Jia Baoyu s marriage, can Mrs. Jia Muwang say it? What does Jia Zheng think?

Jia Baoyu's marriage can be counted if Jia's mother said it, Mrs. Wang can also count what she said, and Jia Zheng himself can also count it. But because he is afraid of the inside, judging from his jokes at the Lantern Festival night banquet in Jiafu, he is afraid of Mrs. Wang, because at that time, Wang Ziteng was in the limelight, and his own official position was lower than that of Wang Ziteng, so he did not dare to offend Mrs. Wang, because everyone on the earth knew that Mrs. Wang liked Baochai and Jia's mother liked Daiyu. So in the opinion of these two women, he chose not to speak.

And we know that in ancient times, filial piety was emphasized, and the old lady's eldest son Jia Yu was obviously attacking the knight, but he lived in a partial courtyard, just because Jia's mother liked her younger son and was biased. And Baoyu was born because of the title of jade, and he looks like a national prince, and Jia's mother likes him very much. Because of this auspiciousness, Hefu put the hope of the family's prosperity on Baoyu.

In Baoyu's marriage, we all paid attention to the ideas of Jia's mother and Mrs. Wang, but ignored Jia Zheng's ideas. In ancient times, women had to follow three virtues and four virtues. The three subordinates are to obey the father at home, to obey the husband when married, and to obey the son when the father dies.

No matter how big or small, Jia Mu and Mrs. Wang must listen to the advice of Jia Zheng, the head of the family. Jia Zheng is not accustomed to mundane affairs, so he doesn't care much about family affairs, and many things are left to Jia's mother and Mrs. Wang. Although Jia Zheng doesn't care about many things, it doesn't mean that he doesn't care about his son's marriage.

As for the choice of his son's aunt, Jia Zheng already has a plan in mind, and he just waits for Baoyu and Jia Huan to be older, and he will make decisions for them. Jia Zheng is also interested in Baoyu's wife. Others have no way of speculating, if as far as Baochai and Daiyu are concerned, Jia Zheng likes Daiyu.

Regarding Jia Baoyu's marriage, Mrs. Wang's idea is known to everyone in the world: that is, let her son Jia Baoyu marry her own sister Aunt Xue's daughter Xue Baochai as his wife. The question is, can Mrs. Wang's personal thoughts count if she says it?

This is a very complicated issue in a big family like Jiafu, and it can't be simply said whether it counts or not! As Jia Baoyu's mother, Mrs. Wang paid attention to the saying that the marriage of children was "the order of the parents and the words of the matchmaker", which shows that she still has a great right to speak as a mother. What about his father, Jia Zheng?

According to the ancient tradition of male protagonist and female protagonist, Jia Zheng only grasps macro principles, such as family background, talent, and equality, and Mrs. Wang can be in charge of operational problems.

Baoyu's marriage, Jia Mu and Mrs. Wang can have the final say, so it has caused a dilemma that they can't even say it. At this time, Jia Zheng's attitude is the most critical, but he has no obvious support for which side. Mrs. Wang wants to choose Xue Baochai, and Jia's mother has already taken a fancy to Lin Daiyu, this Jia Mansion knows it, but Jia Zhenghui doesn't know? !

The reason why he didn't express his stance was largely because he didn't like Xue Baochai and Lin Daiyu. Jia Zheng should want to choose a wife who will help Baoyu Shitu. So Jia Zheng didn't express his position for a long time, and came to avoid the struggle between his wife and mother.

Second, he really didn't like the daughter-in-law chosen by his wife and his mother.

In the past, anyone's first marriage was based on the orders of their parents. Therefore, Jia Baoyu's marriage is theoretically Jia Zheng's decision. However, this also involves the chaos of Rongguo Mansion.

Of course, the old lady had to intervene, because Jia Zhengquan relied on the old lady's preference to get the stewardship, so he had to make concessions to the old lady. In fact, Jia Baoyu's status is not high. As the Jia family deteriorated and the wind and rain were shaking, the old lady could no longer take care of Sister Lin.

And for so many years, there are no tall families who are willing to marry their daughters to Baoyu, and at the same time, the financial collapse of the Jia family is getting worse and worse. This urgently needs a second grandmother with a rich dowry, at least now Sister Lin is not named. Then, it is the only choice to marry Miss Xue by default.

Of course, Jia Zheng will not have an opinion on this.

Jia Baoyu's marriage is not something that a single person can say. Of course, in the feudal era, marriage should be subject to the orders of parents and the words of matchmakers. However, for a family like Jia Fu and Jia Baoyu's status, the matter of marrying a wife is not just a matter of one person, but the result of a combination of many factors.

Whether it is Mrs. Wang or Mother Jia, just one person speaking cannot be completely counted. Although, for Jia Zheng, he is a filial son, and he has to listen to Jia's mother's words; And Mrs. Wang, although she does not fully agree with Jia's mother's opinion, must also do her duty as a daughter-in-law.

Although in the past, it was said that women obeyed their fathers and husbands. But in specific family matters, it is really the male protagonist outside and the female protagonist inside. Family affairs are all handled by men, and there is no doppelganger.

I was busy with the affairs of the court, and there was an external transfer, and there were many things. When I got home, I was no longer able to take care of my family. Therefore, from Jiafu to Jia's mother, Mrs. Wang, to Wang Xifeng, and Tanchun are all women in charge of the family.

Therefore, Mrs. Wang's golden and jade relationship and Bao Dai, supported by Jia's mother, are in a competition between the two to see who wins or loses! Jia Zheng also thought about this, and he saw this idea when he made lantern riddles during the Lantern Festival, and he didn't like the poems of a few young people, and he didn't like the lantern riddles of Baochai. When I saw Baochai, I was even more sad.

I think Baochai is also blessed. I didn't see Daiyu and Xiangyun. It shows that Jia Zheng and Mrs. Wang have the same opinion on the treatment of Baochai, and they are interested in Baochai, and they are unhappy because the lantern riddle is ominous.

In the dream of Red Mansions, even the girl's fate has been calculated, and in ancient times, marriage must first look at the eight characters, if the eight characters of Daiyu Baochai are good, they will be decided a long time ago. ** These girls have long been ambushed and have a tragic ending, and they don't have a good life, so they can't choose the object of Baoyu. And Qin Keqing was good-looking, but he didn't have any specific characters, so he was lucky enough to enter Jiafu.

Several plaques in the Grand View Garden were inscribed by Jia Zheng and Daiyu, and not a word has been changed. Jia Zheng appreciated Daiyu in his heart.

Because Jia Baoyu's mother's mother's surname is Wang, this is in Jiafu, there is no need to call Mrs. Jia anymore, and there is a similar name for Aunt Zhao, which is also called according to her mother's surname.

Regarding the title of Jia Baoyu's mother, I personally think that it is because Jiafu is a big family, and it is most normal to call Mrs. Jia as the daughter-in-law of Jiafu, but there are many daughters-in-law in Jiafu, and the title of "Mrs. Jia" is afraid that it will "respond to a hundred calls", in order to distinguish the characters, so Baoyu's mother is called Mrs. Wang.

Jia Baoyu is Jia's mother's heart, Jia's mother's most beloved grandson, and a simple family relationship.

Jia Baoyu is Mrs. Wang's son, but in Mrs. Wang's eyes, Jia Baoyu is her future backer, and the element of love is very limited, because she once said that if Jia Zhu is still alive, it doesn't matter if she dies a hundred Baoyu.

Mrs. Wang and Mother Jia are passable on the face and get along well with their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

In Jia Baoyu's heart, Jia Mu and Mrs. Wang are the two most important people in his life. He once told Daiyu: In addition to the old lady, the old man, and the wife, the fourth of these three people is my sister.

Mother Jia must love Jia Baoyu, it can be called doting, and the rich and noble people blindly protect it, which is understandable. Baoyu is to Jia's mother what a grandson is to his grandmother!

Mrs. Wang's treatment of Baoyu is not to mention, her only son is her dependence for the rest of her life, and that meticulous and even excessive care should be close to human affection! Baoyu and Mrs. Wang are also pure mother-son love!

Jia Mu may say that it is a kind of recognition for Mrs. Wang, this is relative to Mrs. Xing, Mrs. Xing is more unreasonable, not as stable as Mrs. Wang, in that feudal society where ancestors and grandchildren are in the same house, this value may mean a kind of honor! That Mrs. Wang has a little flattery for Jia's mother, and Mrs. Wang is also more generous, that is, she is extremely filial piety to make Jia's mother happy!

In fact, in my opinion, the relationship between them is the pure relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, mother and son, and grandchildren in today's Hemei family, but there are many etiquettes to be observed in the rich families of ancient feudal society, and their love is a bit unnatural to express! That's how I see it!