My child is now 9 years old and feels very disinclined to study, what is going on?

It seems that few children are willing to like to learn, it is a normal phenomenon, if you want him to love learning, the top priority is to cultivate his interest in learning, if you blindly boring and forced, it will be counterproductive, see if other parents or teachers have any good methods, you can learn from the experience.

Based on the situation you described, you said that your child is now. I'm nine years old, and I don't like to study very much. There are children who don't like to study, and there are also children who are not just your children.

Children are playful, especially with children, that's it, no way. My brother's family also has a boy, too. Both are 12 years old.

I don't like to study. Everyone thinks differently from each person, it is possible that he finds it difficult to learn, and the more difficult he feels, the more he does not want to learn, the less he does not want to learn, and the more she will not. The author will not like to study even more.

9-year-old children don't like to learn, it is likely that they are not psychologically correct, Beijing Runjie Education's psychological counseling is very good, you can try it.

The key for children is to develop a good study habit, especially in the first and second grades, mainly to cultivate habits, such as completing homework immediately after school, after the homework is completed, you can play and rest early. Of course, parents should also lead by example and set an example!

Children's learning habits and interests are cultivated little by little, parents should not only guide and encourage their children to learn, but also set an example for their children!

Because we used to damage his interest in learning.

Did mine solve your problem? Helpful, looking forward to you, and if you have any questions, you can continue to ask.

You need to develop your interest in learning slowly and don't be too anxious.

The child still has a bigger heart to play

It is common for children not to like to study, and parents need to guide them well and be more patient to tell them what they can do without reading.

1. To reduce the pressure of learning, the reason why some children do not like to study is because of the heavy academic work, and due to the greater academic pressure, they will be irritable and bored with school. Parents or teachers should appropriately reduce the amount of homework and give children a chance to relax, so that school boredom will gradually improve.

2. To give psychological support to children, they are often depressed after they are tired of school, and parents should encourage them in time to slowly overcome such school boredom.

3. Need to give children timely extracurricular tutoring, some children are tired of school because of their academic performance is worse than the dismantling of the block, after the academic counseling academic performance has improved, the disgust of congregation will also be improved by Zen Yudan.

Psychological analysis: Hello as a parent, on the one hand, you need to accept the diagnosis that your child is different from other children and has psychological development problems; On the one hand, it is really not easy to run around for children and pay patiently, and in children with autism and ADHD, patience, understanding, and acceptance may be the most effective medicine for improvement. Because children with autism and hyperactivity have difficulty concentrating on the one hand, they are more likely to be frustrated; On the one hand, it will be difficult to understand the relationships and rules of interpersonal interaction, so it is recommended that you read "Positive Discipline for Children with Special Needs" to understand children's difficulties and motivations positively.

The support of parents is the best nutrition for children's growth. For example, if you have a poor learning attitude, you may be withdrawing and afraid of setbacks; For example, if you lose your temper, you may have some wishes that are not fulfilled. On the basis of understanding and acceptance, there are two important ways to communicate with children:

1. Empathy: understand the child's emotions at the time, and help the child express it in words, for example, when the child is angry, you can first empathize with the child's superficial emotions "Mom and Dad know that you are angry" to further understand and express the child's deep emotions: "You seem to be angry with yourself, and the topic can't be done, which makes you very frustrated and lost" Let the child understand his emotions under the guidance of his parents, so that he can replace action with language, and his mind is more mature At the same time, it is also conducive to the development of children" mirror neurons", increase the ability to empathize in interpersonal interactions, learn to experience the emotions of others, so as to make more appropriate responses2, review:

Focus on empathy in the problem event, review and adjust after the problem event when the child has emotions, reasoning may only be counterproductive, and may even be because parents can not convince the child that he will also have emotions and become more intense At the time of the conflict event, you can empathize with the child's emotions, and prevent some destructive behaviors After the fact, the difference between the child and the parent are relatively calm, patiently review the incident just now with the child, the child's emotion, the impact on the event, and guide the child to see the problem himself. In addition, at present, Shanghai, Guangzhou, Beijing and other places have "shadow teacher" services for special children with autism, ADHD, developmental delay, etc., who can accompany them in school to help children better adapt to the school environment.