What should I do if my colleague who seems to be good to me keeps bullying me?

Seriously, it's really troublesome to encounter this kind of person, but it still has to be dealt with, and it is said that it is better to offend the gentleman than to offend the villain, this kind of person is a person who stabs a knife in the back, so can you not tear your face or don't tear your face, usually not arrogant or humble, just stay away, once you determine who this kind of person is, in addition to discussing things at work in the future, like normal interactions between ordinary colleagues, the private life topics of colleagues, whether he is present or not, try not to get involved, Once one day you accidentally say something that you shouldn't say, let him hear it, maybe he will add oil and vinegar to poke it out for you, and it will be too late to regret it.

In daily life and work, try to be strict with yourself, do not give others the opportunity to pick on you, learn more and talk less about other people's private affairs, strive to improve their own business level, and do their own work in a down-to-earth manner. When you have been showing others that you are working in a down-to-earth manner, not criticizing others, someone comes to talk to you, and you just laugh at it and don't express any opinions, slowly these people will lose their interest in talking about you, isn't it just what you want.

To deal with that kind of person, one set on the surface and one behind the other, to be a real villain and a false gentleman in front of him, to treat others in his own way, if it is convenient, secretly record the evidence of his bullying you, record or secretly use a mobile phone to video, it is best to use facts to prove his hypocrisy, so that everyone can see his true face in the future.

Resist directly, you must not swallow your anger all the time, otherwise others will think you are a bully.

No matter who it is, no matter how good he is, he will definitely talk about it or be talked about by others, that is to say, others are bad or have been said badly, in other words, who does not say people behind their backs, who is not said behind their backs, as long as we think about this sentence well, figure it out, and understand it, you will have a lot less trouble and pressure.

There is really no need to wronged yourself, life is so short, and you have to fight back against the grievances you shouldn't have.

Hypocritical people are like this, in order to maximize their own interests, they are willing to hide their true thoughts, on the surface they will not show their thoughts and desires, but behind the scenes they are willing to betray everyone for their own interests, and the combination of selfishness and hypocrisy is such a person.

Don't be silent, the more you do this, the more others will bully you, know how to resist.

You can question him, why should he endure being bullied if he resists this kind of behavior.

Such a person is very deep, as people often say, it is better to offend a gentleman than a villain, so when you encounter such a person, you can only hide and go.

If that's the case, I think you should tell him, what is the reason why he keeps bullying you?

I think this is a problem that most people who go to society will encounter, and everyone wants to know how to solve it, I will also talk about my opinion, people are social, it is impossible for people to have no friction between people, meet such a person, you know it yourself, you don't have to have a showdown with him, slowly stay away from him, but you can't break off friendship with him, that's what a careful person will do, if he encounters some small difficulties, he can give appropriate help without harming his own interests, and behave appropriately, The charm of maturity will naturally radiate, and you will find that you don't have to care about what the broken mouths say, and like-minded people will naturally come together with you.

First of all, if you are very witty, you should retaliate with a tooth for a tooth, use your own wit to deal with him, if your IQ is not particularly high, stay away from this kind of colleague, do not associate with him to avoid being bullied.

For this kind of person, it is necessary to give the other party some obstacles at work, so that he can learn to be a man.

Is there a problem with how you usually behave?

If a person doesn't like to talk much and is alone, he will generally not be bullied. Because others don't know your details, they don't dare to bully you.

If you really don't have a problem with being a person, they just bully honest people.

You don't want to be patient, I have two ways to change your current situation.

First: You can transfer to a new school, and remember not to talk too much, do not communicate with others casually, and keep a certain amount of silence.

Second: If you don't want to transfer schools, then you may have to get hurt a little bit. As it was said on the first floor, this situation really has to fight one, or a lot of fights.

If seven or eight of them bully you, and you don't dare to fight with seven or eight of them, then you can pick the weakest one of them and give him a stick on the head if he doesn't pay attention. There must be bloodshed, or there will be no deterrent. If they still dare to come to you for trouble, if you pick the weakest one from among them, you will also give him a stick on the head.

However, this also has consequences, and from being beaten to being bullied since childhood, I am afraid that you will not have the courage and ruthlessness to do this. Even if you do, you will have to bear the medical bills, and the school will still punish you.

After weighing the pros and cons, you decide for yourself. If you're graduating now, just bear with it.

When you get to college, don't talk every day and keep yourself mysterious. Don't play with too many people, one or two friends are enough. If your temperament is not guessed by others, others will not dare to bully you.

After I transitioned from junior high school to high school, no one dared to mess with me in high school, and even after high school, the gangsters asked me to borrow a knife, and I ignored it.

Therefore, after you arrive in a new environment, don't speak loudly, under the silence it seems that you have some mystery, others will not dare to bully you, as for your situation, if you can't bear it, then fight, or transfer schools.

Finally, I hope you keep a certain amount of silence in college and don't talk too much!

I think since everyone else is bullying you, why can't you vent yourself, I think rabbits will bite when they are in a hurry, so you can't bear to bear it anymore, he will still bully you, you have to teach him a lesson.

You should take the initiative to approach him, get to know him, and see what kind of heart he has. It's easy to understand. Avoiding him is not the way to go.

Bullying others is immoral and irresponsible, and if a colleague has ever bullied you, this kind of behavior is an immeasurable source of filial piety to you. However, if bullying your colleague is making a big deal, you need to consider the following before considering whether to help him:

1.Keep yourself safe. If the bully co-worker commits something serious, you need to think about your own safety to avoid getting involved.

2.Get to know the truth and the situation of the matter. You need to understand the specific situation and the truth about the big thing that the colleague who bullied you to judge whether your help is meaningful.

3.According to their own situation and ability.