Can a marriage that is not blessed by parents be happy?

For the distress and tangled problems you encounter.

1. Whether the relationship with the lover is worth the sacrifices and concessions you make.

2. Whether the family resistance can be withstanded.

3. Stick to each other, whether the emotional support can withstand the test.

4. See if there is the possibility of having the best of both worlds and being able to compromise with each other.

5. Look at whether you really need a career or a family, there is no perfect thing in the world, and see if your efforts can make you feel worthwhile and have no regrets.

6. We must leave room for independent existence in society and family, and understand what we need and desire in our hearts.

Bai asked, of course, it is the things of your husband and wife, the life of your parents is difficult, your parents will eventually return to the land, and happiness is a matter of two people! Not blessing is two different things.

Not necessarily, everything is possible. I have a friend who was very opposed to it when he got married, but after getting married, the two of them lived happily, and their parents wanted to open up and didn't object. There is only one reason for parents' opposition, and to put it bluntly, they are afraid that their children will not be happy.

However, parents cannot accompany their children to the end, and I personally think that if the opposition of parents is due to major issues, it can be carefully considered. If your parents object because of trivial matters, then you have to take care of it yourself. Happiness is one's own, and there are marriages that are approved of by both parents, and there are divorces, and there are also those that break down and live very badly.

Therefore, marital happiness has little to do with the blessing of parents, but how the husband and wife operate.

If you always have to look at the faces of your parents instead of holding your partner's hand and firmly believing to go on together, then the marriage will naturally be unhappy.

If you can say this, it means that you already have the answer, and you are not happy.

It depends on whether it is the man's parents or the woman's parents.

A: I don't think it's easy to have a marriage that isn't blessed by your parents for a long time, and it's hard to be happy in such a marriage. Parents who have gone through the wind and waves understand what marriage is all about. They hope that their children can choose carefully and find the person who is truly worthy of trust.

Therefore, when they find that something is wrong, they will raise objections, but they will often be refuted by the child, and even make a fuss to the point of breaking off the relationship.

According to incomplete statistics, 80% of children will insist on uniting with the person of their choice despite the opposition of their parents. Follow-up observations show that at least 70% of marriages that are not blessed by their parents are unhappy, and 75% regret not listening to their parents.

In fact, parents, as people who have come from the past, are not without the ability to discern. They have a lot of experience in life, they have read countless people, and they know what kind of people their children are suitable for. They thought it was inappropriate, and naturally they went through layers of analysis.

But children often don't want to listen to their parents' explanations, or run directly to live with their lovers, or directly throw "I'm going to marry him, you can't care" to shut their parents' mouths. Many parents are chilled by this, but they generally can't screw their children's decisions, and let them go to the abyss but can't do anything.

Parents don't actually stop their children's lifelong events for no reason, they must have their own considerations. They don't necessarily just don't allow the two parties to get married, they may just see the light of luck from the two of them. Therefore, if your parents oppose your marriage, please consider it carefully, on the one hand, to reassure your parents, and on the other hand, to see if the other party really has such and such problems.