My boyfriend and I have seen the future of the post, thank you. Give me some advice

If it's yours, you can't run away, and if it's not yours, you can't keep it, that's how life is.

I've had promises without thinking, but in the end I found that I didn't keep my promises because the plan couldn't keep up with the change, and it was unpredictable.

Suffice it to say that even in firm feelings can not withstand the ravages of time!

I think, number one, you're really a little young, and there are so many things that you haven't experienced.

Besides, you can't keep him by your side for a lifetime, thinking like this is actually a kind of distrust, not believing that you can be with him for a long time.

Take it easy, imaginary things are unnecessary until anything happens.

Let him go, you also have your future, if you love each other deeply and believe in each other, don't worry too much.

Make sure he's your future first!

You can wait for him where you are, just for 2 years. Everyone has their own way to go, the world will not have the same 2 leaves, you don't have a difference, he studied in a different place for the sake of the future, you should believe him and support him!! If you want him, you can chat with him during the winter and summer vacations, "nothing can be done", and you have to have confidence in yourself. . . .

I wish you all happiness and happiness

A man's career and a woman's support - this is a manifestation of a woman's wisdom

Besides, you are still young, and you have time, so you don't have to worry about not finding a boyfriend, and you are not afraid that he will waste your youth. Be smart and text him often to support him and you have to work this side, be a self-reliant, attractive person to keep a man's heart.

It is obviously inappropriate to take the postgraduate examination for re-employment now, because there is not much practical things to learn. Unless you're very explicit.

But then again, what's the point of getting a degree if you're very clear?

Age is actually only one aspect, I think it is very necessary to consider your family's relationship (network), if the relationship is in place, of course, you can go to graduate school.

Otherwise, you should find another way, and the employment situation faced by graduate students in the future is also very severe, so you should consider comprehensively, since you can ask such a question, it means that you love him very much, and you should be able to build a happy family.

Then I don't think it makes much sense for him to go to graduate school.

It's just to realize a dream back then, it's not worth it to spend so much time and experience, since he is working in the graduate school, it is likely that there are too many graduate students around him, if it is not very hard, it is recommended that he weigh it comprehensively to see if there are other hobbies and pursuits. Nowadays, learning things on the Internet is very practical.

That is to say, what you have to do is to analyze your own conditions first, persuade him to do something else, if he does not succeed, give him the greatest help and support. And in the end, in the end, today is Valentine's Day, he can have a lover like you is happy enough.

I sincerely wish that there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married! Good luck to you!

No matter how old he is, he should have the right to pursue his dreams, and he should also have the obligation to realize his dreams, and if he wants to be a teacher, I think you should support him.

Life is like a dream, and the years are ruthless. Looking back suddenly, I realized that life is a kind of mood, whether it is poor, rich, gained, or lost. Everything is fleeting, as long as you are in a good mood, everything is fine.

If he wants to do something, you can't stop him, you can only analyze the problem to him, give him your opinion, and let him take the final idea himself, once he makes a decision, you are wholeheartedly supporting him. That's how I am.

Make a rational analysis in advance, you accompany him to analyze, write down the advantages and disadvantages on a piece of paper, and finally choose a path worth taking, support him, 34 is very young, you should go on a journey, the old man is 60 years old and still learning foreign languages, age is not a problem, the question is whether you have the confidence to struggle, since he has, then, you go to support him, I wish you success.

At the age of 40, I think it would be more appropriate to be a professor. In addition, the time you have to talk about love is really a little small, little brother, I admire...

I think it's good for the two of you to save money and start a business together!

Because two people who love each other, how good it would be to get married and do business together, and having children is like a family, business, life, family, two people living together, living together, how happy that kind of life is

As long as he is determined to do a good job, let him do it, there is nothing difficult in the world, but I am afraid that people who have a heart Everyone just has to live to learn and learn all the time, and it is not very good to take the postgraduate examination while working.

You ask him to make an analysis of the three paths by himself, which one has the greatest success, support him, and with your support, it will be successful.

?Answer: Stay in the original unit and do it well, the leader is not afraid to pay you a salary, but I am afraid that you will not have the ability.

Don't go to graduate school, or you'll definitely regret it! He was a research institute that responded to what the state advocated, which sounded good but now regrets it, if he goes to graduate school, it will be tantamount to being deceived by the national policy again. There are some possibilities for success as a teacher.

I recommend you a book called "Immortals Guide the Way", written by Chen Xiaoping of New Oriental.

This is not to say that academic qualifications are necessarily useful in society.

I think he should still work in the research institute in a down-to-earth manner, and it would be good if he had time to take the graduate exam after work, but work came first.

It's not easy to find a stable job these days, so don't give up easily.

His choice should be respected.

You should also trust his abilities.

Life is not wonderful without training.

What are you afraid of if you fail?

Don't go to graduate school, otherwise you'll be as miserable as me.

Feel like you want something. Be bold and do it.

Don't worry, let him do it boldly, a man's path depends on his own choice.

Fainted 40 and got older?

And what about 80? People who are 80 years old are still admitted to university.

There's no shortage of money, right? There is no shortage of money, and the rest is not to live happily.

Teacher? I just got out of the teaching profession!! You can do it, maybe he can only be a teacher.

Being old isn't a problem. It's less than 40.

Comparatively speaking, the risk of going to graduate school is greater.

1. It takes at least three or four months to prepare, and it takes a lot of energy, and you must devote yourself to it2. Even if you are admitted, you will have to face the problem of re-employment after graduation, which is more troublesome, so unless you have a greater certainty (including confidence in whether you can be admitted and future employment problems), or have enough "backstage" (referring to financial support), I don't think you should return to school easily.

Of course, there is an option for part-time graduate students.

In addition, the teacher qualification certificate is a little safer, easy to test, and the treatment of becoming a teacher after the examination is also very good.

Don't marry casually because you're older,,, 29 is a little older, but it's not very big, my cousin is 31 and hasn't married yet.

A woman must find someone who loves her to marry, and she must also be self-motivated.

You can expand your social circle and make more friends.

What else is there to think about, our conditions are not bad, why do we have to find one, the conditions are not good, there are debts and I don't care about you, don't find your own hardship. No one can introduce it, and the marriage can't be improvised.

Get out of him. He didn't want to be motivated at all, and then he saw that you were in good condition and wanted to take care of him, and now it's like this, even more after he gets married.

You have to think about your own happiness, this man can't do it.

Still don't. Be friends at most. That's all he cares about you. Just a personal opinion.

Don't marry someone just because you're older.

I don't know if your boyfriend loves you or not.

But I know that you must find someone who loves you.

Tell you a very naïve number Chinese woman: male = 100:130 such a male has as long as you want.

A letter in both of your names, an extra candle encloses a heart.

Peach Heart·· I also have to make my own cakes and chocolates.

One heart is good, you stand in the middle!

Needless to say! Big peach heart, of course! Or one arrow through two big hearts....Flickering.

Hehe: Of course it's good to have a craft. It can solve your food and clothing problems. Let you have three meals without worry.

But if you want to make a fortune from it, you can't eat, you don't drink, you don't socialize with friends, you can't buy a house, you have a wife, you get sick. I'll do the math for you.

How much money do you have to eat in this life You are 17 years old now, and 600 yuan a month is not much. Let's say you live at 90 years old! Maybe it's longer, but I'll just assume it.

I'm not very good at math. Let's just say you're 20 years old

From 20 to 90 years old, there are 70 years, don't tremble, there are indeed 70 years. Eating 600 times 70 in a month equals "10,000".

If you don't buy a house, it's OK in general! "700,000"! I bought it and renovated it.

Don't be too good, let's have a general "100,000".

If you want to buy a car, don't be too good "10 tens of thousands", what gasoline, car maintenance, road maintenance fees, "500,000" 70 years.

There is also the need to get a wife, how to say that marriage also costs "100,000"! Let's talk less about 50,000.

And don't you consume it in your life? 70 years, buy some clothes or something a year, 4000 yuan to save.

Point 70 times 4000 ===280,000.

Our child, from birth to 20 years old, has to use your "300,000" appearance.

Of course, our Chinese virtues are filial piety to your parents, and it's not too much to give your parents 500 yuan a month.

Of course, your father-in-law, haha, can't be less! Also 500 fair fair.

It's a month and 1000 spent at least 40 years.

40,000". I don't believe that you are copper-skinned and iron-clad and will never get sick for the rest of your life.

See how much money you're sharing.

10,000 + 700,000 + 100,000 + 100,000 + 500,000 + 50,000 + 280,000 + 300,000 + 40,000 = = more than 2 million brothers.

Look at you're a millionaire too. By your salary I want a little .

If you want to go over, you can meet if you can meet in a long-distance relationship, so that you can maintain that relationship, but I think you still have to talk to him in the past, because in military schools, unlike other universities, it is still more troublesome to apply for a military camp. It would be very troublesome if he couldn't clear the fake for a while.

Go as you want, there is nothing to worry about when you are young.

Go for it. If you think about it, you should see it.

You should go, if you don't go for a long time, you probably will be robbed of your family.

If you want to go, there's nothing wrong with love, if you can be sensible, it's not love.

Hide the gift you want to give him, and then prepare a few small slips of paper with a hint for finding the gift (design it so that he can find it step by step, and the hint can write some consensus between you).Hide each note in various places in the house. If you know how to fold paper cranes, you can paste a small note of note into a thousand paper cranes, and let the paper cranes take him on this treasure hunt!

What's so rare about this, if you know him and you must know what he wants, just give it to him, o( o haha or organize a classmate to get him a patty, I think it's best for the two of you.

Give you to him.

If it is given. Send a cake with his name on it.

You love him forever or something.

He must like the things he sends with his heart.

It shouldn't be, not to mention that you don't have the feeling of loving him anymore, a marriage without love can't last too long, he doesn't care about you in his heart and won't treat you like this, and, don't believe in the Internet, the promise made is a debt, he doesn't even dare to owe such a debt, what kind of feelings? This answer is for informational purposes only. You can also further try to see if his feelings are genuine.

Leave him feel like he's really not a good guy. Don't think it's too late, it's better to leave now than to leave when you have everything to lose. It's a lesson to be learned

You must forget about him, and it is also for your own good

Addendum: Don't have the idea that you can't cheap him, I believe that such people will not have anything to hold. Isn't it degrading your own character to do something you shouldn't do in order to take revenge on him or because you are unwilling?

Even if you get revenge, what are you happy about?

Leaving him was the right thing to do, and you should be glad you saw him now. What if he doesn't care if you leave? Don't care how much you've paid or how unfair it is.

You have to think that you are moving forward when you leave him now. And he will still not make progress in the future, and he can still only play his decadence on the side Thinking about it like this, it will be more comfortable psychologically

You take leaving him as a motivation to change yourself for the better, and he doesn't regret it now, and he will someday.

You've said what to do, and then it's time to take action, we all support you, do it!

I have never believed in the Internet, and this is your biggest fateful point, so in the future, you should have a selective relationship, and it is best not to make friends on the Internet, because unrealistic things are generally easy to be deceived, so leave him quickly.