Which one is the most important woman? Choose a marriage partner.

I read the reply above and don't quite agree with it. Which one is the most important woman? Choose a marriage partner.

My personal opinion is that you should ask yourself more and not others, because everyone has a different order of criteria when choosing objects. But there's one thing I'd like to say first".

moral character" - this is the most important aspect in the selection of objects, and even the bottom line of getting along, because this touches on the morality of life. Besides, you are from an educational background, and moral character is more important.

As for "1, the family background is good, 2Talent looks good 3"Sort according to your own situation, you have to know that the girl is suitable for you, do you value her appearance or her ability more?

Or is it the economic aspect? Ask yourself these questions. Obviously you haven't been in a relationship a few times, or you don't have very many contact with girls, so at the moment you don't know which aspects of yourself girls are suitable for you, which ones do you value more?

It's okay, be bold and fall in love Be sure to contact more girls, and be sure to pick them.

Only when you go through it, get to know and understand it, will you know which kind of girl is suitable for you, and which one is in the most important position. This makes sorting easier. One more thing to add:

Try to control yourself and don't be too utilitarian in finding a partner (you are looking for a partner, not a job, too utilitarian is easy to lose yourself, you can't grasp the priority, you must know that the relationship between the two people is the most important; As long as you treat each other with sincerity, be enthusiastic about helping others, and make good connections, your contacts will naturally be wider, and there will be more platforms. Sometimes the background is not worth the money, and sometimes the background is very close to us, but it is really not shared! The right match is the reality of reality.

Also, don't let the appearance block your eyes, learn more, you may see another side.

You can like many girls before marriage (beautiful, capable, virtuous, backgrounded, etc.), but only one will enter marriage. Choose the object as you choose the shoes, and choose the one that fits you. Much more verbose. I best wish you happiness!

A good family background will not bring you anything, it will only put pressure on you, her family always knows that you are trying to match her conditions, and will never give you a good look, you can neither get anything from her, and you don't like her very much, so you will not get happiness.

Capable ones are indeed good, but they are hard to come by. Most of the women are about the same, and there are very few who are particularly good, and it is even more difficult to meet them.

I'm very similar to you. I've always liked maturity, it's what I need, I need people who benefit me. Now that things have changed, I feel that interacting with the weak shows my value more, and I am more relaxed, casual, and do better.

I'm very independent, I don't need to learn from others, I always have a way to improve myself.

If you like the capable, it means that you are not mature enough, and when you think you are very mature, you will have no such requirements for your own object like me, because you are enough alone.

There are women with young husbands in history, such as Zhu Quanzhong's wife, after Zhu Quanzhong married her, he immediately launched a big start, showing off his power on the stage of history, and as soon as his wife died, he would be no longer able to do it.

I want this woman too, but I won't have that kind of luck. I might as well find a weak one if I find an ordinary one.

A strong utilitarian heart means that you are very enterprising, but it is best not to be utilitarian in your love and marriage, and feel that the options above you are not the most important, the most important thing is whether you love her, if you really love, then the four options above you are not important, you will be desperate.

Sort....4123, to be utilitarian, you must have a family background, but if you want to be happy, moral character is necessary. Three and four...Depending on your conditions, ability doesn't matter.

Willing you to stabilize a family background, good both Luo...

First of all, she is more harmonious with you. Gentle personality. Loving. I like you very much. It won't leave you easily.

If you really love you and talk to you, this is the person who lives your life.

If I were given another chance, I would choose to marry someone who has a common life direction with me, because in this way we will have more beautiful yearning for life, and you will work together to face difficulties, overcome difficulties, and make marriage happier and the future better.

Therefore, the form of communication between two people is very important, and a positive and optimistic attitude is even more important, and we must cultivate the following positive attitudes towards life:

1.Maintain a positive and sunny mindset.

People who have an optimistic attitude are more likely to present a positive and enthusiastic side in life and work. No matter how big the difficulties are, they will try their best to solve them, such people are more comfortable at work and more interesting in life, while people who like to look at things around them with a pessimistic attitude often worry about the world before they even set off, and the sense of loss is increasing day by day, and life becomes less positive because of this.

So, no matter what kind of predicament you are in right now, please remember to keep smiling and facing it positively, that is the way life should be.

2.Have the courage to move forward.

Every step we take requires courage, and this bravery comes from the conviction in our hearts. In real life, many people do not know how to face difficulties and setbacks when they encounter them, so they are depressed and lose the confidence and motivation they should have in life.

When encountering any difficulties, please do not be arrogant, learn to face difficulties, always believe in yourself, and move forward bravely. The road is step by step, you just have to take a brave step, and the beauty of life will definitely meet you unexpectedly.

3.Be focused enough to do things.

I want to do everything, but I often can't do anything well. The best thing to do is to find something that interests you and try to do it to the best of your ability. Maybe the process is lonely, but it can make you different.

If you don't do it well the first time, it doesn't matter, take your time, try a few more times, and slow work can produce fine work. Those who are always in a hurry, are prone to failure.

So, don't get by, do your best to do everything in your hands well. All your daily accumulation of reed core code will sooner or later make you beyond the reach of others.

4.Always be curious about life.

People like to stay in their comfort zone and get used to a comfortable life. Many times we stagnate, not because we are not strong enough, but because we lack a curiosity about new things.

Only by always maintaining a love for life can we continuously improve our enthusiasm for life. Only by maintaining a curious mind and maintaining an optimistic attitude can we continue to improve and improve.

The most important consideration when getting married is to find a suitable person to be together, have the ability to dig up and be able to live with him for a lifetime, have a responsible person to be together, have a cultivated person, find someone to marry, the most important consideration is his character, marriage is a lifelong thing, no, you will regret choosing the wrong person for a lifetime to choose a person who has three views of the right person, two people, mutual acceptance, can pay to care about each other sincerely, can bring themselves enough security, economic foundation as support.

In this era, if you want to start a family, the condition that you must consider is undoubtedly money, which is not to say vanity and power, this is just one of the conditions for surviving in this society.

2. The character of both parties.

Marriage is a matter of two people, the most important thing for two people together is to be able to run in, if they can tolerate and understand each other, then it is possible to live, the man must have enough sense of responsibility to take on the whole family, and the woman must be tolerant and understanding, two people to manage the marriage together, in order to harvest a happy life.

3. Freshness will maintain the quality of the marriage.

Freshness is the most important thing in any situation, keep a proper distance, and give the other half a new experience every day, such as giving each other a little surprise every day, a flower, and a beautiful dinner.

4. The parents of the other half will not interfere too much.

The most breaking thing for a woman after getting married is to face the problem of her in-laws, for fear that her in-laws will not like it and make things difficult everywhere, which is the problem that women are most worried about. The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has a great impact, and two people can't understand each other, and it is easy to have a lot of problems to talk about.

5. Whether a man has true love for you.

Whether a man has true love for you, whether he has a heart to play or really wants to live with you for a lifetime, you can see from the details of the man's usual scattered limbs and his attitude towards you, whether he can tolerate you and tolerate you, if he is not sincere, don't get married.

6. Family atmosphere.

The family atmosphere of a family is too important, if the family is deserted, everyone does not talk, and everyone does their own things, the family will be very depressing after staying for a long time. It is very important to choose a person, and you must think carefully before deciding, because marriage is not a child's play, it is a lifelong event, and you must choose a down-to-earth and reliable person to be together, so that you can live a happy life and have a promising future.

There is a difference between marriage and love. When you're in love, you can be romantic and do whatever you want. However, when you get married, you take on more responsibilities and obligations, and you may have to give up some of your freedoms.

As the saying goes, men are afraid of getting into the wrong business, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong person. Before you decide to marry a man, you'd better decide if he deserves your love and care. If a man doesn't love you, then no matter how much you love him, you shouldn't marry him easily.

Because feelings cannot be forced. Your relationship can only last if you genuinely like each other.

The character of the other party is good enough. Before you decide to marry a man, you have to observe his character. If there are some problems with a man's character, for example, he always breaks his promises, he has no sense of responsibility and responsibility in relationships, then you should not marry him easily, no matter how rich or talented he is.

Women must be careful when choosing who to marry. You should not be fooled by a man's appearance, you should not easily listen to a man's sweet words, you should take a serious look at a man's character.

If a man has a particularly bad character, he lacks the devotion necessary for the relationship, he never keeps his promises in time, he never helps you when you need it, then you should let him go as soon as possible. A person with good character can accompany you through your life. 31. If a person's character is not good enough and he is half-hearted towards you, then he may abandon you at any time.

Since you want to marry a man, you have to find a man who is genuine to you. You can only consider marrying a man with a good enough character, who is willing to dedicate to your relationship to the end, who is loyal to you, and who has never cheated on you. If a person always lied to you, he was not sincere to you, he was not faithful to you, it means that he has a bad character, and he is not true love for you.

For a person with a bad character, you have to stay away from him as soon as possible.

Whether the three points of view are consistent. Whether two people are really suitable for marriage depends on whether the three of you agree on the same point of view. Only if you are on the same page and have a common vision can you consider getting married.

If you find a man who is completely different from you, and you say that you are going to the East, but he prefers to go to the West, then you should not choose to marry him easily.

A man who is truly worthy of your marriage must be able to fully understand and understand you, and your three views must be consistent. In particular, on major issues of principle, it is necessary to unify one's own viewpoints and opinions. Only when you marry a man who shares your views can you avoid having too many fights after marriage.

Even if you have the occasional argument, you can easily resolve it. Because you have the same three views, you will be able to communicate with each other very smoothly. You won't have any communication barriers.

On the other hand, if you marry a man who has a completely different outlook on life than yours, there will be all sorts of quarrels and even cold wars, which is not conducive to the long-term development of your relationship.

Pay attention to a man's self-motivation, which will determine the level of his career development and the financial situation of your family; Pay attention to a man's moral quality, especially whether he will look down on people with low social status when he gets along with some people with relatively low social status; It depends on whether the man's body is healthy, otherwise he may take care of him until he is old as soon as he marries.

When choosing a marriage partner, girls should pay the most attention to the character of the other party, and people with good character will be loyal to their marriage and bring happiness to the family.

When choosing a marriage partner, women must pay attention to the other party's family conditions, the other party's personality, and whether the other party has no cleanliness or violent tendencies.

First, the character of the other party, second, the appearance of the other party, third, the other party's family background, fourth, the other party's work situation, and fifth, the other party's sense of responsibility.