Are we really suitable? emotional entanglement .

Murphy's Law: If something is likely to go bad, no matter how small that likelihood, it will always happen. From the above, it seems that what is about to happen is about to happen.

If you fail to achieve a positive result in college love, you are just a drop in the ocean, you should be mentally prepared for "don't be reluctant if it's not yours". Good luck!

I don't think you should worry too much about the house, if she really loves you, she won't care about you, "there will be bread" I don't think there is a building, and the person you love is happy, no matter where you live, you have your problems, she must have them, you have to think about what you would do if you were her...She loves you very much, too....Actually, I don't think she loves your money, it's just that it's under pressure from home, if you behave well and impress her, you can impress everyone, come on, thank you.

will make trouble with you, at least prove that your girlfriend cares about you, otherwise she will cut off the relationship with you directly... In fact, she doesn't care so much about your material conditions, she just wants to strengthen a belief - you are worth relying on! You can't afford a car, you can't afford a house, you can't give a future and promises, but you can afford what you have.

There are several kinds of women in this world.

The first kind is born to be delicate and gently spend your pockets.

The second type of white fox gives everything for your man and ends up getting nothing.

The third type is ordinary-looking, this kind of woman doesn't have too many requirements for men, most of them are very hardworking and take care of their families.

You don't have a car or a house, so let's get to the end of it. She can't stand you being poor like this, and women can't afford to wait.

You should have a good chat, determine a common goal, there is a common goal to have a common language, I believe that you must have a common interest when you came together, if the goal she gave you can't do, then let it go, after all, the relationship is maintained by two people, and one person's persistence can only be too tiring.

Let's not talk about the garage issue first, I think your girlfriend's temper is really not very good, anyway, I can't stand it, you two are like this now, it is estimated that you can't go far, why bother, it's not suitable, you will quarrel every day when you fall in love, if you really get married, it is estimated that you will not fight.

She is in a very tangled mood now, it can be said that there are thousands of miles to meet, you have to face the future together, calm down and talk about it, in order to defend love.

The few days your girlfriend went back could be the key to influencing her current change in her perception of you Maybe something her parents said changed her current emotional perception of the two of you! Hopefully, the goal is based on what can be achieved, and the words she asks you a few times reflect that she doesn't really want to leave you yet.

Dude, what a blessing! Ha ha. Chop first, then play.

I think you should let it go. Judging from what you wrote, the girl's personality is too....And I think you can see from this relationship or this society that now the female doo wants to be rich, this is a fact! If you're really tired, you might as well just let it go!

Focus on the cause first! When you have achieved something or your career is basically stable, you can find your other half! I think you'll be happier!

I'm also very angry. I'm about to go abroad. It's a lot more apart than you.

But I love him so much. He loved me too. It's inevitable to get tired of being together for a long time.

But I made him a habit. Men should always be more tolerant of girls. Things can be resolved slowly in the future.

It's useless to think so much now, no.

It is recommended that you give up, the above can be seen that she also cares about material conditions, she does not absolutely trust you, the reason why she messes with you is because you did not give her a sense of security, the so-called sense of security is the superior material foundation, and it can be seen that she is not ready to eat bran with you, her heart is very conflicted and undecided.

The little girl has grown up and understood some things. It's not as simple as before, I have a few suggestions: do you have any plans for graduation and work, do you want to go to a strange city together?

I personally advise you, go to one of the two of your homes. If you don't get together, you're going to break up.

I think this kind of feeling should be let go.,Because,The girl's personality is too much.。。。 On the contrary, it will make you feel tired. However, girls should really like you, and now women are very practical, as long as you have money, you can get married immediately.

But she doesn't, but asks you questions about the future.

Since you feel tired, you should let go, so that both of you can be free, isn't it very good, it's not good to hold it up like this. And what you are looking for is your wife, the person who will accompany you all your life, it is you who will hurt yourself if you continue to do this, I hope you will think about it carefully, don't hurt others and yourself!

If you like it, don't let it go, don't bully the poor boy! You are still young, and there will be opportunities to make money in the future! It's like I have a distant relative who didn't make money until he was forty! He was also very poor for the first half of his life....But his wife still supported him, and in the end he succeeded!

Women like self-motivated men.

There are many people who can't afford to buy a house, and if they have more money, they will have too much money. Happy life Is it interesting to think so much The joy of life is that you never know what tomorrow will be like Life does not bring death does not bring everything is a floating cloud Just work hard.

It's hard to say about feelings, they haven't broken up for too long. She had already left him, so he wanted to forget her, but he loved her so much at the time, so it was hard to forget. I don't think you want your him to be emotionless, and forget about his old love all of a sudden.

He only deleted it in the blog, can the memories be deleted? What if you delete it? What is written in the blog is our real inner thoughts, and the deletion of his QQ is just not to mention it, because QQ is not like a blog, and there are no secrets in QQ.

It's up to you, do you really love him? Will you wait for him? Wait until the time when he doesn't love her anymore?

Whatever the outcome will be? If you really love him, please use your love to touch him and tolerate him. Love is to perfect Him.

I don't know what to say, this kind of problem is so tangled. How long has he been drinking that girl Is he the kind of person who is very attentive, you should ask him well, in fact, who hasn't been there, if you like it, let's be together See if you can tie him up

As for whether the girl will turn back, I don't know why they separated, and I don't know what kind of person the girl is, so it's hard to say.

I used to cry about this kind of thing, I felt bad, but I couldn't help it, I was only sure that he liked me, so I didn't give up, and I just got along with him until now, completely replacing that girl. Hey.

I wish you the same

If a girl turns around, maybe you're really nothing, ask him what he means, tell him you're insecure, tell him you don't want to be a stand-in for somebody else.

Communication, you absolutely need to communicate.

Give him space. Let him understand for himself.

You should talk about this kind of thing.

In the vast sea of people, there are many good girls. Maybe she really attracts you so much, but I personally think that you are too far away from each other, maybe you can be pot friends! But if you don't mind the distance, you can pursue it.

Here I just want to ask, have you seen it? Or is it on QQ? What do you like about her?

Is it appearance or character? Are you sincere?

Long-distance relationships can't last long, and now you like it, it doesn't mean that you like it all the time, it's good to meet the next relationship, the problem is that you're too far away, give up, and it won't hurt you.

In order to eliminate her resistance, for the time being, don't provoke her first. Since you like it, don't give up.,Give it silently.。。。

Then forget it, it's too far. It looks good now, and whether we can be together in the future is another matter.

Ever seen a cat play with mice? Let you come and go between hope and despair, and you will not die until you die.

Let's change it to a tasteful one.,This kind of girl is too powerful.,The quality of the morning and evening is a little poor.,Material desire is greater than feelings.,It's not worth it.。。。

You don't have to be entangled, otherwise you will lower your taste;

She should treat you as a back to (spare tire), this kind of girl still doesn't want to be good, quite scheming,

A person you have loved before, you may still have feelings for her, but you have to clearly realize that the relationship between you is over, and she has a boyfriend more, you can only bless her, not entangle.

You have to clearly realize that don't be immersed in the previous relationship, what you can't let go of is that relationship, not her, right? Think about it.

Are you disheartened? You shouldn't have the feeling of being discouraged, you're all over, you're hopeless, time can't be turned back, some things have become a reality and can't be undone, you have to accept it.

Only if you are willing to give it will you get it. You and she are just a passerby in each other's lives, and only the people who are with you all your life are the ones who really love each other.

You should get out of this relationship and heal slowly. In the future, you will meet the love that truly belongs to you.

What a brute that man! But I advise you to forget about her, because she is no longer worthy of your love. It was she who gave up on you who loved her so much, and chose to treat her new boyfriend like that, this result was all caused by herself, it was she who had no blessings, choosing a good man is the most important thing in a woman's life, one wrong move, all the games are lost.

Besides, even if you go back to her now, you will barely be with her, and this incident will become a pimple between you and a shadow in your heart. Dude, forget about her, long pain is better than short pain, there are many good girls, why should a big husband have no wife.

Some things and some people have passed, after all, they are in the past, and no matter how uncomfortable they are, they can't get anything back, and at this moment, they can only silently bless her.

Hey, what are you struggling with? He has a boyfriend, what are you still struggling with? I can only silently bless her.

Life is like a journey, when you are in a hurry, you have to look forward, instead of staring at the wrong footprints behind you like you do, and the consequence of this is wrestling. You keep thinking about the that is in the past, and forget that you still have a lot of opportunities to get out of the right footsteps.

Seeing you like this, I don't think you're a very bad person, your willpower is not comparable to ordinary people, and if you stick to the right direction, you have a better chance of success than many people. Because people are self-aware, you have done a good job of this. Although, it is not advisable for you to hurt yourself in exchange for the peace of conscience.

According to your logic, if torturing yourself is a good way to be liberated, why are you not willing to torture the pain that you generate? If you're willing, you won't come and ask questions. Remember one thing, punishment only allows you to correct and grow, and if you fail to achieve the goal, punishment itself can only be regarded as a kind of revenge.

You will be good at arbitrarily punishing yourself, you are useless, you have suffered countless hardships in vain, and the problems are not relieved and are worse.

There are some things, although you don't say it, but the average person can guess a few points, but you also have to know that it itself does not say that it will make you miserable, and if it is written, you will not do it at that time. That is, the difference between your state of mind at that time and now is completely due to your personal reasons, you fantasized that it was good for you at that time, and you are now fantasizing that it was very bad for you, and you simply attributed it to the fact that you were ignorant at the time, and you are the same person now as you were then! You don't find the reason for the change in your state of mind, you have a delusion about that event, one mood at the time, and now another mood.

It's the same thing, why do you have two feelings? If that thing is the only way to go, then you only have a feeling of the same feeling that is getting stronger and stronger, why would you have the opposite result? It's time for you to reflect.

The reason is that you think too much about yourself!! At that time, you subjectively decided that doing that thing brought you that kind of mood; Now, you are subjectively judging that it was the incident that brought you your current mood. You are always subjectively deciding that the incident is "innocent"!!

How to correct the mistakes that have been made, and in which direction? It's a place of inner relief, which means that no matter what the outcome of that event is, you have to let go. If you feel that you are really sorry for that incident, you will not make the mistake of stopping yourself next time; Accepting the consequences without resentment or resentment is sincere repentance; The attitude is sincere, and the achievements are used to compensate, which is determined to be good; Facing the future, being safe and open, is living in the present; Helping those who have hurt themselves and those who have hurt themselves is truly responsible, a real man, and a true husband! Hope to adopt.

Sometimes, you have to learn to relax, you can't think too complicated, and you feel tired, and when you're most depressed and you can't make up your mind, you can relax and do something else, and then you can think about it.