not need to stay.

    4. There is no such thing as a broken mirror and reunion in the world, once lost, it means that it will always be lost.

    5. There is no money to earn, it is not beautiful to be clean, and there is really no rule of law if the heart is bad.

    6. Constant disappointment in exchange for despair, only to know that maybe such a mausoleum has been a long-term wishful thinking of oneself.

    7. Later, I learned that those who really want to leave are so stingy that they even think it is a waste of time to say goodbye.

    8. It's all my fault, I just want to love, but I fantasize that I will be the exception, I don't know what to do.

    9. In love, there are always people who are let down, not who you love, who will definitely love you.

    10. Trust is like a piece of paper, wrinkled, even if it is smoothed, it will not be restored to its original state.

Related questions
6 answers2024-05-13

1. If you think of me inadvertently in the future, please don't forget that I once loved you so deeply ......2. By standing on tiptoe, can we get closer to happiness? >>>More

21 answers2024-05-13

The more you want to forget, the more you can't forget, and you always ask yourself if you have forgotten, in fact, it will only become a reminder not to forget. Quite the opposite ... Think more about how to live, find friends to play, get to know more heterogeneous friends, don't think too much, go out and walk around more, find your own happiness, you have a better life without him, then you can slowly forget If you want to get back together, it is still possible, as long as you are sure that the other party has loved you deeply, he can't forget it so quickly after the breakup, if it has been separated for too long, there is no possibility, because time can dilute feelings and hurt things. >>>More

10 answers2024-05-13

Because we are emotional creatures, we will inevitably encounter emotional trauma, such as falling out of love. >>>More

10 answers2024-05-13

We should wipe away our tears and do something that will distract us. For example, you can do yoga, yoga is a very quiet action, you need to concentrate, you can divert our attention, forget about sadness for a while, relax your mind, and at the same time you can shape your body or practice musical instruments, more energetic people can do some sports, running, basketball, you can! In short, do something you love to do, and we will have fun in life!

37 answers2024-05-13

A lot of people say that it's hard for girls to have real friends with each other, because girls are always cautious and turtle hair, and they will be unhappy about a little thing, and they will complain about all kinds of things. >>>More