Why is my first reaction when I see him being far away and not close?

Maybe you yourself have some low self-esteem, and if you like someone, you feel that you are not worthy of him. Often speak ill of him and think badly of him because you want everyone to dislike him, so that you are the only one around him who is good to him. You transfer your resentment and hatred for your stepfather to him, probably because you are subconsciously afraid that he is someone like your stepfather.

This is because you subconsciously feel that such a man is not worthy, so when you see her, you will have an inferiority complex, which will make you have this thought.

Because you have a crush on him. So you have a desire to protect him. You only know your own heart, and you don't allow others to say anything bad about him, because you like him, because he still has the characteristics of your stepfather, so you like and want to stay away from him.

Like a person is to want to run away when you see him, and when he disappears, you quickly look for him everywhere. Congratulations, you're really interesting to him, and you're still secretly in love with him.

You are paranoid, the first reaction is to stay away, I don't think this is like, like a person will want to be close to him, will imagine his beauty, and will not impose bad things on him, you will think like this is estimated that you don't like him enough.

Because you like him, you react to seeing him nervous, shy, and his heart pounding. So you don't dare to come near him.

The reason why you don't want to be near him is because there is something about him that resembles your stepfather, and your stepfather doesn't make a good impression on you and causes damage to your psyche, so that's why you don't want to be near this boy.

I think the reason why your first reaction when you see him is to stay away instead of getting closer, maybe he is more ashamed in his heart, or maybe he sees that this boy is more arrogant and arrogant, and he is afraid that he will not look down on himself, so he stays away.

You like a guy, but your first reaction when you see him is to stay away, not closer, because your heart is a little empty, which is the reserved instinct of girls.

Maybe something happened to him that made him feel disgusted in your heart, and then you reacted away from him.

It is possible that you have deified him too much in your world, and when you see her, you feel that you are very humble and unworthy of him, so you want to stay away from him.

Maybe you don't feel mature enough, and you're still scared, so you always want to avoid each other. Don't impose something else on him.

Although you say that you like him very much, you should be afraid that she will be embarrassed to find out that you like her, so your first reaction is to stay away, not close to him.

It may be that when you see him, you just want to stay away from him at first sight, so you don't want to get close to him.

Because I like him in my heart, I don't dare to get close to him, and I may feel that I am not worthy of him, so I will have this sense of disparity. So you still have to adjust your mentality.

That's because you don't have a good impression of him, you don't want to see this person, you don't like such a person, and you don't want to look at it, which shows how much you hate this person.

I don't think you subconsciously want to get close to this boy.

Maybe you're never going to be close because of this, so you're always going to have a kind of estrangement.

If your first reaction when you see him is to stay away instead of approaching, it means that you have rejected him in your heart.

Your first reaction when you see it is to stay away, not closer, it may be that he is doing some behavior that makes you feel that you should stay away from him.

Well, I'm like this, it seems to be a habit, I don't know the specifics, but maybe you can't face him yet, too shy, don't want to take the initiative to approach, for fear of revealing your mind or something. Maybe you're nervous when you see him, afraid of making a fool of yourself, maybe it's low self-esteem.

Running away from fear of not being recognized is a psychopathological protective psychological behavior.

Because you're a woman, we men see a girl we like, and we just stare at her.

Afraid of being known by that boy, shy

I'm afraid of being looked down upon by that boy.

I'm afraid he'll see it, and I'm afraid he'll see it, but he'll pretend not to.

I also feel this way, and when I realize that when I am appreciated by my teacher and liked by my classmates, my first reaction is fear, and my personal analysis may be because of fear, but it is not the fear of being hurt by the first respondent, it is the fear that the other party will be disappointed in me. I'm really afraid to see a person who likes himself or someone he likes finds out that he is not so good, and gradually becomes disillusioned with himself and is further away from himself than before.

Or there is another possibility, Ye Gong is a good dragon. In fact, I don't like this character in my heart, but I believe that I like it for some reason that I didn't even find out?

I can only analyze these two, and I don't know if the character is not in your situation.

Fear of injury, anxiety.

I used to be a little bit like this, but now it's better, I just force myself to go out, start in small groups, no matter if the other party doesn't know me, as long as others invite me to join, I don't talk much at first, but then it gets better.

I can't let go, I feel a little inferior, I feel that I am not good enough, and I am afraid that others will look down on me. Wait a minute.

Do you usually stay at home? If you stay at home for too long, you will become dependent on your home, and it is not a psychological problem, so it is good to go out for a walk on weekends.

This is the feeling of heartbeat, when you see the girl you like, the first thing is that you are afraid that the other party will see your bad side, if you don't do well in any of them, you will feel that the other party has no feelings for yourself, so you pay attention to your image in the other party.

Maybe it's a little inferiority complex in your heart, because an optimistic and cheerful boy, if you see a girl you like, you will definitely take the initiative to meet and talk, your character is because you are too inferior, so you feel that you are not worthy of this girl, so at this time you must be brave to come out of the inferiority complex, accept your imperfections, and strive to make yourself perfect.

It's obvious that you have a crush on this girl, and she's not your girlfriend, so you can only watch him from afar. And because you are not confident enough to express your love, out of shyness, you can only choose to hide. Therefore, you have to make yourself excellent and brave, dare to express yourself like Xie Huan's people, and pursue your true love.

I think your first reaction when you see a girl you like from a distance is to avoid going the other way, maybe because you are a little nervous to see her, and because you like her, but she doesn't know the kind of weakness of heart, there is always a little bit of unconfidence or weakness in the face of the person you like, but I think this is an escape behavior, you should be brave.

In fact, I have also had such a situation, I saw him who I liked coming over from afar, but I didn't dare to meet him head-on. I don't know, maybe I'm shy, I'm very embarrassed, I always want to sneak a look at her in the dark, or maybe I'm not confident. That's my opinion.

Generally, shy boys will choose to avoid and go the other way when they encounter this situation, because meeting the goddess is both exciting and embarrassing. I was excited to meet him, but it would be awkward not to come up and talk to him. Every time I meet her, I feel very shy, and it may also be the reason for my lack of confidence, feeling that I have a certain gap with her, which is also the main reason for taking a detour when I meet a girl I like.

The first one, probably because you didn't dress yourself up well and you don't think you're the best version of yourself today. Second, you may have a strong inferiority complex in front of the goddess, you don't dare to approach her, you don't believe that she will look back at you at all. Thirdly, you are nervous, and as soon as you see someone you like, you blush, nervous, and can't speak.

I didn't want to see it, I saw it, and I couldn't let the family disappear, so I avoided it.

Maybe it's not the mouth of the person you don't want to see, but the people you are afraid of seeing one by one, or maybe it's the real "out of sight is pure" mouth, I don't know what kind of mouth you mean, hehe...

Hello, when a person faces something, his first reaction should be his truest reaction.

Of course, it is the true expression of my inner emotions about things, not pretending or pretentious.

In the face of urgent matters, it can best reflect a person's character and ability to deal with things. But you can't generalize that this is your truest self.

If you want to know your truest self, you have to consider many aspects. For example, the interaction and contact with people in daily life and work, what are you really like? What you are like with your family and friends; And what it's like to be alone by yourself, these are the most authentic selves!

What could be the situation with this knee-jerk reaction? Then you just keep observing, don't show too much interest in his phone, and when you have the opportunity, then find other ways to look at it, or observe him.

So your feeling is right, your wife has your boyfriend, there must be a secret, don't let you look at his phone, you have to be careful, you are about to be green.

When you have a certain feeling, especially a bad feeling, it's basically accurate, and it's a high probability that the sixth sense is still relatively accurate.

Dear, your feeling is very accurate, as soon as you get close, he won't let you see, obviously there is a ghost in his heart, so you should pay more attention to his other actions, for example, is it still the same as before to you? Will he still care about you, and do you still have a heartfelt feeling for him? Sort out the clues, cut through the mess quickly, trust each other if you can't, and if you can't, you can get together and disperse!

Be wise, life is short, don't spend your limited energy on things that aren't worth it.

If you feel that your boyfriend has a secret, and you won't let you look at his phone as soon as you get close to him, then it means that he has a certain guard against you, which means that he doesn't really love you, so you can also be a little defensive about him, and if not, leave him quickly.

You have your own privacy, you don't want your own privacy, being found out by others your boyfriend is just a normal performance, don't worry too much.

Everyone has their own secrets, don't snoop on other people's secrets.