Why can t I find anyone to hurt? It s really hard to find a boyfriend

Updated on psychology 2024-05-22
51 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Love may not develop as we envision, don't envy the love of the people next to you, maybe you just see the surface, and the potential things may not be seen by us. As long as you keep a happy mood every day and be your true self, the one you are destined to be waiting for you in the near future!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Ask yourself if you are too demanding or too narrow, there are so many boys now.

    I'm sorry, I just understood, you came up to find a boyfriend, I didn't say it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's even harder for us men, and I haven't had a girlfriend by the time I'm 19.

    I'm from Guangxi! Now abroad.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Men chase women a wall, women chase men a layer of paper! What's more, the personal space of the lz is so beautiful!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Fate has not arrived, everything will be there when fate arrives, I believe that happiness is waiting for you ahead.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's good to see that you're **, where are you, I'll take care of you, hehe.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    How so? Now we all know that there are more men and fewer women, as long as you want to find, there must be three. You can be introduced by a friend.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's not hard to find a boyfriend.

    It's hard to find a good boyfriend.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Haha, the little sister looks good, but she's a little fatter.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Wuhan's mm is so good that it will deceive.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't be so pessimistic, okay, life, love, fate, sometimes you want it very much, and no, this is normal, it may be that your love opportunity has not yet arrived, how old are you, leave me a message, don't worry, what kind of person do you want to find, I will help you find it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's not that boyfriends are hard to find, but that there are too few good men, and some girls have very high visions to show boyfriends.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't worry, look for it slowly, you haven't met the right person yet, and fate will come naturally

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Emotional things can be met but not sought, when you encounter a waterway, you want to find a broken iron shoe, and you can train yourself to become an excellent person.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    How to say it, it may be because of your needs or requirements in all aspects are very high, or you feel that you have not come out of the new world, or that the circle of friends around you is very narrow, I think you are the most difficult to get through the veil, it is a very easy thing, as long as you go out of society, I think I want to meet a person I really like, and then I am very interesting to that person, I think it is still very easy, everyone has a view of love, so to know the person in your life, good, Angry, and then the most important thing is to improve your own conditions and your own ability, and then in the future life encountered, or the wrong person among your friends will have a greater chance, and then you have to broaden your horizons, be cheerful, and go out, you can encounter more beautiful things.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's easy to find in the dictionary, but there is absolutely no one in the world! Because you can't tolerate any man with high vision.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You ask to lower your head, there are too many single men.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    1. Don't like makeup.

    At this time, you will think that it is all the effect of cosmetics, I look much better than her without makeup, if I wear makeup, I will make up, and I will definitely look 10,000 times better than her. But you don't act, you have the heart to become beautiful, but you don't have the action to become beautiful.

    You can't just scribble and paint to yourself every day, have time to read books, listen to **, strive to improve your connotation, and be a girl who cultivates both inside and outside, and I'm afraid that no one will love you.

    2. Compare homely.

    Are you an otaku?,Anyway, I am.。 Some people are not social and shy because of their personality, so they choose to stay at home most of the time, do what they like, read books, listen to songs, and tease pets.

    Some people always feel that they are a supporting role because of their own inferiority complex, and they will be afraid and insecure when they go out, so they would rather choose to be at home, at least they will not be disturbed.

    Because of the house, so the scope of communication is limited, just like those girls who are more homely, and are very busy with work, also said, every day is to go home from work, two o'clock and one line, where is the object. If you think about it carefully, it's also true, boyfriend and girlfriend can't appear out of thin air.

    3. Negative face of love, resulting in a vicious circle.

    Why can't we have a boyfriend? Of course, it's because you don't actively want to pay it! Sounds a bit like crap, right? That's not right!

    This is what is called "wish-fulfillment" in psychology: your mindset determines your behavior, your behavior affects the behavior of you and the people around you, and then the behavior of you and the people around you together determine the outcome of things.

    Therefore, women who have a negative attitude towards love will never be able to have a boyfriend. Because the men on the other side will also feel this negative aura, the less likely they will come to show us goodwill.

    Even if you occasionally meet a man with a strong personality who likes to take the initiative, it is still possible to enter into a relationship. But life has never been an idol drama, and romance episodes like "the domineering president falls in love with me" are still extremely rare, if you are not cute, how can anyone love you?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The reason why it is difficult to find is nothing more than two points:

    1. Your own conditions are poor, including physical appearance, education, family background and many other things, you may not be in place, and the most important thing is the first two.

    2. You are too demanding of the man, such as a house, a car, and a height. Education, etc., the man you require will not be exhaustive. So what you have to do is to improve your own conditions, and the second is to lower your requirements for the other party.

    When looking at each other's various conditions, it must be good if you are not a sunny handsome guy, in fact, if you can find a boy who loves you and loves you, you are the happiest woman in the world.

    In fact, it's not that it's hard to find, but it's that I'm not good at the social circle among boys. If you're good at it, it's a personal matter. For example, if someone wants to chase you, if you don't even dump him for a basic chat, then he will not have the possibility of further development.

    When looking for a boyfriend, your mindset is important. After all, it's not a fairy tale, and it's normal that you can't touch such an ideal object as arranged in the movie.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because the vision of girls is getting higher and higher, and the requirements are getting more and more, it is not just a casual parent's order to marry themselves casually.

    Because the current economic level is constantly improving, the level of education is also constantly improving. Girls are naturally not married in their teens like in the old society, and now a daughter in the family is spoiled as a baby. That's right, so the selection requirements for girls have become high, and if they are excellent, they will naturally find someone who is better than themselves.

    Nowadays, basically looking for a partner requires the man's family to be better, and owning a house and a car is the most basic. It's not like a thing that can be solved with just a few bags of rice and a few quilts before.

    But no matter whether you can find a boyfriend or not, don't just find one, you have to believe that everything that should come will come, and one day it will come.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because it is better to lack than to abuse, it is easy to find a boyfriend, but it is really difficult to find a boyfriend who suits you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Because you want to find a boyfriend with good character and good looks and handsome, there are too few such people.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It may be because I am not good on the outside and inside, and it may also be because my standards are too high.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The vision is too high, and then there are no boys around who meet the standards.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Maybe because your vision is too high, you can't be high, and you can't be low.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Because you are too passive, you keep a low profile until no one of the opposite sex notices you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There is no capital for love at first sight, and there is a lack of conditions for long-term love.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you don't find one that suits you, you may find one after a while.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It may be that your standards are too high, and it is recommended to lower your mate selection standards appropriately.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Hello this single lady. Do the following three points to find a boyfriend easily.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you can't find it, manage yourself well, enrich yourself, make yourself stronger, more confident and beautiful, when you are excellent, there will naturally be equally excellent people attracted to you, don't find someone to solve your loneliness for a while.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Go to crowded places and you might run into your Prince Charming. Find more friends to introduce, blind dates are also a good way. Or go to a matchmaking agency and spend money to find a boyfriend.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Then keep looking. If your requirements are too high, and your own conditions are not so high, I advise you to be realistic. Everyone has the right to pursue happiness and beauty, and I wish you a speedy fulfillment of your wishes.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    They all said that there was no request. In fact, it is more demanding and more demanding. Comfort yourself: fate has not arrived.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    There is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, but there is no chance to meet on the other side. Fate has not yet arrived.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I'm single, too, just a little poorer, but I know everything.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Go with the flow, it's good that fate arrives.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    When he finds a new girlfriend, you're looking for a boyfriend.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    If a person wants to get love, he should first give love, you have paid all of this, and you have given so much, so much that it is touching, and he is not painful, he will not cherish you, why do you waste your mind on him?

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It's not hard to find a boyfriend, but it's hard to find a man you love and really love you! I think maybe time will give us the answer, after all, it's not easy to have a happy marriage!

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Why don't we date first, I don't have a girlfriend, think about it.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I also think it's a bit of luck.

    Your luck may not be good, but a lot of laughter may change it.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    No, I believe that someone will like you.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Why is it so hard to find a boyfriend? I finally got it today.

    In ancient times, many people didn't know each other when they got married, but their parents discussed it with the matchmaker and thought it was okay to get married, but in modern times, our country began to advocate the freedom of marriage. Men and women can marry independently after they are interested, but this also leads to some people not being able to find a boyfriend and become leftover women. Some leftover women are willing to find a boyfriend, but there are some leftover women who want to find a boyfriend, but there is no way to find a boyfriend, so some people have questions, why is it so difficult for many older leftover women to find a boyfriend now, let me explain it to you.

    First, it is mainly due to the fact that some girls are not very accurate about their psychological positioning. Before a girl looks for a boyfriend, she must first evaluate herself, and then look for it. But some girls are not accurate in their evaluation of themselves, and their evaluation of themselves is too high, because they have a particularly high evaluation of themselves, so their requirements for finding a boyfriend are particularly high, but there are few men around them who meet this condition, and if they can't find a man with this condition, these girls are simply single.

    Therefore, if some girls want to find a boyfriend, they must first accurately examine their own conditions, and then determine what the conditions for finding a boyfriend are.

    Second, some women are single, mainly because of their personalities. We all know that people who are extroverted and like to go out a lot are likely to meet all kinds of people, so they are naturally more likely to get out of the list. Some people like to stay at home, don't like to go out, and have a more introverted personality, but I didn't expect that girls often don't go out, and there is no way to get acquainted with some men, so naturally, there is no way to have feelings with them in the process of communication.

    Therefore, if these girls want to solve the problem of singleness, they need to go out of the house often, participate in more activities, and communicate more with boys.

    Third, some women are single mainly because they really don't want to find a boyfriend, but their family members feel that a woman can't do without a boyfriend, and often urge them to find a boyfriend, they make their relatives and friends sad, but there is no way to go against their own wishes, so they deliberately prevaricate. In the eyes of some relatives and friends, it seems that it is very difficult for her to get a boyfriend, but in fact, it is because they really don't want to find a boyfriend.

    In general, many older girls now have some difficulties in finding boyfriends, first, because they are a little inaccurate about their positioning and too high requirements for their boyfriends, so they can't find a boyfriend. The second is because some girls are very introverted and don't like to go out, and they don't have the opportunity to meet very good boys, so they are single. Third.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    She is saying that it is really difficult to find a suitable boyfriend you like, and it is not easy to meet someone you like, but if you can't meet it, you must not make do.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    I am especially looking forward to having a boyfriend, time flies very slowly and tormentingly, but this kind of thing needs fate. When the person who has been with him for life comes, nothing can stop him.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    There is no capital for love at first sight, and there is a lack of conditions for long-term love.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    It may be that love has not yet arrived, and you can definitely find a girlfriend with such good conditions as a house, a car and a villa.

    As long as these conditions are not dreaming.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Don't be too demanding, be good to you, love you wholeheartedly is the happiness you want!!

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    The content and title don't match!

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    He really doesn't love you as much as he imagined, what your mother said is also very right, if you really love each other, even if you die, you can't be separated, just like Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, unswerving love to death, but such people rarely exist, I wish you can find someone who will not give up on you until death, I understand your current mood, you are not too demanding, which girl doesn't want a boy who can love herself to death, hehe, look for it slowly, maybe the next stop happiness is next to you.

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