I don t want a divorce, and my friends give me ideas on how to keep my marriage

Sit down and know how to reason, and then discuss a time buffer time period to come out, in this time period you have to work hard, although you are cruel to yourself, serious illness to take drastic medicine, maybe these internal and external pressures can make you soar from now on! A good wife to cherish!

You don't have fighting spirit, and you can't go to work to make money, how do you feel if you're a girl? Life is not just about love and sweet talk, you have to be really safe, you sincerely tell her and her parents that you want them to give you time, you have to cheer up, whether it is business or work, you have to look like a man!

The friend on the second floor is quite right, the top one!

I won't repeat it.

What you have to do now is not to stalk her not to divorce you, but to put this matter aside, concentrate on adjusting yourself, and work hard! You can see that she loves you, but there is a family member who influences her, so you need to have practical actions to give her confidence and strength!! I'm sure you'll be together!!

The most important reason is that she wants you to stand up like a man, a woman should have a safe backer, you can do the work you like to do first, failure is the mother of success, find experience, know how to lose, in the loss of back, that is you, she should want to see you with real actions to confirm that you are working hard, you can separate first, see what kind of expression she has, if she loves you, you can definitely see it,

You must have done something sorry for him.

With hard work and sincere progress, let's get influenced.

If she really wants to divorce you and has no way, you have to find out why he divorced you first, and then find a way.

Ask her why she wants a divorce.

Then leave, the heart is no more. It doesn't make sense anyway.

It depends on how many years you have been married, if you have been married for more than two years, and now you have children, she files for divorce, if you don't want to leave, you can delay it for a while, be kind to her, and the average woman can redeem it. If you don't have children now, and it hasn't been long since you got married, it's better to have a long pain than a short pain, so let's leave!

This can't be saved.

It's true that it's better to be forcibly together than to be separated, but it's not impossible for you to redeem it, women generally like strong people, and you try to be stronger.

The most terrible thing is to make a woman's heart cold, and her heart does not have you. Now if you want to save your marriage, you can only touch her again with your sincerity.

Let it go! Even if you do too much now, she'll feel sick.

Alas! What women are most afraid of is that they are absent-minded, and you can only talk about children now.

Let it go. Is it useful to guard an empty shell. Hurry up and take off the green hat.

Leave immediately, don't want this kind of person.

Find a memorable place to have dinner, have a breakup meal, and see how she behaves!

Then leave, the heart is no more.

Go and beg your father-in-law to tell him the disadvantages of divorce and correct your mistakes.

As long as you do not agree, the divorce will be granted after separation for more than two years.

If you are not the party at fault, as long as you do not agree, this is the best way, there is no special reason, the court does not support the divorce.

Calm down and have a good talk.

First of all, if the parties do not want to divorce, they should find a way to save their marriage, and should not wait passively. However, while protecting the right of citizens to freedom of divorce. That is, if the other party wants to divorce, they can file for divorce at any time.

Then, if the parties do not want to divorce, they can refuse the parties' request for divorce.

Secondly, after the parties reject the other party's request for divorce, the other party can take the form of litigation for divorce. Then, as long as the parties provide evidence that the relationship between the parties has not broken down, then the court will not grant a divorce to the parties, because the only basis for the court to rule that the relationship between the parties has indeed broken down and cannot live together. According to Article 32 of the Marriage Law, if a man or a woman requests a divorce, the relevant department may mediate or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted.

At the same time, according to paragraph 2 of Article 32 of the Marriage Law (Amendment), "the people's court shall conduct mediation when hearing divorce cases; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted. This provision shows that after a man and a woman file for divorce, whether or not to grant a divorce does not depend on whether the other party agrees to the divorce, but on the basis of whether the relationship between the husband and wife has indeed broken down and whether the mediation has been invalid.

What should I do if I don't want a divorce?

If you can get a divorce, don't leave it, otherwise you will definitely regret it.

Find out the cause and solve the problem.

It depends on whose problem it is?

Hello, according to judicial practice, you can not agree to divorce, so if he sues you, if there are no special circumstances, you insist on not agreeing to the divorce, the court is likely to not allow the divorce for the first time, but if the other party sues for divorce again half a year after the judgment takes effect, the possibility of the court ruling divorce is very great. Therefore, if the other party insists on divorce, it is only a matter of time before the court decides a divorce.

If you can prove that the other party is at fault in the marriage, for example, if the other party has an extramarital affair, you can apply for moral damages, and the court will also be biased in your favor when dividing the joint property.

It is advisable to negotiate with the other person to resolve your marital relationship, at least in the best financial interest.

1. You can disagree with the divorce, as long as you insist, the first lawsuit, the general judgment will not be divorced.

2. However, if the other party sues again after 6 months, it is generally a judgment of divorce.

3. If you want to redeem it, you still have to rely on feelings, and the law is powerless.

The court mediates, if the other party resolutely divorces, after six months the court is the situation judgment, your husband is at fault, you can claim compensation.

Your husband's betrayal is a breach of the duty of mutual loyalty. Fault comes first. According to the regulations, the woman applied for divorce in this case, and the court upheld it.

Moreover, when dividing the property, the woman should be taken care of according to the regulations, because the woman is not at fault. In this way, the woman can score more.

However, if the husband applies for divorce, the court will not support it.

If you insist on disagreeing and explain to the judge that the relationship has not completely broken down, the court will usually reconcile. If the adjustment fails, a divorce can be obtained.

But you have to understand that "getting married" requires evidence in front of the law, and if your evidence is sufficient, he will not get anything when he really leaves. (Some provisions of the new marriage law on the situation of "second wives").

If the other party wants to divorce and one party does not want to divorce, you can communicate more or ask a lawyer to help you mediate. If mediation fails, you can also take delays to protect your legitimate rights and interests.

In the case of a litigated divorce, one party may file a lawsuit unilaterally in the court where the defendant is domiciled, or in the court where the defendant is not registered but has resided for more than one year. If there is no major dispute, the summary procedure will be applied, which will generally be completed in about 3 months, and if the case is more complicated, it will be transferred to the ordinary procedure, which will be completed in about 6 months.

Article 32 of the Marriage Act stipulates that a divorce shall be granted if the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails.

If the prosecution does not provide evidence of the breakdown of the relationship between the husband and wife, such as: bigamy or cohabitation of a spouse with another person, domestic violence, gambling, drug abuse, separation for two years due to emotional discord, etc., resulting in the breakdown of the relationship between the husband and wife, if there is such evidence, the court will generally grant a divorce, if there is no such evidence, the court will not grant a divorce, and the prosecution can only file a lawsuit after 6 months after the first-instance judgment takes effect, and the second lawsuit will generally grant a divorce.

I'm much younger than you, and maybe what I say is not to your liking, but I think that since the marriage has come to this point, there is no point in staying hard, and in your marriage, he has a new love and does not go home, which is originally the fault party, if you can present enough evidence of him in this regard, your divorce will be very unfavorable to him, but depending on the situation, you are worried that he is strongly asking for a divorce, if it really comes to this point, I think there may really be no good way. Hope you figure it out.

The specific issue is that you don't want a divorce is a unilateral will, and if the other party insists on the divorce, it is only a matter of time.

Marriage has reached this point, so don't defend it anymore.

Of course, you have the right not to agree to divorce, and you can advocate that the relationship between husband and wife is good and achieve the goal of not divorcing, but there is no forced marriage in the world, you have to understand this.

If the other party insists on leaving, there is no way.

You can ask the court to decide whether you should be divorced, but the criterion for whether you should be divorced is whether there is affection between the parties. If you do have a new love outside, it's too good to be good, and you have to leave.

If you can drag it out, it's really not good, and strive for more compensation, such as houses, cars, passbooks, etc.

What about the reasons for separation? What about the grounds for filing for divorce? Since he is very good to you and you love him, why is this happening, and you don't find any big gap between you in your narrative?

Is it because there is no communication barrier when you are tired from work? If it is just this reason to divorce, I feel that it is unlikely, there must be a deeper reason.

What happens to cause divorce!

Are you afraid of dragging you down, find its elders, and say, there must be an explanation, and there is no problem of principle. If you leave suddenly, it's not okay not to leave, so you have to understand it even more.

This kind of thing cannot be persuaded, since people insist on divorce, you are irretrievable, and separation for more than a year is already the most sufficient reason, and the law supports it.

If the other party goes to the court to sue and you don't want to divorce, you can communicate more, or you can ask a lawyer to help you mediate. If mediation fails, you can also take delays to protect your legitimate rights and interests.

Divorce is not a bad thing now, he doesn't love you anymore, you don't have children, divorce is a relief for both parties. While you're young, go find someone who cherishes you. A happy marriage is made by both parties, not unilaterally begged.

Once a man mentions divorce, he will really leave, his heart is no longer in you, it is useless for you to redeem it, it is better to give up, improve his charm, and make him regret the decision to divorce.

A harmonious marriage is made by two people who are dedicated to management and care. Marriage is nothing more than love, sex, and responsibility. The way husband and wife get along with each other and the way of social relations and friends are no different, tolerance, understanding, and communication.

It is recommended to compare the above key factors to see where the root cause of the conflict is, and only by finding the root cause and communicating and resolving it will the marriage be harmonious.

Since he has said so, let's divorce and let him regret it later.

Have a good talk and try not to get a divorce.

If you've been sure that he really doesn't love you anymore.

Why drag on to the future happiness of two people.

You're with him now.

Is it because of guilt and wanting to make up for it or because you really love him?

If you want to make up for it because of guilt, don't do it that way, it's not fair to him.

Don't want to get a divorce, divorce proceedings.

What should I do if I don't want a divorce?

Forget it, if a man doesn't play with you, he can't pull it back at all. If you have a drama, you won't get your ex-wife back. It's useless to keep such a man, this time to stay, next time he will leave.

If he wants his ex-wife to come back, it proves that he still has his ex-wife in his heart, and it is disrespectful for him to take his ex-wife to live with you, and the sand that can't hold it simply raises it, even if you keep him at the time, he will still go to his ex-wife, just think about it, you will meet better.

It's hard to keep, but you can try to drag it out without getting divorced.

Your husband didn't handle his previous relationship well, and you still dare to talk to him, he doesn't look down on you anymore, and he wants to eat back grass, this person is unreliable.

Spend time with him and talk about what caused the two of you to get divorced.

Why do you want your ex-wife to come back, do you two have children?

Ask him what caused it.