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People who are too simple are really difficult to integrate into society, after all, the current society is not so ordinary as before, and people are selfish, and now if you want to mix up a little fame, you must continue to rise, and those who are too simple can't see through what others think in their hearts, and they are often innocent of the kind of people who lie down on the gun?
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People who can't be flexible, they are stubborn in their thinking, rigid in everything, and do things with a single glance, saying that even if the east is a hole, he will go straight to it, and what is even more annoying is that he still doesn't listen to persuasion. In today's ever-changing society, if you still stick to the rules, it will definitely be difficult to fit in.
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I think that those who are withdrawn, proud or have low self-esteem and introverts will have a hard time integrating into society, because people who are withdrawn and proud will not have many people like them, and people in society will not be impressed by them, and they will not feel inferior when they flee for ten miles. Introverts, while not annoying, will not be noticed by anyone.
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People who are particularly withdrawn and very introverted are difficult to integrate into society, and they usually don't like to talk like us, because there is a colleague who usually doesn't like to talk and doesn't contact us, and colleagues don't move around each other about anything, so everyone basically doesn't chat with him.
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I think it is very difficult for those who are very proud and self-righteous to integrate into this society, because their own vision is very high, and they will look down on us ordinary people in society because of this, so I feel that if they integrate into this society, it will take a lot of process.
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It is difficult for conceited people to integrate into society because they do not want to fit in.
Some people always believe in themselves too much, they believe that they can change society, they can make society what they want, they don't bother to integrate into society, and they can't integrate into society at all.
I admire such people, but unfortunately I am not.
I'm just an ordinary person, I have never wanted to change society, I just want to live a good life quietly.
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People who are incapable of returning to their shortcomings, such as self-centered, self-righteous, and selfish. This kind of person is not liked by others, and he is tired enough, and it is impossible to accommodate them. Life will not go according to their ideas, and slowly they will be left out by others and will not be able to integrate into society.
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I think it's hard for people who don't trust others to integrate into society. Because I think trust is the minimum criterion in the world, if you don't trust others, it will be difficult for you to do something, so it is very important to trust others, and I hope that people can trust each other and make progress together.
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I understand your distress.
In fact, I think that the social atmosphere is indeed changing rapidly, but it is far less than the accumulation of morality, true knowledge, and traditional etiquette to withstand the test and baptism of time and heart. There is nothing wrong with respecting tradition, being humble, being sincere, and being calm. What's wrong is that you can't rush to see the triumph of those who have made a momentary quick leap through flamboyance and opportunism, and often tasted some sweetness.
However, a key point is that in the face of most secular people, we need to be more tolerant and calm about the way people around us behave in the face of most secular people. Even if you know that they are contrived and hypocritical, you are not necessarily right to say that you are wrong. They are such a state of existence, you can't change them, so you have to accept them.
Calmly reciprocate them, and it is possible for them to be equal and serious. And you, too, have achieved a certain sense of "respect" for each other.
It is not that you are "foolish" if you are unsociable or insist on the truth, but if you can get along with the outside world happily, you will have a clear understanding of what is true and beautiful in your heart, and you will be happy both inside and outside. You are a happy person.
Some people say that each of us has a mask, and the usual interaction is the person with the mask, only at a certain time, after a long time test, between friends and relatives, the real self under the mask can be naturally revealed. So, you can't ask everyone to take their masks off ... It's not tired, it's the law of survival.
Hehe. Good luck
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There are a lot of sad realities in society, so please believe in yourself, friends. You don't have beauty, but you can have happiness; You are not dashing, but you can have freedom; You are not rich, but you can have happiness; You can't change the length of life, but you can expand the breadth of life; Only real efforts are the direction we need, and only our hard-working hands can create wealth for our lives. Good luck!
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Be yourself and don't think too much. A lot of things are just clouds.
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Just look at it, just be yourself, don't care too much about what other people think, don't have to pander to them.
As long as you are open-minded, don't hurt others, and don't damage the company.
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Talk to a psychiatrist, your mindset is not suitable.
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I also feel like this, just graduated out of the internship, met someone who is the same age as me but has been in the society for several years, I feel that what I speak is different, and my thinking is also very different, I feel that my own ideas are very simple, and in their eyes a little white.
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Yes, you can only integrate into society and not resist, otherwise you will be derailed. If you want to integrate into society, you need to go out boldly and not resist, otherwise you will never be able to grow up. Here's how you can try it:
Exercise your hands-on skills and do more things
The theories learned in school, if not put into practice, will never become their own thing. This is one of the most important things that you have to understand, take action and do more things, although some actions may bring some undesirable consequences. However, everything is fair, what you do today will bring results and all kinds of practical experience tomorrow.
A hard work attitude is important
If you want to succeed, you have to be prepared for hard work. There are no magic shortcuts, no buttons to turn stones into gold, there is not so much luck, you have to make sure that you achieve everything in your life, and if you want to achieve everything you dream of, you have to work hard. By the time you know this theory, you have grown up, you can better integrate into society, and you will find a foothold.
We all know that human beings are social animals, and if they lack social interaction and integration activities for a long time, they will inevitably become decadent and lose certain social functions, that is: "avoiding reality, being afraid of communicating with others, being afraid to go to crowded places, and not daring to look at each other's eyes when speaking, for fear that the other party will see their own closure and fear, so a series of social barriers will occur." ”
Therefore, people must not close themselves for too long, because if they are closed for a long time, they will be prone to psychological problems. Speaking of which, there is a saying that goes like this: "I'd rather go out and spend money than stay at home, play games, and sleep a lot!" ”
All in all, it is impossible for people to escape from this society all the time, not to meet people or contact everything in this society! So you have to go out and try bravely, so that you will have the opportunity to integrate into society.
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There's nothing you can't do, but it's useless to resist, society is made up of people, and people are social animals, and resisting society means not interacting with people, and it may be okay in the short term, but it will collapse in the long run.
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If you want to eat in society, you can only fit in. There is no way to change the rules set by the general environment, if you want to rely on one person. Either blend in or perish.
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Society is a big family, the cradle of people's lives, and only by thoroughly integrating into it can we live freely. Resistance will only work against oneself. Therefore, it is necessary to adapt ideas to society.
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Society is a relationship that arises from people's collective life, and it is actually the will of most people to gather and express. In fact, if people want to live in groups, they also have to adapt to the development of society, after all, it is true that one person has no way to change the development trend of the whole society. Of course, as individuals in society, our choices are free, we can choose to integrate into society, or we can choose to live our own lives, which all have existential significance.
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It seems to be very complicated and also a big book. Because society is the whole environment, you can't change the whole society, so you can only change yourself, change your mood, and emotions! Personally, I think so.
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This is everyone's social function, and people have language to communicate and form social relationships.
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Of course, you have to integrate into society, and you can't survive against society.
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I firmly believe that everyone will have a lot of different views on the world, with their own unique perspectives. I can't deny everyone's opinion, right or wrong. But I think the world shouldn't be just about eating, drinking, and lazing.
Sleeping, with the so-called material life is not enough, there should also be a lot of spirit.
level of things to enrich. The current society is pathological. I think.
Some social phenomena are not allowed, and some people deliberately create vulgarity and insult people.
Works of wisdom. But it has been liked and appreciated by many people, and even recognized by the cover.
Seeing people fall into virtual happiness is indescribable to me, and I feel it.
to a trace of helpless sadness. I always feel that the environment can completely change people, just.
Like Darwin's theory of evolutionary states. If there is no one positive.
environment, it is difficult to appear a group of young people with correct three views, so as to society.
will be more morbid. In the end, people mistakenly think that vulgarity is the highest.
Goals to be pursued. I believe that there are many people who have this understanding of me, and who also hate the shallow, ignorant, and self-depraved people. They want.
Make this world a world fit for them to live in. They enact.
But you have to submit to the rules. That is.
It made me feel even more resentful, but there was nothing I could do about it. The truth is.
Yes: the more you hate them, the more you fight them, the more you hurt yourself.
Oneself. It will only make their living space more narrow, and thus go to extinction.
Road. After all, all people don't live for themselves. We also undertake.
Different roles in society take on the responsibility of stressing all walks of life. I'm going to.
Change yourself, I want to love them. If you can't change the rules. That's only.
Make an effort to adapt to the rules. I'm as small as a speck of dust, and I'm going to keep doing it.
Slaves of life. If I don't love them, don't feel for their existence.
If I'm happy, then I should be unhappy too, after all, everyone is very happy when there is a clan.
Selfish. I get even the happiness I used to hate.,I'll be happy about it.。
Not tired. Will you forgive me if I am guilty? I thought about that.
A little poem. The grass under your feet.
Please forgive me.
You've only been trampled on by me for a while.
I've been ravaged all my life.
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