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Early childhood education is crucial, if not strictly stopped, it is easy to cause habitual thinking, leading to later crimes, it is recommended to use appropriate corporal punishment, plus a period of critical education.
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When children are young, driven by a sense of curiosity, or want to fulfill some of their own wishes, so without the knowledge of their parents, they take the family's money, if it is defined as stealing, it is a bit serious, and parents should still treat and deal with this matter rationally.
1: Communicate calmly with your child.
Don't reprimand your child harshly, but sit down calmly to communicate with him, and the attitude of the parents must be calm, so that the child is willing to tell you the truth. If the child's needs are legitimate, parents should tell the child what they need in the future.
2: Parents should also reflect on themselves.
Because sometimes parents are too strict with their children, children do not dare to tell their parents about their legitimate needs, saying that they want to buy an item they like, and sometimes they tell their parents that they may not agree to them. In this case, the child does not want to get what he wants, so he will think of other ways.
3: Meet your child's legitimate needs.
Nowadays, each family has a maximum of two children, and many families have only one child, and parents who can meet some legitimate requirements for their children try to meet them. Finally, tell the child that no matter whether he is at home or at school, he is not allowed to take other people's things at will. This is a very bad behavior habit, if you want to use it, communicate with others first.
Others can only use it if they allow it. After use, it should be returned in time.
For seven-year-old children who are still young, as long as parents can often communicate with their children, tell them what can be done and what cannot be done by selling sedan chairs, so that they have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong.
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After catching a 7-year-old stealing something, here are some possible ways to cope:
Calm and communicative: As an adult, the first thing to do is to stay calm and communicate with your child. Use a calm tone and attitude to ask your child about the reasons for stealing, motivations, and consequences of their actions to better understand the problem behind it.
Explain the wrong nature of stealing: You can explain the moral and legal error of stealing to your child, emphasize that stealing is wrong behavior that may cause harm to others and himself, and guide your child to establish correct values and codes of conduct.
Accountability and consequences: Children can be held accountable for their actions and highlight the consequences of stealing, such as the possibility of losing trust, being punished, facing legal responsibility, etc. At the same time, appropriate disciplinary measures, such as restricting certain privileges or activities of the child, can be taken to emphasize the seriousness of the behavior.
Education and guidance: Children can be educated and guided in the right way to behave and solve problems, such as how to get the items they want through appropriate channels, how to share and cooperate with others, and how to recognize and control their own desires and impulses.
Stipulate clear house rules and values: You can set clear house rules and values in the family, clarify attitudes towards bad behaviors such as stealing, and have in-depth discussions and education with children to help them establish correct behavior concepts and codes of conduct.
Focus on possible underlying problems: Stealing can be a sign of other problems in your child, such as emotional problems, social problems, lack of self-control, etc. Therefore, one should pay attention to possible potential problems and seek professional help and support so that they can be addressed and dealt with in a timely manner.
The most important thing is to be calm and patient when dealing with children's theft, avoid excessive punishment or blame, and instead adopt an educational and guiding approach to help children recognize their mistakes, correct their behavior, and guide them to develop correct behavior habits and values. If you are confused or unable to handle your child's theft properly, it is advisable to consult a professional psychologist or child psychologist for professional advice and support.
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Simple and rude will harm the child, the current is a critical period for children to develop habits, "the son does not teach, the father is wrong", reasoning - set rules - perseverance to supervise.
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When the child needs it, he will take it. Understand where your child's money goes, is it eating? Is it playing?
Now children need pocket money. Discuss with him how much to give every week or month. If you spend too much, solve it yourself.
Can be obtained in the form of rewards. For example, doing housework, being praised at school, doing well in exams, etc.
Of course, it's not right to take money behind an adult's back, and a seven-year-old child, I'm afraid it won't work. Penalty stand up. You also have to keep your family's money in check.
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Serious criticism and, if necessary, appropriate corporal punishment are also necessary!
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Wow. It's terrible.,Dare to be so young.,I can't rob a bank when I grow up.。。
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First of all, don't make a fuss, it's normal for anything to happen to your child, parents always have to believe that their child can get better and will get better, which is the main motivation for the child to really grow up. Secondly, you have to analyze the child's growth process, everything has cause and effect, where did the child learn this behavior, or he took money purely for fun, just to play tricks on his parents. Again, communicate patiently with the child and listen to what the child has to say, a serious education is necessary, but only if you tell the child that you love him, believe that he is good, and let him open up and communicate with you.
It is not easy to be a parent, but a large part of a child's life is made by parents, and even if education is not easy, parents must bear this burden.
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