What does it feel like to have no friends to talk to?

I think true friends are mutual. I stayed in the city after graduating, and basically didn't have any real friends here. I usually don't feel that there is anything special about not having a true friend around, that is, sometimes I quarrel with my boyfriend, I want to run away from home and have nowhere to go, or I don't want to talk to my boyfriend about something unhappy at home, and I can't find anyone who can listen to me and cry with me.

In his twenties, there are five or six who have really good play, all of whom have known each other for more than ten years, and they usually hardly contact, but as long as they go home for the New Year's holiday, they will take time to get together, think about the past, complain about the current situation, stay together even if they don't speak, they won't feel embarrassed, and they still talk in the same way that they used to hurt each other, fat to death, ugly to death, balabala. True friends are actually family members of their choice, and they don't need a lot, but no matter how time changes, friends are like wine, the older they get, the more fragrant they are, and the older they are, the more mellow they are.

The first experience should be lonely, and I am alone in everything I do, which is really sad. But I think it's easier to make friends in an unfamiliar environment (not to mention the quality of the friend). For example, as a freshman student party, I left the familiar living environment and came to the city where the university is located, and on the day I reported to the university, the first friend I met was the senior sister who was in charge of reception, and we became friends on the simple crowded road, with a simple conversation.

When encountering difficulties, there are people to ask for help, and the sense of personal security in a lonely city rises. Therefore, the experience of no friends in a lonely city is very short, you can find your friends by a simple conversation, and then after the precipitation of time and the run-in of your personality, you will definitely meet close friends who can make friends with you. ‍‍

To tell the truth, my former friends didn't say hello during the New Year's holiday, he opened a store to buy things, and then he got married, I automatically blocked these people, I don't think there is a need, I have few friends, and there are only two or three confidants, but, people are going to grow, and if you don't contact the feelings for a long time, it will fade, some people you treat her as a friend, others may not get your love, others also have her good friends, I have always felt that I am a lonely person and not social, but now I have children and daughters, It's all family-centered, and after doing business, the two brains only think about how to make money, and how can they manage so much. Of course, it's good to have friends, which means good popularity, but as for me, I still have to think about it.

There is a saying that there are many friends, but there are few confidants, many people seem to have a lot of friends on the surface, eating, drinking, singing k, as soon as they call, they look very beautiful, but when they really need help, they are called this and this are not available, and they are busy! This is the wine and meat friend! What is a true friend?

Rush to the front when you have something, and don't spend all day drinking together when you're fine! But this kind of friend is very difficult, and it is good to have one or two.

In fact, I am talking about this, it seems to be talking about my own, my colleagues at work, classmates, and I can get along together, but I don't have a true good friend, and the feeling in my heart is that when I am in a bad mood, there is no one to tell, and when something happens, I am also thinking about how to solve it, and sometimes I feel that it is too difficult to have a true good friend, although I haven't met it for so long, but I still want to have a true friend.

I'm not particularly sociable, and my personality doesn't belong to the self-cooked, extroverted type, but I have a few sincere friends, all of whom have played from childhood to adulthood, which has something to do with the region, we are a small town here, a small city, and we live very close However, as people grow up, they will gradually have fewer friends, and I think most people are like this.

I think we should find our own problems, normally everyone has one or two, bosom friends, if not, prove that there is definitely a problem with their character.

I have a lot of things that I can't tell my family that I can't tell them, and in a sense, I feel that they are relatives.

I was overwhelmed and bored after work every day. Some words can only be said in the middle of the night.

In fact, I have a true friend, really the kind that is sincere, from childhood to adulthood, everything is said, and clothes can be changed and worn. First of all, I am 36 years old, and we have been good for almost 30 years. But in the last two years, I began to feel that our relationship had become delicate.

I don't know when it started, and there are things between each other that don't talk about things like before. Although whoever has something to say, they will do their best to help each other, but the feeling I used to have is gone, I haven't talked to her about this topic, but I believe she can feel it. It seems that the circle of friends of two people is different, the things they pursue are also different, and even the values will change, and the opinions of some things will also diverge.

I can't tell you how I feel, but I always feel uncomfortable in my heart, and I can't go back to the past! After talking a lot, I don't know what I said, forget it, so be it.

This feeling can be said to be very bad, feeling that I don't even have a friend around me to make friends with, and I will feel a sense of frustration in my heart, especially depressed, and very uncomfortable.

It's definitely lonely and uncomfortable, and then I feel like I'm this outlier, I'm rejected by this collective, and I'm an unacceptable person. It's going to be sad.

If you don't have any friends to make around, then this feeling can be said to be very painful, and you feel that you are really a failure, and you don't even have a true friend.

I don't have a friend around me, and when I am very depressed, but there is no one to talk to you, I am very depressed at that moment.

I will feel that I have a special failure in my life, that I have no popularity at all, and that I am particularly discouraged and disappointed.

If you don't have friends around you, it's a kind of dumb person who eats Coptis chinensis, and you have the feeling of being bitter and unspeakable, that is, no one will listen to you.

You will feel that you are particularly lost, and if you don't have a good friend, you can't talk about your inner feelings.

I will feel that I have a special failure in life, and I will also feel very depressed, because there is no one to talk to.

It's a very lonely feeling, because you don't have a place to vent your problems and grievances, and you feel helpless.

You will feel very miserable, as if you are alone, and no one wants to make friends with you.

If you don't even have a friend to talk to, I think it's your own reason.

This is a big society of resource sharing, human beings, as social animals, everyone needs friends, and you can't find a friend to talk to, which only shows one point: you are a person who does not know how to give. You may think that it is too realistic for friends to give like this!

But the adult world is originally very realistic, and you can treat others sincerely in exchange for the sincerity of others to treat you.

It also takes a lot of effort between friends, you don't know how to manage your own network, you will be cut off when you leave, not to mention any substantive effort, even the most basic to keep in touch, you can't do it, how can you have friends? There are good girlfriends around me, it's really the kind of friends who are very iron, I watched from the sidelines, and I only had envy, because I didn't have such a girlfriend who understood each other.

To sum up, there are several reasons: not good at keeping in touch, usually unwilling to care about greetings; Moreover, only when you need help from others, you remember to contact others, is it too realistic for such a person; 365 days a year, I never call my friends out for dinner or go out for a ......The whole is a person who lives in his own world. Judging from your usual performance, you don't need to have friends at all, so it's normal to not find friends when you need to talk.

If you also have the above problems, it is recommended that you learn to empathize and think more about others in your daily life. Find some friends you like appropriately, go out for a stroll every once in a while, and not necessarily eat and drink every time, so you may make friends with alcohol and meat. True friends, everyone desires, but please treat others with sincerity first.

I don't think it's a failure, even if you don't have a good friend, I don't think it's necessarily a failure.

First of all, as far as friends are concerned, almost everyone has friends, but there are relatively few people who can talk to each other. Someone who can let down his guard and tell him what is in his heart, I think he would not"Sister Confidant"The one who can give people appropriate help or encouragement for this is the one who can talk like a tree hole and keep his mouth shut. Some people know that they can't talk after getting along for a long time, because some people have a big mouth and may talk around after you talk to her, and some people don't want to talk to her for other reasons.

So, if you can't find a friend to talk to, it's normal, after all, not everyone can talk to each other, maybe you just happened to know the group of people who can't talk to each other.

And then as for the person you talk to, there are various reasons why you would talk to someone you can trust, maybe you just haven't found it yet. After all, I really want to find one"Girlfriends"It's still hard. And because of my concept of this issue, I don't think that having friends to talk to is not a failure, I don't like to talk to hearts, I think it's enough to have one or two very good friends, and I feel very happy for this.

For this reason, I think that the person who talks about the heart should relax his mind, even if he does not have friends who can talk to him, he should not feel that he is a failure, and if he does not feel that he has failed, he will naturally not fail.

If you feel that you don't have friends to talk to, don't feel inferior or sad, you can work hard to find a friend like this, you can keep meeting new friends to find, and you can also attract new friends by constantly improving your various abilities and skills. And now the network technology is also very developed, if you want to find someone to talk to, you can use some applications on the Internet to tell some people on the Internet what you want to express your emotions, there are many people on the Internet who want to talk to each other through these applications, and some eventually become friends.

To sum up, I don't think a person who has a friend to talk to is not a failure, or even a failure.

In short, we still have more bosom friends, we can make trouble together, play together, and add color to our lives, which is also very necessary for us, but don't think about failure or failure, this is not necessarily related.

This cannot be determined by failure or not, how we interact with others, half of the reason is ourselves, and the other half is due to the other party. Sometimes there is no problem with being a person, but there is a problem with the people around you, is this also your own failure? If you think it's also because you don't know people clearly, and it's also a failure, then well, I have nothing to say.

I know that at some point, we will suddenly encounter a situation where we can't find anyone to talk to, and we feel that we have failed in life, and we don't even have a friend to talk to. I don't think it's appropriate to measure our feelings with others by their successes and failures. There are many different definitions of friendship.

Wine and meat friends, ordinary friends, close friends, etc. And among so many types of friends, there are only one or two people who can talk to each other.

Some people make friends, they are very sincere, and they are heart-to-heart to many people, but can such people make friends who can talk to each other? Not necessarily, because he is devoted to anyone, some of the friends he makes will think that he is like this to everyone, who knows whether he is really good or false, and some will think that his character is very annoying, and he is stupid to everyone, only a few people understand him, and such people can really become friends with him who can talk to him.

Some people make friends, but they can't dig out their hearts and lungs to people, and they have a polite distance from everyone. Will such a person be a good friend with whom he can talk heart-to-heart? The answer is still not necessarily, people who are friends with him, some will feel that he is cold and unapproachable, unable to enter his heart, and some will feel that he is very educated, and it feels very comfortable and free to be friends with him without suffocation.

Therefore, there will still be a few people who can understand his politeness, communicate with him in just one step, and become confidants and friends.

It is also because there are many ways to make friends, and if you can't make a close friend, it may be because you don't use the right way to interact with people among the people you are dating, and it may be that the person who really understands you has not yet appeared. And any friendship has to go through the baptism of time. As long as you sincerely interact with people, slowly, you will find that those who have been left behind by the baptism of time are the friends and best friends you can really make friends with.

Also, to develop a pair of eyes that can distinguish between good and bad, some people should not associate with him in the first place. Sometimes you think that you always think that it may not be your problem that you can't find someone to talk to, but because you are friends with a bunch of villains. Such people approach you in order to gain benefits from you, and they will not really want to listen to you.

So you will also feel that such people can't talk to each other.