I have no relationship with my wife, but I have two children, what should I do?

My husband and I don't have any feelings, he gets off work every day is a game, noisy for many years and did not go to divorce, and finally when the child was more than five years old, I thought about it was almost thirty, regret that there was no daughter, so I decided to give birth before the age of thirty, and as a result, we went to the Civil Affairs Bureau when I was pregnant with my daughter for more than four months, and it is conceivable that divorce is inseparable, but it is true that they have no feelings for their family, and the daughter is now three years old, and she is still barely making do with her two children. Sometimes it's really not worth thinking about a person's life, and I give up everything for the sake of my children, but I have to think about my children. But think about it the other way, everyone will have different troubles, no matter who you live with, there will always be different problems, I sometimes think that my husband plays games at home every day at least he doesn't go out to find a woman, he doesn't go out to gamble, he doesn't go home, if he does this, then I want to be more devastated, so if you are really reluctant to have children, you should find more advantages in your wife, even if you find a new one, there will be different contradictions, there is a saying that a thousand good is not as good as the first one. ‍‍

If the child is small, try to keep the home intact, don't be too cold to your wife, and do what you should do. When they grow up, they will understand your hardships and will not hate you even if they are divorced. If the child is very big, ask for the child's opinion, ask for the wife's plan, and arrange for the wife and the child to divorce again, since they were together because they loved each other, even if they have no feelings, they don't have to be treated by enemies.

This situation is really helpless and speechless, plus the head is big, the children have two, and now they say that they have no feelings, they are in a dilemma, they are unhappy every day, they are sad and depressed, and they can only say that all this is self-inflicted. But I still can't get a divorce, I can only re-cultivate my relationship with my wife who has no feelings in a dull life and continue to live. ‍‍

I feel that I must think clearly about whether to love myself more or love my children more, after all, children are innocent and children are still young. If I love myself and live and love others more, my idea is divorce. Because I think life is too short, it is not easy for anyone to come to the world, and there is no reason to dedicate my life to others in vain.

Live for yourself. ‍‍

My relationship with my husband has also been in crisis. But for the sake of the children, we overcame it together. The best thing for a child is that dad loves mom.

So, be positive, be proactive. The feelings are gone, find the reason, and think of a way. For the years of love we once loved, for each other's promises, for the first kiss, for the birth of the first child. ‍‍

I think that since there are still contradictions, it means that the two of you still have a relationship foundation, and you should find the reason if you have not reached the last step, after all, you have two children, even if you think about it for the children and your parents, every parent does not want their children to go to the last step, and I believe that the parents of both sides will support you to continue to live. ‍‍

I think stumbling in marriage is inevitable, two people must have seen each other's good before getting married, and we both think of each other too well in love. Because we're all perfecting ourselves. And in marriage, this perfect existence is broken.

So I think we should think about it and work hard to find love for the sake of our children. ‍‍

Legal analysis: I have no relationship with my husband but have custody of two children can be negotiated or lied.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Article 1080 The relationship between parents and children shall not be extinguished by the divorce of parents. After the divorce, whether the children are directly raised by the father or the mother, they are still the children of both parents.

After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children.

In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers. For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.

People like you....It's so irresponsible. To start a family, you have to take responsibility, why get married and have children if you have no feelings?

Be responsible for her If divorced Have you ever wondered what will happen to her in the future?

Divorce by agreement, both parties find one, and the child will not have two parents, that is, two more people love them, so if two people have no feelings, it is better to leave.

Since you are married, you have to live it, don't be impulsive. Feelings can also develop now, I hope you are happy.

If you don't love him! Why did you marry him in the first place? You'd better treat him well! Here today, gone tomorrow! Who knows if tomorrow will be good or bad.

Think about the children, think about the time you were.

I just want to be too irresponsible and selfish to my children.

Irresponsible. Think more about your family's feelings.

Left, who cares about the children?

Someone to help you take care of the kids. Not good?

What kind of affection do you want?

It's irresponsible behavior why don't you want to be clear in getting married.

Think about what happened when you were in love, and think about why you married her at that time.