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There is a popular term in today's society: "giant baby", that is, young people do not work, do not act, gnaw on the old and a series of lifestyles such as eating and waiting for death.
However, there are several reasons why more and more young people choose such a lifestyle of "eating and waiting for death".
1. The doting of parents.
With the improvement of living standards, many families are now more spoiled for their children. Reluctant to let the child suffer a little grievance, reluctant to let the child suffer a little sin, resulting in the young people of today have formed a bad habit of laziness since childhood. "Clothes to stretch out your hands, food to open your mouth" has become the spokesperson of many young people, and finally led to these children not having the spirit of their own struggle after adulthood, forming a situation of "eating and waiting for death, getting by".
Some parents even think that if they can make their children's lives comfortable, they are good for their children. Therefore, many parents choose to use money to make up for their "lack of accompaniment", but they don't know that behind this is their children's own inaction.
2. There are no correct three views.
Due to the doting of their parents, children do not have the correct three views in their hearts, and they will not understand that they have to go through their own efforts and struggles in order to fight for their own world. They don't have their own purpose in mind, but instead act as parasites in their own comfortable living environment.
In the news, it has repeatedly appeared that many young people, even after graduating from college, do not look for a job, and just "eat and wait for death" at home.
3. There is no spirit of hardship.
Such people themselves do not have the spirit of enduring hardships, and they will retreat when they encounter difficulties, without any determination and perseverance to overcome difficulties. Because in the process of his growth, they did not form their own attitude of enduring hardships, and they relied on the assistance of others for everything, and eventually formed a life state of "eating and waiting for death".
Ten years of trees, 100 years of people", a person's growth is not an overnight thing. The formation of a lifestyle of "eating and waiting for death" is still related to the family growth environment, so raising a child is not just giving, but in the process of his growth, let him understand how to become a valuable person.
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Because more and more young people now feel that it is boring and meaningless to go to work at a fixed time and place every day, and they can't change their current situation, they think that going to work and not going to work has little impact on them, so there is a lifestyle of eating and waiting for death.
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Nowadays, young people have very good living conditions, their parents are too pampered, their material life can be satisfied, and there is no luxury, so they have become particularly decadent, and they are all "eating and waiting for death".
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Personally, I think there are two reasons for this, one is my own reasons, laziness, not being motivated, and my thinking is positive and decadent, and on the other hand, it is also related to the education of the family.
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Today's young people are like this, they are not self-motivated and do not want to forge ahead, they live a life of worry-free food and clothing, they are too happy, and then they have no direction in life to become like this.
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Personally, I think that in fact, it is never the work itself that really affects the family and life, but the waste of time on chores, and the lack of awareness of time management is the sadness of most young people.
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Each of us wants to have a successful career, and at the same time, we are also very concerned about job stability, hoping that we can have a stable work state, which can make our lives more stable. However, different people have different goals, so they choose to be hungry for dates. Therefore, in the face of Tongchi, a job that no one dismisses and can fish until retirement, how to make their own choices, different people make different choices.
Specifically, it includes young people pursuing continuous progress in their careers, they will not choose to fish jobs, older people pay more attention to stability, since they can fish until retirement, they will of course be willing to accept, and whether they will do a fish job until retirement depends on the state of salary. 1. For young people, they pursue continuous improvement in their careers, and they will not choose this job. Although it is leisurely to fish until retirement, it is not satisfactory in terms of career development.
For young people, they are full of energy and want to be able to continue to make progress and succeed in their careers. Therefore, for young people, they will definitely not be willing to choose this kind of fishing. ......Young people will choose more promising jobs and continue to work hard for career success.
2. Older people are more focused on stability, and they will be very willing to choose this job. For older people, they are no longer in the same physical condition as they were when they were younger, so they no longer have enough energy and physical strength to start a business. ......Job stability is the most important thing for them, and if there is a job that they can fish until retirement, they will be more than willing to accept it.
In fact, most of the people who do this kind of work are older. 3. Whether you can do this fishing job until retirement depends on the status of salary. If a job pays well and you can fish until retirement, I believe most people will be willing to accept the job.
But if the job pays a low package, then most people won't want the job. ......Therefore, the key factor in determining whether a job is worth doing is not the state of the job, but the ...... of the salary package of the jobOnly jobs with good salaries will be worth choosing. Otherwise, even if you can fish, and even if you can keep working as a stool wheel until retirement, no one will want to choose this job.
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Young people, eating and waiting for death is the hardest life.
Tagore said that on the road of life, some people do not stand in the same place, some are in front of the mountain, some are on the seaside, some are on the plain, but no one can stand still, and everyone has to move forward.
Each of us has our own position, high or low, top or low, hilltop or trough, not necessarily to create great achievements, but no matter where we are now, we have to work hard to forge ahead, because only by constantly improving can we succeed. And the enterprising heart who was swallowed up by a comfortable life will never be able to experience the sense of accomplishment that Jean Qing has achieved success after hard work.
And hard work is to live a positive and optimistic life, no matter what you do, you can't overcome the negative mentality if you can't keep up the spirit, you must concentrate and do your best to do it.
Time will leave the best for those who are most willing to work hard!
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