The troubles of friendship, the confusion about friendship ...

I've had a similar experience. Seeing your good friend playing with others and snubbing yourself will make you feel very sad and uneasy. In your experience, it's best that you can play with them, and of course, if it doesn't work for some reason, that's okay.

I can only see if your friendship is deep, whether it is that kind of sincere emotion, if so, I believe that she will not forget you and will play with you. If not, then don't take it personally.

You are suffering from such gains and losses because you are distrustful of your friends and a denial of your own charm. The only value of friendship is to make both friends feel happy, and if you are unhappy because of this friendship, either your belly is too small, or you are really not suitable.

Friends want to share with others, the important thing is to have confidence in yourself, believe that you have advantages that others can't replace, so she will be friends with you!

Tolerant and generous, assertive, hobbies, and able to endure.

This is normal, love is to be shared, and it is not love, love can be monopolized.

You should relax, isn't it nice to have multiple friends?

There are many kinds of friends, I have also encountered this kind of problem with you, I once found that I have a lot of friends, usually eat, drink and play together, but when I encountered a problem, I couldn't find one. Actually, this situation is quite sad, after all, a person still needs a few close friends who can draw a knife to help.

I still have a lot of friends, but I have a division of my own. Most of them are ordinary friends, general friends, they have small difficulties, as long as I can help, it's OK, after all, in this world we still have to establish their own network, and a few are close friends, very friendly kinds, they are busy I will help even if I suffer a loss, because they are the same to me, this feeling is very warm.

I think you can try to expand your circle of friends and not just limit yourself to the few you have made in college. I think you should be the most ordinary friends of these friends in college, you think about meeting a person in difficulty on the road, and you will lend a helping hand, not to mention knowing them, as long as it does not involve principles, it will not harm your own interests, you can help it, and you will love the society more.

Secondly, it is to go out and walk more and make more friends. I have a very good friend who I met when I was playing, and before I knew it, we had a good relationship, and many people who knew us at the same time were surprised that we could be close friends. Fate is very mysterious, and many times it is encountered during the period.

Many times it's not that we don't have friends, it's that we lack the opportunity to meet friends. Go to the clubs you are interested in, expand your hobbies, learn guitar instruments, and go out for a walk with your backpack. These are all good opportunities.

Don't be depressed, life is like this, it's not that you can't force it, just let it be. I like a sentence very much: do your best, listen to the destiny of God.

We just need to be ourselves, prepare everything, and leave the rest to Heaven to decide, and don't complain about the unfairness of the world, because there is no justice in this world except death.

They ask you for help, and you don't shirk it, which means that you see them as friends, then you can tell them the doubts in your heart, and they will accept it in a tactful tone. Friends, of course, are not "stupid eating and playing together, and then no one knows anyone". First of all, you have to see if there are any people among them who are worthy of your appreciation, whether there are people who have similar personality and interests to you, and you can become good friends with them.

As your friendship progresses, they will gradually get to know you, recognize you as a person, and understand your righteousness. (I also agree with the view of the first floor).