Psychology teachers and classmates into 20

Let's start with General Psychology. This is currently the most authoritative basic book of psychology in China. There are many classifications of psychology, and it is recommended that you first complete this book and understand psychology before deciding to develop in a certain direction.

You should read psychology books first, and if you have the conditions, you can also go abroad to study professional psychology, and then you can interact with your family first, and you can get familiar with it.

From the very basics, such as what is psychology, the laws of psychology... It doesn't have to be that book, it's mainly that you're more interested in that book, and it will entice you to read it.

Let's start with the basics! Then there's health psychology, then educational psychology, and finally psychology and life.

Yes, the previous classmate was right. It depends on the basic knowledge of psychology. For example, "General Psychology", you can read "Personality Psychology" later to understand the theories and basic views of the psychological school.

Psychology is not the most basic discipline, but a marginal discipline, and in order to further understand the knowledge of psychology, it is necessary to learn some philosophical knowledge and the most basic ethical knowledge.

If you want to study psychology and want to be systematic, it is recommended to read "History of Western Psychology" for a more comprehensive introduction to the history of psychology and the views of various theoretical schools. "General Psychology" mainly introduces the most basic psychology, but it is a book on the study of normal psychology, and there is no psychoanalytic school of modern psychology in this book. Systematics is incomplete.

If you just want to see books to enrich yourself, it is recommended not to read miscellaneous books such as success psychology and 60 psychological habits, which are very boring and have no practical meaning.

It would be nice to be able to give a specific description of the situation. The following is inferred from personal experience, and the landlord only refers to:

This phenomenon is from the point of view of the family, improper communication, there are too many "taken for granted"; The psychoanalytic point of view manifests itself in the "superego" when it is outside, and at home it shows its self-conscious side. In the same way, a teacher can teach more than 100 students in each class, but he does not teach his own children well.

To give my personal example, being a tutor with students in the third year of junior high school can make almost every student who has been brought to improve, but it does not lead my little sister to improve. In terms of communication mode, I first thought that she was my sister, and I took it for granted that she should be like me no matter how hard I worked, but I didn't know how she felt at that time. She decided that as an older brother, she could naturally play with her as she did when she was a child, and knew what she wanted from Xiangzhima.

Even if you are very close to each other before, before you communicate, you should have this idea about the other party and how to communicate. If this way of communication continues for a while, do the two want to quarrel as soon as they meet?

The landlord can marry his wife, and he must have had a sweet day at the beginning, and no one knows that he will quarrel every day in the future and marry each other. Let's start with acquaintances and first love.

Haha It's itchy! The seven-year itch ......Aesthetic fatigue ......

Let's understand yourself first.