How to deal with the kind of friends who sometimes take advantage of themselves but can t get rid of

I've always been this kind of person myself, but I said, you say this now because maybe she has done something to make you angry recently, but I know that in fact, you must have been really happy when you are with him again, otherwise no matter how weak you are, someone who will never refuse others will not refuse for someone who you don't care about at all. So first, it's hard to help you solve your true and complete thoughts, because I think this won't happen if you don't rely on him yourself, so if you want to solve it, don't think it's important. If you can do the same with her or without her, in the future, he will use you or ask you to do something, and if you don't want to do it, you can just say it.

It doesn't matter if she's happy or not, you're okay anyway.

The relationship between people is originally to use and be used, you can also use him, if this person is really like that, you can ignore him, I believe that there should be few people like him who are willing to be friends with him, isn't it, in addition to being good-looking, there are boys who want to play with him, and besides, they are not particularly familiar friends, there is no need to do things for him, not to mention that he himself has done it, you just treat him a little bit coldly, and then start to be estranged. I'll just nag and nag first, haha, I hope it helps you.

lz...It's better to slowly indifferent her. Knowing to be like a stranger. She won't let you do anything.

Learning to say no is also a step to growing up.

Learning to say no is also an art, but it must be learned in the real world. You can tell A that you lent B, and that C lent F. Say no to things you don't like to do, don't feel uninteresting.

It's best not to have too much or too much money with friends. That would end up hurting feelings.

If you say you don't have money, you don't want to say no.

Can anyone rummage through your pockets?

Knowing that you have money, you say that you are currently saving money, and you want to buy a gift for your parents.

Speaking of time farther away, the amount of money is staggering.

Others just know that you have money now, and they also understand the difficulty that you can't borrow, hehe, after all, it's still far from your goal.

So, I still don't have any money

Realistic society.

It is true that it takes skill to reject others.

It must be that you are also rich.

In case you have extra money.

Why not lend money to a friend?

I just said that I was nervous too.

If embarrassed.

Let's just lend it to someone else.

In other words, the money was sent home with the money at home.

You usually pretend to be shabby, and you ask them if you can borrow some money, saying that you are short of money.

It's a healthy mindset to say no to what your friends don't want to do, so try hard.

My dad is using it, my relatives are using it, my sister is using it, my brother is using it... Wait a minute.

In this world, no matter how the dynasty changes, what kind of historical changes, only the love between people is eternal, I think only this is worth cherishing, just a camera is nothing, the landlord don't care too much about these things outside the body!

If you don't want to borrow, there must be a dilemma for you.

The general practice is to say that it has been loaned out.

But the excuse seems obvious.

It's broken, it's broken, it's out of power, it's borrowed, and it's not at hand for a few days.

NB said a little "two days later, last time I borrowed a buddy, the LCD screen was not lit when I got it back, the repair station was very dark, I want 400, it has been repaired, and I will go to the maintenance station tomorrow to pick up the machine".

Make it up. Cameras, precision instruments, and lenses can't be touched, and they are mainly used outdoors, so if you don't understand the master, you really don't know how to care, and there are many examples of lending machines to recover scrap iron.

Let's still look at the relationship, if the relationship is iron enough, borrow it, if it's general. After all, an iron buddy is more important than a machine of thousands of dollars, if it is an ordinary friend, and he doesn't know much about photography, he will borrow the camera when he opens his mouth, and if you show an embarrassed expression, he will continue to borrow, then this kind of friend is too ignorant, don't do it.

I'm too busy at work, I have a bad stomach, and my wife and dad are strict.

If they really are your friends, they won't bite the bullet and let you go.

Let's just say that I can't leave if I have something....After a long time, I won't go to you, saying that there is no money, how can I have no money every day?

You can tell the teacher that you really wanted to help the teacher, but there are some things on the school side (such as the club you belong to, or a friend wants to come to you, you have to accompany the hospital, because it is the iron buddy who has come to see you, or other possible reasons for you not to leave for the time being) and then say that when you are done, you will go over to help, and wait for him to bring your other classmates over for a long time (note that during his time there, you also have to text from time to time to ask about the situation there, so that the teacher thinks you are very concerned). , I won't think that you don't want to go), you change to another reason that can be excused, such as what training class you attended, and then say to the teacher, I'm really embarrassed, I couldn't help the teacher... And so on and so forth. Because after all, you have to consider whether your graduation is closely related to him, so if you can't go, you still have to go, under the roof of people, how dare you not bow your head.

You have to measure everything from the perspective of graduating from graduate school.

If your mentor is capable enough in your workplace to support your momentum, I suggest you:

Listen to his arrangement, even if you endure it, you have to endure it;

If your mentor is not enough to decide your future in your unit, just find a reason and believe that you can easily do it.

The most important thing is that you have to analyze the status of your mentor first, and for newcomers, it is very important to analyze and judge, sometimes even more important than your professional skills.

Finally, I wish you a mature and mellow life, smooth work, and good health!

Your self-esteem thinks it's good"Excuses"He'll see through it.

He's not a fool.

It's okay to scold and talk here, vent.

But in fact, it is better not to shirk, as long as you shirk, whether it is direct or indirect, those adverse consequences will appear.

This is the reality, the society is like this, and one person cannot change it.

Unless you come to something sink, but it's not worth it! You still have a long way to go!

First of all, the second floor is too talented.,It seems that the time to mix the society is not short....As for always, the brothers first express their sympathy, everyone has weaknesses, you can first find their weaknesses to their liking, it is really not possible to apply both soft and hard, it is more appropriate to use the tactics of grinding time, you can drag it out, of course, you have to analyze the specific situation....If you can, invite him to a meal, k songs, etc., and there are still men who are sad about the beauty...As soon as he is happy, you will be able to say your original reasons. It's best to find a teacher who is better than you, and let him come forward and say that it's okay to stay in school and help you out, etc., if it doesn't work, pay some money to go to the hospital to get a depression certificate, or have a fever and cold, etc....If you can drag it out....

First of all, I would like to express my sympathy to you and hope that you will "be happy with your condolences".

Let's start the question:

Listening to you talk about your "teacher", I think this person must be a very greedy person for money, and he is very domineering, but to speak, this kind of person must love others and flatter. If you really don't want to go, it's best to give a gift, and give him whatever he likes, just say that he can't adapt to the climate there, and his physique is not good since he was a child.

And you better ask your seniors more, I don't think everyone has gone. Anyway, ask more and brainstorm.

Bribes, it's that simple.

Don't worry about that little money, it's the most shameful thing to waste your time compared to it.

Anyway, it's nothing to pull there, and it's not much use for you to go to him, it's just to save face, that kind of person believes that the immunity to money will not be very high.

Or if you are energetic enough, since you are fine, bring some materials and learn something, and don't waste your youth is the most important thing.

I love my alma mater so much that I can't afford to leave her).

The above one is just a joke!

As a graduate student, I think you should know what you're supposed to do.

You apply to him for a certain task that you want to do (something that you can't do in his lab, but it's related to your studies, and it's important), don't say anything at first, he will definitely agree to you, and then there, you tell him that the conditions are not good and you can't do it, to put it mildly, isn't there a reason! By the way, that task had better be completed and have a positive effect on his reputation.

The rest is up to you! Good luck!

You see if this will work: buy some generous gifts to the director's house (must get), pour the following bitter water, what old mother-in-law urges to get married, want to have children soon, in addition, the father-in-law and mother-in-law are not in good health and need to be taken care of, etc. (no one will verify it), but also to say, the director, you have always been very good to me, I am very grateful in my heart, etc., to tell you, you don't have to talk too much, you have already spoken for you with the generous gifts.

Wishing you success!!

In fact, the real wisdom is in you, you say that you are a graduate student, and I dare not compare with you when you say that you can only learn knowledge, you will use the overall and long-term vision to weigh the pros and cons, whether to go or stay depends on your decision! If you hesitate like this, you can only suffer yourself or your classmates, remember one sentence: you lose more by not making a decision than by making a wrong decision!

You're already an adult and have the power to do what you like, within the law, of course, hehe! ``

If you have a clear attitude and don't go, do you lose a lot? The last move, talk to your family, and then you will say that you have something at home, and as for what is going on, it depends on how far you have to hide, do you know what I mean? The key is not to goof!!

You can say: Teacher, I'm sorry, because my family is in financial difficulties, I have to think about my parents, so I have to work in the future. Therefore, there is a time limit, so please forgive me.

To treat this kind of teacher, you have to excuse yourself like this. can not only save the teacher's face, but also escape the teacher.

There are not many words, but whether they are fine or not

Filial piety comes first, a ready-made rhetoric left by the ancestors. Hehe.

Your boss is a complete villain, only villains in the world are difficult to raise, you should be a kind person, you can find a few friends to help him play a play, as long as he can see that you are not easy to mess with. When acting, you have to dress up so that he will recognize you next time he sees you. Then after a few days, you take the initiative to go to him, and you tell him that your friends won't let you go and want you to stay.

Look at his reflection! See if he is a complete villain, villains are bullying the weak and afraid of the hard.

A relative of mine is in such and such a place On his 60th birthday I haven't seen him for a long time He has already told me to go before I promised to go, I'm really embarrassed not to go I don't have to answer like this I will go out if necessary I really go out that day Go to the Internet café or go to the hotel (*hehe......

The garbage you are talking about, just like the former director of our workshop, there are too many garbage people. Bear with me. If you don't suffer, if you have a character, you can tell him directly.

You should watch less negative news.

You can play with him to kill people with a knife and motivate other people with bad tempers to rebel against him.

It's boring, obviously I pay a lot of attention and come out to offer a reward!

Swagger!

Get what you want from him as soon as possible and leave him!

Otherwise, it will be regarded as cultivation, and it will be whatever it wants!

Otherwise, you will do what you like!

Find a teacher you are familiar with to help you, you just tell him, as long as you can deal with it.

said that he was asked to go by a certain teacher and helped. I believe that their teachers will give each other a little face!

For example, "My parents were in the hospital yesterday, and I'm afraid something will happen, so I'm going to go back and see, I'm sorry."

A good man is determined to go his own way, don't care about his words.

Poor, sympathetic one. Our mentor is similar, the world is as black as a crow.

There are a lot of people who answer the question with a reward of 200 points, it seems that I have no share...

Why are you so stupid?

You can say you're sick.

Your amount is too small, so you should pay the tuition fee, and let's talk about it later. The police are busy, you call the police, that is, after recording the confession, you sign it, and then there is no news.

If you are deceived by hundreds of thousands of dollars in Shenzhen, they will all become mountains. You just admit that you are unlucky.

Buy a few books to open yourself up, and it would be sad to not meet a bad friend and sell you again.

Good luck learning more!

First of all, you have to find someone, you can't lend things to others if you don't know where he is, it's useless to call the police, if you can get it, you have to come back, or if you don't come back, you should pay the tuition in the society.

You just say that your mother has something to ask you to give him a **.

Just say that your mother wants to use that phone, otherwise your mother will be angry.