I already have financial problems, and my girlfriend still insists on buying expensive things to giv

It depends on how far you have come, if you have just known each other, just like that, then it means that this woman's character is not good.

If it's the stage of love, then you can endure it, and it's just a little money.

If it's time to talk about marriage, then you just give her the salary card, and then tell her, anyway, we rely on this money to support ourselves, you give me a few hundred yuan a month, and you have to keep half of it for us to get married in the future, and you can spend the rest yourself.

Most girls are more vain, more formalistic, and more simple to see problems, which is caused by women's unique way of thinking. This time, if she's particularly resolute, you'll let her go. But the question is, what to do with life in the future?

If she is still so ignorant and not pragmatic, then no matter how kind her nature is and how considerate she is to you, the burden of life will crush you, and in the end, economic problems will also affect the relationship between the two of you, so this little thing also contains a very deep life concept problem, which cannot be taken lightly. You have to talk to her once, and if she can't accept your point of view, doesn't understand your difficulties, and even puts the problem down to your low income, and talk about it, or talk about other girls, then it's a big problem.

Networking is also an intangible asset. So it depends on who you're sending!

Your girlfriend is really! Isn't she afraid of your livelihood security! Let's talk to her!

Can't get used to it, and in this regard, it looks like he's still spending your money

Honorable people are worth spending money, but politeness can also move people's hearts.

No, doesn't this slap a swollen face and make a fat man?

Relationship problems are fine, as long as you stay the course.

Financial problems are nothing, as long as you work well.

If there is no happiness, it is ...... to give up

Feelings without an economic foundation can't last long, although I'm not snobbish, it's not that I can't endure hardships, but poor couples mourn everything. As a man, he should give a woman a good guarantee. Or after the economic problems have been solved first, can the emotional problems still be solved?

Poor couples mourn everything. If our own efforts can't change the status quo, then it's our own ideas that need to be changed.

Maybe I'm biased, and I can say that if there are no financial problems, there are no emotional problems in the real sense.

My brother is a good account, and now after getting married, I have a falling out over property, not to mention a boyfriend and girlfriend, and if she really loves you, it won't make you embarrassed!

Listen to your family, in this society now, there are too many changes.

As for your girlfriend, slowly explain to her, and she will understand your distress if she is reasonable.

J dizzy: Learn to be smart in the future. Whatever comes into contact with money, it spoils. Take care of yourself, you can give her gifts, you can play with her, you can invite her to eat Jane and fight, that is, the economy must be separated before marriage!

It's not that people don't stop grinding well, it's that society is too complicated, you understand?

Falling in love with two people is actually a process of getting to know each other, and I think you are now slapping a swollen face and becoming fat. Because your girlfriend may think that your conditions still allow you to live like this, this is actually caused by yourself, men, you have to take the initiative and be refreshing, don't you say? Although each of us expresses ourselves in a different way, it does not prevent us from expressing it.

It's not a good thing to be too face-loving sometimes, it just makes people feel that there is some hypocrisy in it.

So I suggest you find the right time, for example, when you're only alone with two people, and you confess. I wish you all a happy and happy relationship.

Why are you so stupid, hehe, just be a coquette, you can do this, for example, if you go out to eat, you will bring less money and say to her, wife, I don't have enough money, let's make it together, this trick is only used once in a while, and after a long time, she will ask you if you don't have enough money, and slowly, she will know that she has saved and knows that she has helped you share.

Explain the situation truthfully, and you will get her support.

If you boldly ask these questions you are facing, and see how she speaks, a good girl will definitely understand your situation, will share some of it with you, and as you say, it will help you save some money. There is also the possibility that once you ask these questions, she may think that you don't love her enough and start to restrain her financially. Then she is definitely not mentally mature enough, and you have to communicate more with her in this situation, so that he can better understand your life situation.

Another way is that you don't have to communicate with her directly, otherwise she will think that you are weak (I think you are great, and you can still make money in college), and the cost of living will not meet her, and you can indirectly tell him that your life is not very good, or you create an opportunity to express yourself, and don't be so straightforward.

Hehe, this, it depends on what kind of girl the other party is, and that's how I came over. You can find a time to talk to her and see what she says.

Isn't it stingy? Or is she not the only one of you???

She doesn't have a dad anymore. There is another brother. The estimated financial capacity of the company is also limited. I may have had a picture when I first came to you. So it's understandable that she's asking for it now...

I think so. When two people are together, they run in with each other. If you don't think such a girl is suitable. You can consider changing it...

It's fine if your store is stable. It's kind of a job. After all, if a man doesn't have a job.

It's a bit unreasonable. My friend's boyfriend's house is estimated to be in better condition than yours. But just because he doesn't have a job himself.

The woman's family didn't agree very much. Family is one thing. There is also a person who is also one ...

Guys, give up, this is obviously a woman with a very material, I'm not saying that the material is not good at all, after all, in today's society, people are realistic, but there must be a degree, at least under the condition of economic ability, such a simple truth is not understood, and it repeatedly makes you have a headache for this, don't you think you are too a failure? Get rid of it, this is simply dissatisfied, she doesn't deserve you, really, I bet you, you dump her now, and it won't be long before she finds you, begs you, and even tears your face to make you compensate for the loss of her youth or something, maybe the brothers will go into battle together to discuss with you, hurry up.

You can't doubt her feelings because she is like that, maybe she loves you really, and then she may be affected by the environment, and there is a little change in her heart, people will always become, and people also need to change, you can't ask her to be so naïve after marriage and in love, so can you live, so have an in-depth exchange with her, maybe you will find out the reason why she has changed, after all, it is not easy to come together, don't give up if you are not good, the next one may also have that kind of heart, after in-depth communication, give her a thousand more chances, If it still doesn't work, give up on this relationship.

How to deal with financial problems in a relationship? Some girls take it for granted to spend a boy's money. This idea is certainly incorrect.

I think the landlord should be more detailed, what economic problems? How do you pay for the expenses when you hang out with him, or the way you handle your finances while living with each other?

Take it and fix it, if it's expensive, don't fix it, whatever, there's no way to be financially tight, if she knows that you are financially tight and wants you to buy it, then break up early, such a woman is unacceptable.

Buy a hammer, you don't know how to ask her to buy it herself. Maybe you're spending your parents' money, you don't have the financial means yourself, and maybe you're supporting someone else's wife right now.

She will be very happy when she buys it, and she will have a better impression of you.

Your question is not as simple as you think, what I am careful about is that this woman must have some social connections, to put it bluntly, she must have friends like those gangsters, I guess if you turn your face, such a woman will definitely use means.

The first step you have to do is very simple, pay her back the money, and then you can't give the money you go out to use, and if you give it directly, she will consciously know that you are going to break up, and you have to ask her to go out and play without owing each other.

The second step is not to directly say that you have to break up, you have to find her handle, with a handle, to debunk her face to face that she has done something sorry for you, you can have a reason to say that you have broken up, and you will not be troubled in the future.

You have to explain things to your family, let the adults know your difficulties, let the adults know your situation, your family is in good condition, 4000 yuan, that's not a small problem, this matter can't be delayed for too long.

Your family is so rich and spends women's money, which really makes men look down on it.

If you want to break up, don't trouble people's women's money, it's not easy.

If you really don't want to go, you can find a way to pay back the money, and then mention the breakup!

If you don't know about you, your friends and classmates will look down on you.

You are still young, and there will be a lot of things in society in the future!

Ask this like this, you're still not a man... How to feel These questions should be asked by women.

Men's Points: Make some men's decisions.

Just divide it directly, calculate how much money you spent on her, and then add a little more [Remember, a little bit, this is for you to fight for breath, not too much, it's cheaper for him] and return it to her. But to make a written agreement, this kind of woman is the easiest to blackmail!

You just say you don't like her, the most thoroughly.

You don't suffer, what are you afraid of, if you spend more, if you spend more, she won't be able to bear it and will leave you.

I think she's not good and still get along with her Why did you go in the first place And the man points The two of them are good to get together and disperse Don't be so useless Who can't live without who You took it back and broke up well A man said that those ugly things are not good.

Draw the line early and tell her that he is not your ideal partner. Friends are okay. The money has to be repaid, and it doesn't matter if you give more. There is sanity, and I hope you are not like that. Otherwise, you'll be annoyed if he pesters you. Good luck bro.

It's good to write an IOU to her when you break up!

You don't have to think bad ... You can name it... If he pesters you. Then you should treat her as a spare tire... Feel free to play. What are men afraid of...