Why don t you fall in love? Why do you want to fall in love?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-20
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Because people often feel lonely Maybe when you are lonely you meet a person of the opposite sex who warms you How can you have a good impression And then slowly get along with each other will have a deeper feeling for each other So you will want to fall in love And when you are in love, there will often be a lot of sweetness that can make people happy And you can find someone who loves you Can't help but become dependent I don't know if I'm good or not.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Uh-huh, **It's because of the emptiness in my heart, I also want to find someone to hurt, and the feeling of being hurt by someone. It's like, "I still feel valued, cared for."

    Boys will have pride and girlfriend pain, and girls will have satisfaction and boyfriend love.

    That's all, thanks.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There are many reasons for this. If it's starting from junior high school...

    Maybe it's because life is too boring. A life that doesn't change always needs something else to spice things up.

    People always say, emptiness, loneliness, loneliness. And so it is.

    Perhaps, for your friends, it is already a pleasure.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Belch... Actually, it's just that the heart is empty, really. I just want to play alone, and some feelings are not something that parents and friends can give, only lovers can give.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There are several reasons for this

    1。Showing off, a lot of people are like that, for example, you see someone else have a girlfriend, and he goes around saying this and that's good... (That's how I felt when I first talked about my girlfriend).

    2.Comparison is to compare who sprinkles fire... Whose girlfriend is good-looking and pretty·3Play·· It's purely for fun.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I've had this kind of doubt, and now I can tell you as someone who has come before, but I just want to appreciate it forever.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you can't say anything clearly, you'll know if you talk about it yourself. You didn't talk about it because you haven't met your crush yet. Junior high school and high school are not called love. That's called nonsense.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    And when you get there, you'll understand.

    You can also ask your parents, if they are not in love, how can you exist in the world.

    It's something that you can't explain in words, and you can only understand it if you feel it and experience it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Like-minded people!! Anyway, I feel good to be single!! I'm also bothered by this question.,Maybe there are a lot of problems in this world that can't come out.,Maybe this.,Maybe that.,There's a feeling.,I can't help it!!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In love, only when you are in love can you have love. Falling in love is something that everyone has to go through. Love is always an eternal topic.

    I see a lot of people talking about their love experiences here. The trouble of love. The helplessness of love.

    The pain and entanglement of love. I don't dare to say that I understand love in all its entirety. But I think I still understand a lot in the past three years of love.

    Love is close to each other because of mutual attraction. There are so many people in the vast sea of people, and it is not easy to meet the one who attracts you, since you have met it, I think it is a kind of fate. But it is so easy to say that the process of attracting people to love each other and know each other is so easy, but there are piles of tests waiting for two people who love each other in every link, once two hedgehogs.

    Two stones with water chestnuts, in the process of love, deep hypnosis, forgetting themselves, pulling out the thorns and smoothing the edges and corners, in order not to hurt the person they love, to change what they have not changed for the person they love, to adapt to each other, this is the embodiment of love. But... Not everyone can do this, love is like a scale, on either side of the scale, who only pays or only does not want to give.

    The scales are going to collapse ... Don't love the wrong person because of loneliness, that kind of love, when you can't give him happiness, he will still leave you because of loneliness. In fact.

    Don't think a lot about love, and the promises you made when you once loved deeply must also be believed to be said sincerely, when you love, you really love, and when you don't love, you really don't love. If there are no two people in the world who can stand on the same point and have this insurmountable gap, then only hope and love can shorten the depth and breadth of this gap ... Love is to give wholeheartedly, do not care about the gains and losses in it...

    Love has a clear conscience, and it is not so easy to truly love someone, encountered. Just cherish the one in front of you, don't think there is a more suitable one and don't cherish it, often the one that is lost is the most suitable for you, just talk about my views on love. Don't laugh, it also makes me think a lot.

    Bless you to find someone you love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Why fall in love? This is because of the psychological reasons of the individual. Materially speaking, each of us is independent, in terms of personality, each of us is independent, financially speaking, each of us can be independent, and reproductively, each of us can be independent.

    Psychologically, we can never be independent.

    Because, from birth, people are a process of learning, adapting, and surrounding the environment. The human psyche is constantly under external influences.

    When I was a child, my parents had a great influence on us. We work hard to learn to adapt to our surroundings, and we are psychologically fulfilled.

    In the study, our classmates and teachers have a great influence on us. We strive to be in control of our surroundings and our own destiny, and we are psychologically fulfilling.

    When we grew up, nothing had a big impact on us. We try to find a place to rely on. It doesn't have to be powerful, perfect, or how much it is worth learning, or it may have any merit.

    But it has to exist. If it doesn't exist, we feel empty, lonely, bored, a sense of failure, loneliness, ......In short, he will not let our psychology develop normally and adapt to this society.

    So, we need to be in love, we need to fall in love with a faith, it can be marriage, it can be a person of the opposite sex, it can be a goal, it can be an academic goal, ......it can be an academic goal

    From a traditional and physiological point of view, we do need to be in love in the ordinary sense, which is one of human nature.

    From the perspective of psychology and the pursuit of freedom and independence, we will never be truly independent, people cannot exist only dependent on themselves, and people must always live in love.

    Because, in people's hearts, there is always a place, which is naturally reserved for the one you love deeply.

    One can never be completely selfish.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Flowers bloom for fruit. Falling in love is to get married, do more of the process of getting to know each other, and lay the foundation for marriage. All relationships that are not aimed at marriage are hooliganism.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In order to find his other half.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Lonely, right!! Also, it looks like everyone is talking!!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because everyone needs love.

    But not everyone can get love.

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